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Dating: Help and advice

I feel like I'm being ignored by my boyfriend...what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I don't know why but I feel like I'm being ignored by my boyfriend most of the time, I mean if we are alone then everything is fine but as soon as anyone else is there he talks to them and I feel like he's just completely blanking me, its not as if ...

How to get over my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I'm 14 and I got my 4th boyfriend this year. He asked me out and I thought I really liked him. I liked another boy and have done since I was ten, but when the bf asked me out I said yes. I did really like him but then he was so clingy, I wanted some ...

Can male actors manage to "remove" themselves from the scene enough so that the kiss does not make you aroused?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - Here is the story: I've gotten a role where I have a romantic partner, and my girlfriend is super nervous. She says she trusts me in the sense of knowing that nothing will happen between me and the actress off the stage. I've always been faithful to ...

How do I make a relationship work with someone who is in the Marines?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - How do I make my relationship work if I am in a relationship with someone who is in the Marines? How do I deal with understanding their responsibilities?...

How do you know that the person you love is your soul mate?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I know this is gonna sound stupid but it something that has been Worrying me for sometime now,I,ve been dating different gys in my Life but seem not to have an answer.I want 2 knw that how Do u tell that the person u in love with is your soul m...

She isn't romantically attached to me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend told me that she isn't romantically attached to me. Yet she finds me attractive and wants to be with me? I'm so confused. I told her that if she wants to move on from me then that is fine and I would not be hurt. But she insists that ...

I'm too shy to say "I love you"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - i'm in love with a guy but im just 2 shy to say i luv u.we already went to a drive in movie. plz give advice...

If I'm pretty then why have I been single for 16 years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - If this is true, then why don't i have a boyfriend? I've been single for going on 16 (yes 16) years, people tell me that I'm pretty and what not and that I can have any guy I want. IF that's true then why am I still single? I'm 34 years old and...

I don't know how to tongue kiss

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I really want to tongue kiss my bf friend but ive never done it before I know that he has but im not sure if he wants to with me What do I do?...

Does he like me or is he a raving lunatic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I imagine this topic has been done to death but i am confused. I like someone a lot and I just can't work out if he's interested. I catch him staring at me often sometimes with a huge smile (not sure if this is a sign or he's a little mad). I saw ...

I can't cope with the fact that she has no time for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - I'm at the end of my rope here, I've been togheter with my gf for about 6,5 months, and during that time I've seen her once a week, sometimes twice a week, but never for more then 3-6 hours at a time. She made it clear that she wants to study h...

How do people jump into VERY affectionate relationships so fast?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - Some of my friends have like five relationships a year! And all of them seem just as close and affectionate as the wonderful one it took me five years to develop with my now ex. I thought it would last forever. Then she broke up with me for some...

I love her but she treats me like a brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - Hi guys..I have this best friend of mine about a year now since we meet..I love her her but am afraid to tell her becouse she treat me like her brother..I don't think if she will understand me if I will tell her..indeed am afraid of my ...

How to change a man's mind about relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I have couple of posts related to this problem and heres upto date info :) Please help meee!! I met this guy in late Sept 2010, we were getting along so great for a month. After a month of dating him, I knew that I really like him and i'm ready to...

No christmas or birthday card from my boyfriend, is it OK for me to be upset?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I wrote on here a few weeks ago about how my boyfriend of 5 months didn't get me even a card for Christmas after I got him a $200 gift. My birthday was a week later and I did not get even a card for that either. Am I being a baby or do I have a r...

Is he just a flirty man or is he a player? I don't want another one of the latter.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - i am trying to decided what this could mean . is he just a flirty man with women or is he a player . had a friend of my say this to me an i have got to think about this . that the man i am interested in he is friendly an confident like the attention ...

He changes the subject when I text to tell him I love him. Why would he do this? Feels like I love him more than he loves me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I recently started dating a guy that I've known for about 5 months. We started dating Dec 23rd. Well, I'm starting to question this relationship. When I text him to say things like: "I like you, I miss you, I miss being with you", things like ...

How do I figure out if he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - There is this guy that i really like but i am not sure if he likes me.He recently sent me a text saying I am the one but he has never expressed any interest on me before that and before he sent the text we used to talk a lot(almost endless hours ...

