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writes:Its a long story, but i'll explain as briefly as possible. I think i found my soul mate, but his actions speak otherwise. We dated a year ago, and ever since then i couldnt get him off my mind. When we were dating strange things happened. The first odd encounter was when i read his mind. I didnt hear what he was saying in that brief second, it was more like i saw his memories. He was remembering how his recent ex sat in the same chair i was sitting in. When i asked him if he was thinking of that he asked" yeah howd u know". The next strange encounter was when we found out we both lived in the same town in Colorado and ended up living in the same town in new york. Then a couple months into the relationship, he told me about a dream he had, about us both living in Colorado and meeting. The WEIRD thing was without having this dream... i already knew what happened and can explain everything from my own perspective as he explained his. Every kiss, every touch, even when i heard his voice id get goosebumps and stopped my heart. We even had a incident where we were both in pain at the same time because of a weird feeling in ours hearts. He told me he wanted to marry me and wanted me to carry his child. So, being overwhelmed and excited with this i lost my virginity to him. A couple weeks later he broke up with me and starting dating this girl who i despise with a passion. He recently told me, that all those things that happened, the fact that i might be his soul mate scared him. He said he never lied about a word he told me, he just isn't ready. his exact words " i told you i wanted to marry you, but that didnt mean right away". is it possible that were ment to be but we had the wrong timing? or is he playing along just for tight vagina? im so confused, but i know i feel an unconditional, unexplainable love for him. tell me what u think.
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reader, jenrock +, writes (17 January 2011):
jenrock is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you that helps a lot. i thought so... because regardless of which soul mate a person receives, i don't think they were put on this earth to force pain and suffering, kind of like what happened to me. It might be just my third eye warning about things. for example, the day he told me he'd never hurt me and would never leave me, and if i left him he'd fight for me back, i have a dream about us dating in the future and he told me he cheated on me, except he didn't do what he said. he didn't fight for me nor did he chase after me... i just kept clinging onto him thinking it was meant to be, since these paranormal activities only happened with him. thank you for your help, i didn't know who to turn to. everyone swore i was insane with this story, when in reality i wish i was. then there would be an explanation for all of this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011): A soul mate isn't someone who dumps you after you lose your virginity to him for another girl! This is a classic case of a guy telling you exactly what you wanted to hear to get in your pants. I know rejection is difficult but maybe you can learn from this and pay more attention to actions than words with the next person so you don't get taken advantage of so easily.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011): From my own personal experience of being involved in certain relationships, I have come to realize there are three different levels of Soul Mates. We discussed Soul Mates in a previous article of mine, 'Soul Mates - Do they really exists" now we should keep our eyes open and pay closer attention to our relationships, in order that we might recognize those soul mates.
Soul mates have different tasks to fulfill in your life, and likewise theirs. It is not always the case that these relationships will exist on a level where 'physical' interaction is involved and this should not be confused with their initial task toward you. Some Soul Mates are here only to serve as being a link between two other Soul Mates of theirs in the first place. This alone is a very important and significant task, as without that link the reunion of the other souls might not ever happen. We will identify with the different characteristics of those Soul Mates together and you should, therefore, be able to detect some of them who are present in your life at this time.
As you can see, there is no limit to what a true Soul Mate might do in order to provide their support and, on many occasions, it is not fully understood why they do so. You might question my statement and wonder why a Soul Mate will give up his or her own Soul Mate to provide a link for someone else to move on in! I mean is this not the dream we are searching for all of our lives? Well, that's beauty of Soul Mate, that is, unconditional love!
Soul Mates are a universal flow of untapped energy that we can relate to as love and many of us do not understand the meaning of this. It is the same thing we keep avoiding all our life when we don't invest ourselves fully in our relationships anyway! On an unconscious level, Soul Mates tap into that energy of unconditional love.
Regardless of the level of your Soul Mate, it does not mean in any way or form that Soul Mates have to be involved in a physical relationship in order for them to be together. In any of those levels, it is very easy to fall into the trap of taking things for granted. This should be avoided at all costs. Both Soul Mates have to be ready to embark into their journey together, and this is very important for the relationship to succeed.
Here are the three levels of Soul Mates I have come to realize and understand through experiences of my own:
Level One: Your mirrored image – These are a rare example. However, it is possible that they do exist in each of our lives at one point or another. We might have one or two in a lifetime from this category, if we are lucky! What makes them special? Soul Mates of this sort come into our life in a fast, weird and unexpected way. The situations and events in our lives begin to change of their own accord, in order to accommodate the arrival and the reunion of both Souls. In such a case such as this, it is can almost be said that it is 'written in the stars!' Both Souls have to be ready for each other, as I did explain before it is not enough to sustain the relationship at its full potential, only by existing as Soul Mates. This level is the strongest and most powerful type of Soul Mates. They do have many similar interests and share an almost equal interest in their life direction. They will think alike, and in many cases will be able to continue speaking a sentence where the other one has left off. They are a mirror of each other, although they do not have to be exactly the same. However, each one compliments the other with their individual strengths and weaknesses and they will understand each other by being on same 'wavelength'.
Level Two: Your Supporter – Soul Mates of this sort are everywhere around you. Try to take deeper look at the people who surround you. Just look around when you are in dire need of help or guidance in a 'life or death' situation or at a time when you have a heavy burden on your shoulders. Who is around you and ready to listen to you when you really need their assistance? Think of the people who bring you comfort and peace when you need it, or who answer your call when you need some help. These types of Soul Mates do have unconditional love towards each other which can sometimes be difficult to comprehend. Is there someone in your life, of whom, you can relate to being there in that fashion?
Level Three: Your Provider – We encounter these types of Soul Mates in situations that might feel 'weird' or perhaps in some un-expected places. We like to refer to them, sometimes, as being our angels. If they occur, they usually will not stay in our lives for a great length of time. You might come across a Soul Mate of this kind when you are just wondering along the street, thinking away to yourself and from nowhere someone will provide with you a small message that will open up a possible answer to those 'thoughts' you have upon a certain circumstance in your life. These Soul Mates are placed on your path 'out of the blue' and we might never see their face again! We then carry on, feeling blessed at having had them in our life at that necessary moment. Their role is to provide us with an answer or a push toward making a small decision in order to keep us moving in our lives and struggles at that time. Can you relate to such an occurrence in your life?
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 hi
apparently in life you get more than one soul mate and you should not take 'soul mate' to mean the 'man you are going to marry'. it could be anyone, a friend, a relative, a pet even! i think you are very intuitive and maybe even have psychic skills (helped by the fact of course that you are so open to the idea!)
whether he is your soul mate, twin-soul or share a karmic connection, (google these terms for more clarification) is irrelevant, the fact is; in the 'here and now' is that he accepted your virginity, (something really precious) and then decided to dump you in a matter of weeks, then took up with someone else straight away.
the presence of psychic powers, sixth sense etc whatever terms you choose to use is debatable, it is possible that you may have skills of this sort, but i don't think he has! some men will SAY and 'go along with' ANYTHING if it ensures they will get sex. sad but true, so be more careful who you share your body and soul with next time
xx
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