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Archived questions from: 20 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I have a rather large crush on him

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20 January 2011 (?) - Ugh. I can't believe how vile I am. To cut to the chase, there is a guy I like in the year above me at sixth form, he's in his last year and we've been friends for about five years now. Last year we were mixed doubles partners in badminton and over ...

She's the girl of my dreams -- how to proceed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - What happens now? I'm pretty sure I have met the girl of my dreams. It's taken me a while to find her, and I am extremely happy with how things have been going so far. Spending time with her is amazing, we cuddle and talk and we have made...

We hardly ever speak face to face

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - im having bad problems with my bf and i seriously dont know what to do about it a)he hardly ever speak face to face we only speak on MSN or i have to always say the first sentance. b)he gets disctracted by other girls. i seriously dunno what to ...

We want to go further but no privacy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4856 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - hey, i'm a girl and i'm 16 before i start.. here it goes: i've been seeing this guy for a few weeks now, dates, movie, he has met my mum and i've met his. I have known him for years but only just started properly getting close. I feel ready to go fu...

I have many guy friends but I only really like one of them. How do I show him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4855 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I’m 17 and a junior in high school. Ok so there’s this guy I like for almost 3 years now. Yeah I’ve had little crushes here and there, but I’ve always put the guy I like first. We always almost end up dating, but it never works out and I always end ...

I have a crush on a much younger woman... should I ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - I have a huge crush on a girl who is much younger than me (10+ years). We met at college where I am much older than most of the other students, but I have had no problem with making friends among them. I also can tell that at some point she liked ...

I'm 13 and haven't had many boyfriends. I really want one!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - i havent had very many boyfreind at my age i really want one! im 13 and at my age going out with people is usually because of your looks and i hate my hair! im ok with make up but i cant get my hair straight through the day i cant afford a really ...

Do I really need to pretend like I'm too busy to hang out with him in order to get him interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I like this guy and my friends all know I do. When I asked them about going to hang out with him they told me that I act too available and that I should not go. The last time we hung out was a week ago and we ended up hanging out with some of my ...

In love with my boyfriend, but I still feel drawn to my ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I have this problem and it’s more of an emotional problem. My boyfriend and I have been happily dating for almost a year. During that time, my ex has been talking to me a lot and begging for me back because he hasn’t given up on me. He doesn’t do ...

Younger woman said she loved me, but now that she's single, she is avoiding me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - Ok, I met a girl about 6 months ago at her work, and when i walked out the door to leave her manager came outside to tell me that this girl said that I was going to be her husband one day. Well after about a week or so me and this girl exchanged ...

Are first kisses important?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - Are first kisses important? I had mine when I was 7, and it was just a peck with a boy in my class. I now look back on it and it's a pretty cute first kiss even though there was no chemistry involved. A few months ago I got in a relationsh...

Is he the guy or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I love this guy that i'm wondering about.i'm wondering if he is guy or not. we have been seeing each other for about 4 yrs. I meet him at a gas station it was close to christmas time. He bought me underwear, bras,short skirts, I thought of it very ...

I left out details to spare my girlfriend. Was that ok?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend of 1 year and I have moved into together and gotten pretty serious. I've always been the guy to be honest and not have things catch up with me in the later stages of a relationship. My girlfriend and I met on a Friday night, ...

He's a sweet guy, he'd never cheat on my. But I don't feel any spark. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I really liked this guy for a while last year, and when I found out he liked me too; we started to see eachother. We've now been together for almost 2 months. However ever since we started being an item I haven't liked him; he's completely in love...

I'm insecure and I don't feel beautiful to him. Should I persist trying to make it work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend who I have been on and off for 4 years with, recently got back together with me. He wanted back in. However, I'm finding it hard to be with him because of my own insecurities. He hates make up but I have some acne scars that I'm really ...

She will not even let me hold her hand. Why is she so resistant to hand holding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - i have recently started dating my friend.i want to kiss her. I was just talking to her on the phone with her and jokingly i just said that i'll tickle her. She said that she won't even let me touch her. Whenever i'm with her she hasn't even held...

I am hooked on this mystery with a very private man!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I have not been so out of wits in relationships...this man totally confuses me to the extent that i have no idea if he is using me, or lying to me, or he is so into me that he worries and withdraws.... we met on line and were attracted to eac...

Does he love me and should I wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I met a guy (R) when I was 13 but didn’t like him so we didn’t date. 4 years later we randomly meet again and start talking. From the beginning I considered him a best friend and after a couple weeks of talking he asked me to be his gf. We were ...

