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Archived questions from: 28 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He said he doesn't love me anymore -- does he mean it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years. We have had our ups and downs just like anyone else. We have broken up several times but seem to get back together. The other day we got into a fight and he told me that he didnt love me ...

My boyfriend doesn't really like to talk on the phone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - dear readers, i would like some female help or a male opinion on this one.if my boyfriend doesnt like to talk on the phone very much should i just wait for him to call me? he loves me and i know that, but i just love talking to him on the phone...

I hit my girlfriend, is it my fault or hers?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - im 15 ma girlfriends 14 were in the same year but im not proud of what i did but i need some advice me and my girlfriend were arguing after something that happened at school i kinda said she was flirting with my bestmate because she was hugging him ...

I'm confused, do I like him or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4844 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I like a guy not for sure if he is interested in me. I'm always talking about that i just want to be his friend but I really want more just dont know how to tell him. It may be me I'm may have falling to fast...

He knows I like him, but how can I know what he thinks of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4847 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - The guy That I Like Knows I like him and talking to him is fine but I don't know what he feels and I am too scared to ask him what he thinks in case its bad. I like him as a really good friend as well but I have a massive crush on him and I just ...

My "lover" won't date me because he thinks he's gay?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4847 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Okay so i am fairly young and shouldn't really have relationship problems in the first place. But anyways, im only 15, i have a "Lover" i guess you would say that, he is 16, but i dated this guy before, and then we kind of just drifted and then ...

I can't tolerate porn due to a horrible experience in my past!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - My problem is that I hate porn. It dates back to many years ago when I had an awful experience and I have explained this to my partner and how it reminds me of a horrible time in my life which I have sought profession help to overcome. I told him ...

Thinking of giving him seductive (not naked!) pics for Valentines

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I want to give my boyfriend of 2 years some sexy pictures of me this valentines day. However I do not want to be naked, or have my body exposed in any way, as I have heard horror stories of how this can turn out. What I would like to do is ...

I'm in love with 2 boys and don't know who to choose!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I am 18 years old and I have a boyfriend, I love him very much, he is really sweet when he wants to be and am quite sure he loves me, he adores me but he is not very understanding. It's hard opening up to him sometimes so I met someone else who ...

Why didn't he give me a Christmas gift?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Why didn't my bf give me anything for Christmas? I send him something personalized.. I send him a Christmas card and all he said thank you he was happy and all... but its almost February and he never gave me anything...Last year for Valentines we ...

I feel we have something more but I just don't know.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4844 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Alright so, a few weeks ago, I starting hanging out with my friend a lot more before I went away to college. We hooked up. I really did not expect him to follow up or keep talking to me. Maybe its just my insecurities but I'm still surprised he ...

Girlfriend's best male friend is an old fling, which makes me way uncomfortable.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I have just started seeing a new girl. She has admitted she has never felt this way about anyone in the past, and I feel the same; this is all after only 2 months. My problem is that one of her closest male friends is someone she has slept with in ...

How do I ask my friend out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I really really like my friend in high school.. she's perfect..everything a guy could ask for.. but idk how to ask her about her bf/ ex.. she hasn't talked about him in awhile and I haven't noticed her with him and she's been really flirty for the ...

I really really like her but so does my friend! Advice needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4847 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - theres this girl i really really like and i have fallen in love with her. we used to talk a bit but now we speak very regularly. i think that she likes me but i'm not 100% sure. the problem is that my best friend really really likes her t...

She is so uncomfortable talking about our relationship, how do I get this to move forward?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I'm not quite sure which category this should go into, since it's a long story that crosses a few. So I met this girl online. This was about two years ago and we met on a penpal website, not a dating website. She's a Korean who lives in South K...

Do you think he's gay, or just a man with feminine traits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I met this man over a year ago. We worked together on the same project for probably 6 months. We had quite a few conversations in which we found out we had so much in common. We continued to get to know each other and I asked him to go for a ...

My ex-wife is dating someone else....and its too hard for me to accept this

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (?) - I recently found out my ex wife is dating. We were separated for a year and the divorce was just finalized. It was amicable and mutual. I've been working on returning to a sense of myself, healing and planning for the future. I thought I had mo...

