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Dating: Help and advice

Does she actually think I would have a chance with a beautiful model?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - My gf and I were watching television the other day and an ad with this attractive model came on, she asked me, 'Would you approach her?', even though she knows I'm not the type to flirt with other women. She doesn't act like the insecure type a...

What are the best ways to get a boyfriend my age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - i have been single for awhile and i no longer want to be single what are the best ways to get a boyfriend thats the same age as me or a little older cause iam 18teen yearsold and i would like to try to have a boyfriend again that wont cheat on ...

How do I cope with jealousy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I've been broken up with my ex for close to three months now, but we went through a period of "getting back together" for a month, so it is effectively two. Only in the recent month have we had no contact with each other. We hurt each other prett...

I think she says this just to make me feel good

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - She says she's sexually intimidated by me, yet she's had quite a few sexual partners she's had 6 before me, she's in her mid 20's and has had some pretty wild sex from what she's told me, so how can she be intimidated by me, when we've been going at ...

How come being a devoted girlfriend is not enough?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Trying to make the decision either to ignore statements or end it w boyfriend. Been together 8 years. Tired of his comments that he would like to see me w another man or women. I understand more of him wanting to see me w another women, most men...

I'm trying to interpret what these words imply and mean to our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I'm Asian and my boyfriend (in his mid 30s) is American, I have a few questions here regarding endearment in English as I don't speak English as my first language. 1) we call eachother babe/baby, is that the title people only use on their spec...

Guys want girls to be exclusive but don't want to be exclusive themselves

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Why do guys always feel like they can make a girl commit to him exclusively and not the other way around?Meaning the girl cannot have her say, like express her feelings of commitment (ask him to be her boyfriend), or something like that, whatever it ...

I'm scared he likes her more than me. He's dumped me and hurt me before. What are my options?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. He then asked for me back, telling me all he could think about was me and that he just wanted to be with me. He and I then went to hang out, and he wanted me to have sex with him. I kept telling him ...

If they met him they would love him, but my parents don't approve. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I like this guy and he is19 and I'm 14, I met him over the summer in south Dakota and I live in illinois and we really do like each other. My parents both know about him. They don't approve because he is a different race than us, but I know if they ...

Which girl should I go for? And how do I best get her to like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - i am a 14 year old boy and have a problem with two girls at school, who are both the same age as me. i like them both, but i don't know which one to go after. Or if either one of them like me. Girl 1 is really nice and we kind of play figh...

How do I handle this to make her want to be with me as my GF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - hi everyone i currently go to college in the uk and there's this girl in my class. i liked her from the moment i saw her but i then found out that she had a boyfriend. So i tried to not look at her, in that way. Before christmas she was telling ...

In a LDR and I don't like how I'm getting sexual relief and don't want to tell him either. But I do want to stop. But how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is abroad..and would remain so for another year. We have made out 3-4 times in person. And now we maintain touch through video chats, emails, sms etc. We continue our physical bonding also by doing it together either on voice or cam. ...

I have strong feelings for my BF's brother. I don't want to hurt anyone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I fancy my boyfriend's brother so much, it kills me to look at him. I don't think I've ever felt such a strong sexual desire for anyone. The more I try not to think about it the more I do. I really don't want to feel like this but I'm not sure how ...

My girlfriend is doing things she would not let me do. What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - my gilfriend met my mate off facebook and met him in town, and i think a bit of flirting - because i went with them, and she is going to town with him tomorrow as well. i wont to meet my friend which is a girl, with her friends. And my girlfriend ...

Too shy to get a boyfriend... help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Okay, so I am 15 years old and never had a proper boyfriend. All my friends are dating all of the time, but I never do. They try to set me up with boys but I am very shy and turn them down. I have troubles opening up to anyone, especially my family ...

Help me sort out this mess...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hi well my ex boyfriend and i were really cool after we broke up. then he started liking me again! it got really annoying so i hooked him up with one of my best friends which i think was my biggest mistake. me and my ex realize that we still have ...

Want a threesome... need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Me and my man have been together for 7 years. He's been wanting to have a threesome years ago and now me and him want a threesome. I've been very curious about being with a female and I also want to have some crazy, fun, exciting sex. I asked my man ...

Me, my girlfriend and our friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Hi, I am with a girl, she was talking to my friend on facebook and they met up in town with me, it seemed that she was a bit flirting with him , i could have been mistaken though, and she is going to town with him and her friends again without me, ...

My ex and I had coffee yesterday and I'm feeling down and confused. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I realize this will be a bit on the longer side, but I promise I won't ramble on the details and get to the point. It'll be long because its necessary to give a slight overview on what happened to us. Thanks for the patience :) We dated for 2...

Relationships: An Observational Assumption

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I was revising physics when an epiphany struck me that made me realize something potentially significant about the high rates of failure in cross-gender relationships, that is male and female companionship( and if you're wondering what the ...

Problems with my boyfriend's kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - My bf and I live together. I have children from previous relationship so does he but mines and our 1 live in our household. He is military and I'm currently unemployed. He pays child support and does visitation twice a month. His ex is unstable. Her ...

Am I the rebound? What should be my course of action?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I've been dating a man around my age (25) for roughly two months (with some breaks in between because of holidays). We met through a dating site, and he's generally a nice guy, however, he just got out of a 5 year relationship in August, which meant ...