We were good friends, and now she is ignoring me! What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - i like a girl who is my classmate i actually have crush on her and she also knows it and at one time we were good friends and now it hapenns is she is ignoring me?...

18 and not had a relationship......

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - Here's the thing I'm an 18 year old male and not to blow my own trumpet or anything, but just to set the scene. I am fairly good looking, I've been told by other people. I'm intelligent. I am also popular I have lots of good friends. I haven't...

Is it wrong to think of my girlfriend when masturbating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - should i masterbate thinking about my girlfriend? i have just started dating her but i had a crush on her for years? i kind of feel bad thinking of her in such a way ?help please........

How to win him over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - Hey everyone,im a 21 year old gay guy and i am madly in love with a guy who goes to work with me.Well i am no hottie,well i have kinda pretty eyes and long legs but i am not very hot.But this guy who im talking about is like the sexiest man in this ...

Does the guy I lost my virginity to still have feelings for me?

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20 January 2011 (F) - i am 16 years old and i just lost my virginity may of last year to a long time friend. we had been friends since the 7th grade. we had sex 1 other time but that was it. now we barely speak because he hurt me because of his lies and deceitfulness. ...

Advice on dating a Turkish man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I am looking for advice on dating a Turkish man. We met on match.com a couple weeks ago, and have gone on 2 dates (both times we spent hours together talking) he is kind, charming, funny, polite and overall seems like a wonderful man. All I know ...

AmI just over -reacting or is something wrong here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I am interested in this guy....he was a very close friend of mine. A few months ago ; when both of us were a bit tipsy , we kissed. Then a week later, we met again and we just couldn't keep our hands off each other. We stay in different cities...

Should I date my friend from high school?

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20 January 2011 (F) - My good friend from high school and I had a "moment" the other day and I am wondering if it is wise to date my friend from high school? We have both graduated college, by the way. ...

Should I take a leap of faith or face reality?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I am currently struggling with a huge decision in both my career and love life. I currently live in Panama with the love of my life. We are young (19, 20) but we are both extremely happy with each other, have been together 3 years and we live ...

Should I hang around and support him or is it time for me to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - So I have gotten myself into a real mess and I do realise it. I have been dating a guy that lives in a different country, for several months. He has made several references to getting married, as well as asked directly. The problem is he has ...

My boyfriend has complex relationships with all three of his ex girlfriends, and I don't know what to make of this situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend stays very close with at least three of his ex-girlfriends. We met over a year ago and got close through email, etc while he was out of the country. During that time, he had a girlfriend that he told me was basically on the outs with ...

Men: Would you date a taller woman?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

20 January 2011 (?) - I am tall for a woman, just about 6'-0." While I physically prefer taller men, I can't really afford to be picky and so have dated shorter men. Sometimes though, they seem embarassed about the height difference, too embarassed to take me seriousl...

What should I do with a man who states that all he needs in life is his children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I met a divorced man about 10 months ago. We have been talking and seeing each other on and off over the last 8 months. We have become intimate and enjoy each others company when we are able to meet. Recently, he mentioned that he didn't want me ...

Is it possible to love two people at once?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - Is it possible to love two people at once? Are you a bad person if you see things in people that you are attracted to, that connect you to them? My story, I guess I've always loved this guy that I met when I was 16. It seems like time has never be...

Should I ask this co-worker out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - Should I ask this girl out? I work with her and have recently realised I have feelings for her when I actually look forward to go to work just because she is there. Problem is while we flirt and stuff we aren't very much alike she hangs out with a ...

How on earth do you find someone you just CLICK with?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I don't know why I am SO anxious to have a boyfriend. It's driving me crazy. Okay, so, I'm 21 years old. I'm in the nursing program studying to become an RN. I'm very busy all the time now. I have only ever had ONE relationship when I was 19 ye...

Not sure if I should settle or not! Help please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

20 January 2011 (M) - Hello All!! I have been divorced for a long time (after writing this, it is becoming more clear why), since the mid 90's and have had two other serious relationships along with a few years of trying to work it out with the ex-wife and then few...

Birth control/sex question!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are planning on having sex after 3 years together. We will use Ortho Options Gynol II contraceptive gel and Trojan Warming sensations condoms. My first question is what would the effectiveness of these together be? and secondly ...

We've been together now for over 3 months but still haven't had sex!!!

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20 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 and a half months, but haven't had sex! We are very close and have a strong connection, however, he is reluctant to fully have sex with me. We have fooled around orally and we both obviously turn e...