Why do I want this other guy sexually when I'm in love with my fiancé?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm in a mess and I really need some advice. I'm 23 years old and I have been with my fiancee for nearly 5 years, we've just got engaged and we're extremely happy together. I love him more than anything and I couldn't imagine being without ...

23 and in love with a 43 year old woman....will this work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I am a male aged 23 years old. I am in love with a lady aged 43 years old. Can this relationship be successful? We love each other very much....

Is my boyfriend trying to dump me again??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Hi my bf was really moody and nasty with me for the past 2 weeks. I felt very depressed and scared that he is going to dump me again ( he already did twice) and called him yesterday middle of the night. When i logged into IM today to chat wit...

I'm allowing this impossible crush to ruin my life...help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - It's been asked a billion times. How to get a crush out of ones head. As the story goes... I met a woman, I fell for her from the first second I saw her, we talked, I could not take her off my mind and we met and met again, at some point I con...

My boyfriend is a selfish lover. Do I give him more chances, or kick him to the wind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I've been widowed for 11 years now and haven't dated at all in all that time. My son is now in University, and my 2 daughters will be heading there in the next year. This past November, I started dating a man that I've known for many years. Afte...

I chased a loser and lost a winner...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Hi everybody I came here to vent and maybe someone can help me out. I'm lost and sad. I spent the past 4 and half years chasing after a man who come to find out had a fiancee. I found that out half way through but didn't leave him since he kept ...

I have no female friends and am lonely. I have turned to masturbation to cope!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - Dear cupid, i am a 19yr old guy, pursuing engineering.i have this strange dis-order of social illness.I have very few friends and i want to remain in their zone only, people don't like me because of my this introvert nature. I cannot mark my prese...

Will we end up like everyone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Me and my guy have been together for a year and a half now, and going strong. He is truly my best friend, my soul mate and we get along great! As time has passed though, I have seen a lot of the relationships that were going on around us (frien...

How do I tell him to kiss me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - ok well im 13 and i have a boyfriend and hes really shy and we have been dateing for awhile and he hasnt kissed me and he told my friend he was gonna kiss me awhile ago and he hasnt but i dont want to kiss him first so how do i tell him i want him ...

I'm really into her, any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - So I'm a freshman in highschool and Ive had a crush on a junior since beginning of 2nd quarter started now in 3rd she just transferred into my theater class and it's been really hard not to admire her (stare) ;P sometimes when I'm not looking I'll ...

Should I enough them to break up by telling him about his Gf's cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - This guy started talking to me back in march of '10. I never gave him the time of day, but gradually he started to like me. I only saw him as a friend. Then I started to realize how cool a person he is and how he's been trying to get with me for ...

I could treat him so much better than his girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - well basically to start off,im 16 i may seem young to some people on here but ive had to grow up real quick, quicker than other teenagers so im really machore and i need some advice, i dont normally ask for advice myself because im the type of ...

I don't know what I do that makes guys not interested

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I have known my best friend all of my life, shes has been well known for having a bf and having guys after her. where as im the one who doesnt get any attention. She knows that i feel down about this even though i am happy to be alone im use to it, ...

Am I addicted to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I've been dating my bf for almost 6 months. I'm 19 he's 33. Eventho he works and I go to school we used to see each other once or twice a week. We used to go out to eat and we used to have sex every time I saw him. Now he has been busy and haven't ...

Is she a loose girl? her type of manner is turning me off.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - hiya all, i have a liking for this girls who i'll call jane. jane says she likes me the same. thing's jane's always talking about other boys that wanna go out with her. it makes me uncomfortable and irked. why does she always do it everytime we ...

Does it matter that I'm black?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

28 January 2011 (M) - I'm 14 and on the ending stretch of my 8th grade year. I really like this girl and she is really nice to me and I Am nice back. I was thinking about asking her out but I'm black and she's white. I don't have a problem with white people all of my ...

He said we were moving too fast ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4849 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I met someone through friends about 8 months ago. We started with simply text messages and a couple phone calls and I really liked him. We wanted to same things out of a relationship and life. He seemed perfect. We decided to take things slow ...