I don't know what to make of his behaviour!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - The guy I'm seeing has also requested me a friend on facebook, I accepted. I get on kinda of late at night, he has made comments about me trying to meet someone else, told him no. I did the 21 question thing and sent it to him, he took it down off ...

I keep falling into passionate platonic relationships!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been noticing a trend I have of falling into "passionate platonic relationships" with certain men. It's not that I'm not attracted to men in general, but the ones who really trigger me emotionally end up being platonic friends...

He's asking me what I want in the bedroom and I don't know what to say!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - -I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. -We are very private so none of our friends know about us. -I lost my virginity to him, therefore am not very experienced in the bedroom -We are both of legal age (me 18, him 20) So we wer...

She dumped me via a text, depicted me as not OK, yet I still love her what can I fdo.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - Hello all, my gf of 3 years, went to uni and dumped me over text and got with another guy the very next weekend! Three months on, i'm suffering from the heartbreak and she is in a "loving" relationship with this guy. I guess i,m happy if she's happy ...

Should my girlfriend and I transfer colleges?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both 19 and have been dating for 2 years. We both just completed our first semester of college. The problem is, we made a decision to go to separate colleges back when our relationship was still new. But we know now that we ...

Should I leave him alone or hang around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I also have been seeing this guy we talked on and off for about 2 years now! maybe even more than that we got intimate at one point but NEVER went all the way he used to live in LA and i lived in NY we stayed in touch with one another but once he ...

I'm single because I lose interest in the relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I can never seem to stay in a relationship for a long period of time..i blame myself on that part because i am the type that always lose interest fast and things just dont seem to excite me anymore, I hate talking on the phone and i rather be in ...

Can you be in a relationship for 1.5 years and never say I love you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I am 21 and I'm dating a 27 year-old guy. We have told each other 'I love you' and everything has been going great. He told me he had never told another girl he loved her and I'm having a hard time believing that. He has dated someone for a year and ...

I dream about having a special girl in my life. How? I'm all out of ideas. And What can I do to make this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - I've been single all my life and it's really starting to get to me. All of my friends are already married or in long term relationships leaving me as the only single guy in my social circle. I love hanging out with them but it always seems to ...

I haven't been with a man in 2 years

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - Okay.... I need dating advice. I've been working from my home, and set up appointments. To meet up with my clients I am also finishing my Masters Degree, on the contrary to being shy I take a 180m I have modeled before but I haven't been a man for ...

She's bothered about what her friends will think

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - I am 42, my girlfriend of 4 years is 26. I originally lived with my brother after splitting with my previous girlfriend. 2 years ago, my now girlfriend wanted us to get our own places, live seperately for a year or , then move in together. I got a ...

Am I pansexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - Ok, so I'm a 19 year old female. Lately I'e been having some problems labeling what's going on in my head. I don't know if it's just a collection of what-if's or if it's an actual thing. I'd really like to clear this up in my head, because it's ...

Do guys change over time? Are they perfect the first couple of months and later they show their real faces?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years. It was all great and perfect in the beginning. He used to give me flowers, we used to hang out and be happy. This was the first couple of months. After that I guess he got too comfortable with me and he ...

I'm scared he won't date me in the future!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - me and someone who i was dating are still friends and i want to date again but i messed up really bad though i never actually cheated and i relize that i really messed up but i also relized how much im inlove with him he told me that its a ...

Friend flirting on the girl I failed on. Need help with myself.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - Earlier this year I decided to go after my high school crush. I jumped in to fast and she let me down softly (thank god) and said we didn't know each other well enough yet. I made a mistake there, and I hate myself every day because of it. I still ...

My boyfriend doesn't want me around his friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend doesnt seem to want me around his friends....we have been dating 7 months now, I have briefly met his closest friend and his wife and another older friend. Briefly, meaning they stopped by for a few minutes one day when I was at his ...

He still checks an online dating site, I wonder if I am being played

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - I met a man on a dating site, we have been dating a little over a month. I really like him and he said he really likes me too. He brought up deleting our accounts, I deleting mine, he said he can't figure out how to delete his. He said he is not ...

My lady friend's daughter caught us cyber sexting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - My lady friend's daughter snooped her phone and caught us cyber-sex-ting She is 72 and I am 69 and now they will not let me see her mother. Any advice? It was only texting and nothing being acted out. D...