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Archived questions from: 13 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Faded love...how do I deal with my ex??Confused and clueless!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, were both 19. we had a rocky relationship, we had fun and commitment, after she lied to me (not cheating), we did fight a lot. The last time i saw her (5 days after break up) she told me she doesn't love me ...

Depressed boyfriend thinks that there are problems in the relationship that he cant put into words...Iv given him the space that he wants...but what can I do now??

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13 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. In the past, he broke up with me for a month because he was depressed, but then he realized that he was lonely and wasn't afraid of a relationship with me and came back. Recently his ...

I always said "I Love You" when I didn't mean it and now that I mean it, I just can't say it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

13 January 2011 (?) - We were friends on facebook but we never chat. I was oneday tagged in some basketball pictures and when he saw that he sent me a message for the first time. He plays basketball in college and for the country, and am into basketball too. He got my ...

Does it seem like my advisor is attracted to me or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Am i reading into this too much, or do you think my advisor is attracted to me ?. I am on a course that i have to go to every couple of weeks, as my advisor is helping me to look for a job. Every time I go there he says " bye sweetheart " when i'm ...

My 32 year old friend exclusively dates 18-22 year old girls...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (?) - Dear Aunties: I have a close friend who I've known since university. He just turned 32 and he dates women who are much younger then him. Exclusively. They tend to be in the 18-22. Often he jokes around and pokes fun at himself for "liking...

Lack of commitment from him, he won't put a label on our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - Okay heres the thing sort of an awkward situation. So back about two years ago i met this guy online for just intercourse. I was only 18 at the time and really confused about my sexuality. It was my first time with a guy. So after that I decided I ...

Why can't my boyfriend make me orgasm???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have had sex a few times now and i was wondering Why can't he make me orgasm? We've had a lot of foreplay but he doesn't come either. I'm usually on top and we're quite rough but neither of us come! Help!...

I want to break up this couple

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - I have decided to fight for the girl I love even though she is in a relationship with someone else. I understand I am doing something extremely unethical and horrible but I just could not persuade myself to stand there like an idiot and watch ...

We've been dating for 2 weeks and now I feel we're growing apart!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - OK so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 weeks now and i feel we are moving apart and also when i asks him how doo i look he says fine ? i always compliment him but he never does to me he gives me hugs and kissed me on the check for a dare ...

Does he fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Hey, I hope that you can help me out with this :) I'm just wondering if this guy fancies me or not :L I don't usually talk to him, and we only really started talking just before Christmas :P but in that time he has added me on fb and msn and I wa...

(Why) do women prefer bad boys?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - I've got a new question for you, inspired by another post... One for the ladies, and one for the men :) When I range my friends on a scale from bad-boy til decent, and compare it with their success with dating (not necessary including happy ...

Why am I so eager to find someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - I'm 19, have Asperger's Syndrome, I'm a uni student. I have plenty of friends, have a great family, but one thin I don't have is that special someone. I've had two relationships, one which last 2 years where my ex refused to touch me in anyway be...

Is it commitment that I'm afraid of?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

13 January 2011 (?) - ive had 4 girlfriends over the past 5 years, but its the last 2 that are important. in my last relationship it started to get serious and i was fine with that. me and my ex are good friends and talk all the time. she was also entering a serious ...

How can I work with her without wanting to ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - I’m 49 and single a 26 year old work mate asked me out. After a few dates we had sex. I fell in love and she didn’t. Now she just wants to be friends, “hang out” = no sex. I need more to continue the relationship we started. I know there are social ...

What does adventurous really mean? Having sex in weird places?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - i had been dating this lad for the past 6 months we split up in march 2010. we havent spoke since but we have recontly just got talking and we both had change, we alwasy used to argue abouot stupid things. in the time we never spoke he starting ...

I was sure my love would change him! He's never been able to trust me after I chatted to a guy on FB!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - hi all.... i am trapped and feeling helpless every where.. OK the story starts ..i met a guy when i was in my school..he was a newcomer and i was trapped in love at first site ..wow he is super stunning just like a prince i was in love with...

Was I right to set my depressed friend up with a girl who liked me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - so i'll tell you the story first, then the question. well i went out with this girl and she had some fun, but i was not ready for it (i didn't bring enough money). after that we went to my best friend's place and watched a movie. when she left, my ...

One minute I think he might be flirting a little bit and the next not at all and it just continues on in a little bit of a cycle... any thoughts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - I've had a crush (thats the best term I suppose) on a guy that I've worked with for several months now and while workplace rules prevent anything the situation is about to change (so that we could date if we wanted) and I'm not sure what to make of ...

Feeling trapped about moving in together...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Hi everyone My boyfriend and I are going to be moving in together for the first time at the end of this month. I was very excited at first, we've always talked and fantasized about it and it was actually me who got the ball rolling, but now...

Can I get some dating tips on how to have a chance with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - Ok so i'm a freshman in high school, and there's this girl. It turns out that i have a huge crush on her thats been going on for the past three months. I've never had a girlfriend before so i can't even talk to her without freaking out. The strange ...

S it healthy for a man to masturbate even if his girlfriend will give it to him whenever he wants?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Is it healthy for a man to masturbate even if his live in girlfriend will give it to him whenever he wants? Do I have a right to be upset if he rejects having sex with me time to time yet masturbates instead..keep in mind, two days in a row wihtout ...

I'm older than my boyfriend, am I doing anything bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - I am 17 will be 18 in March. My boyfriend is 15 and will be 16 in February! I feel like he and i are on the same level and no relationship ive ever been in has been as good as this one is! Sometimes, I feel bad because I'm older. I just need a ...

How long will a woman chase a man by phone only?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - How long will a woman chase a man if the chasing can only be done by phone? How can I shorten the chase and how can I drag it out if needed? Please at least let me know if you are male or female....

Was I in denial about my true feelings for him that were just being masked my my silly infatuations with other guys at the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Ok,so a little less than two years ago, me and this guy dated. But, I broke it off, because it just "wasn't working out". Honestly though, it really wasn't working on my end. My feelings for him just weren't as strong as I had believed them to be. ...

I don't know how to judge a good relationship anymore. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Hey. I am a single mom and so choosing someone to be with is a very important decision. I am not sure if I am making the right one. I am with a man now who is older than me, but not unreasonably so. He is experienced and knows how to liv...

How could I be so smart in every other department in life but be so brain-dead over this dead-beat boyfriend??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I'm not sure if I'm in love with him, but I must be... He's been unemployed for 2 years and gained 70 pounds in 2 years. (The year he was actually good-looking, talented, and employed, he was constantly ...

I've spent my whole life protecting myself from potential danger...and now I have someone that wants to love me but I won't let them.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - I've been through alot in my life. I was born with a leg deformity, which i've fully corrected through several surgeries. Because of it, especially in my childhood I was teased, bullied and also starred at alot because of the problem I had. I was ...

Do teenaged guys like inexperienced girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Hi, Everyone. I am a fourteen year old girl, almost fifteen, who is a freshman at my high school. I am not very popular, but people know me in a good way. Because of that, I was nominated for Homecoming Lady of Freshmen Class this year. I am not the ...

Is it unreasonable to not really feel loved just because he doesn't kiss me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - how do I know if my boyfriend of 8 months really loves me :(.....he tells me all the time but a lot of the time I just don't feel loved....and I don't want to tell him that because if I was doing all I could to show my love for someone and then they ...

What do I do? Boyfriend dating other girls even my friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - i'm 24 years old. i have a boyfriend,J, who love me so much ! we've been dating for 4 years. my 2 years with him is so great. i knew him when we studied together in university. so we spent so much time together. but after 2 years, he's changed. i ...

I feel like I'm acting like a silly teenager with this guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - There is a guy I know who I am really keen on. He knows this and has done for a while but at the time said he wasn't interested. The problem I have is that I see him regularly so I can't avoid him or forget about him etc, and I know he's unatta...

My boyfriend flirts and talks dirty with other girls!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - Heyyy! Ok well me and my boyfriend have been together for over 8 months now , but he tend's to flirt with other girls! A few months back i found pictures of another girl on his phone and texts from a load more! It really hurt me and knocked my c...

I messed up because I was drunk and my boyfriend got the wrong idea and broke up with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

13 January 2011 (F) - this is too detailed.. but i think it's better so that the whole situation will be understood clearly.. We had been going out for 2 years and 10 months.. We saw each other almost everyday when he comes home from school and when my work for the day...