I'm spending so much time with my boyfriend but I'm missing having girls to be friends with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hello. okay, so, im 14 going on 15 but can honestly say i have the mental age of a mature 17/18 year old - haha- which can be seen as both good and bad. The reasons for this are because when i was around 12 i was diagnosed with M.E which is a what ...

He wanted to go further but we didn't and now things have cooled off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I like this guy hes 17 and im 15 he kissed me the other day and wanted to go further but i didnt and we talked about tht but he was glad we didnt go further cuz we barley know each other. but ever since then things have seemed kind of off. I talked ...

Whats wrong with me? I push people I love away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - FYI, I'm a 15 year old girl who's never dated and I really wanna this year.Purely my decision. Theres a guy that i really care about, we fell for eachother but once it got to making our relationship official, I started treating him bad (like ig...

Looking for my soul mate. Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I'm a single, attractive female with little dating experience looking for my soulmate in new york city. This has happened to me twice so I'm posting about it. I must be doing something wrong. I went to a club/bar with my friends, met a f...

Why doesn't he respond? Is he flirting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - this man that i see everyday flirts with me and touches me in friendly gesture. he said we needed to talk soon about me liking him. he watches me and sometimes walk back and fourth to his office when he knows im in the hallway and he make sure he ...

Will I ever be good enough for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for nearly 2 years now.. and I love him with all of my heart.. he is everything I have ever wanted in a guy. He is the first guy to ever actually seem to care about me and love me.. unlike my ...

Does this count as sex?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - so first off my boyfriend and i have never had sex. okay two nights ago my boyfriend and i were messing around on the couch (like he was rubbing himself on me but not going in) and he kind of slipped and went in maybe an inch or so but n...

Help! I want to forget the bad love and shift to the good love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I met her (A) last year at a christmas party and fell in love with her immediately. So beautiful. So funny. And damaged. I love those damaged girls. I even had a girlfriend at the time who I wasnt crazy about romantically but had a great ...

What exactly is he playing at?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - He told me that he would not be able to marry me but could always be my boyfriend. When I said that he was not the right man for me, he then got worried and didn't want me to leave. But I still left and he said he was thinking about what I said as ...

Was finding the pictures fate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 14 and I went out with a boy for a couple of months early last year, we broke up and he got with sum1 else, they aren't together now. But I was clearing my bedroom out and found loads of pics of us together and its made me realize I still ...

Help me read this girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I am 14 a freshman in highschool and there's this girl I really like. But this was only since yesterday. Up until then she was just a "sorta friend" I didn't even really find her attractive. That night at the skating rink, somehow during a ...

I've tried to be a friend, but I have been played for a fool

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - sorry for the length but please guys can anyone advise. ive known a guy for over a year. I thought we were good friends hes had a lot of personal issues and trauma which ive been there for him, hes borrowed a fairly large amount £400 ? in bits over ...

I don't think he is cheating but somethings not quite right

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I started to date my best friend more than a year ago. Everything has been great except that right before our vacations get gets a sharp pain on his back, and it ended up being his kidney being almost useless and dead so they ended up removing it. ...

How do I win back this girl's heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I fell in love with her as soon as I met her. For the first time I had met someone just like me, a soulmate, and it didn't take me long to believe we were made for each other. Also for the first time I felt what it was like to really love a girl and ...

I don't think my family will approve of my boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - hi i wouldnt write this on the internet if this wasnt really important.. im 17, hes 20... we met while i was on vacation, and he was working. at first we decided to just go with the flow and see if our relationship wil grow. eventually we were in ...

I want to know if I am in the green zone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - i am in love with a colleague from work who is going away to europe to meet a guy who i guess wants to marry her shes not sure hell be there or have a ring hes her age and has no job while she has expensive taste whereas i will soon be ...

I just want him to kiss me ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I've written here before about this guy. We've been seeing each other for about 3 months. During that time he's been recovering from a surgery. We talk 24/7 via phone calls, text, and get together about once a week. Last night, New Year's Eve, we ...

My friends hate my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - i am in a relationship with a guy and my friends hate him so we have to sneak everything we do but i hate doing it cuz we are madly in love what should i do?...

Not sure what to do. Fiance threw her ring at me after a huge fight. I think I've had enough.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Not quite sure what to do here. My fiance of 3 months (dated a total of 2 years 5 months.. lived together for a year and a half) and I got into a big blowout over how I "never listen" and take friends opinions more seriously and how I "lie" about ...

Why do I have the worst luck with women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Why do I have the worst luck when it comes to women? It never fails. All of the women I meet and take an interest in turn out to already have boyfriends. I meet these women in a variety of settings so location really isn't an issue. Whether I ...

He treats me so well but he's seeing someone else

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I have dated a man for the past five years. I caught him having an affair after the first year. I thought we worked through this and had an even stronger relationship. Then I found out he never stopped seeing the other woman. He says he loves me ...

I knew her from high school but we never talked. How can I talk to her now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Here is some background, I am 20 years old an I am currently in college right now. When I was in my senior year of high school there was this cute girl in grade nine I remember seeing around school. I never really thought about talking to/meeting ...

He's not my type. Can it work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4876 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - This guy I met online about 7 months ago was in town over the holidays. We had a nice time and spent 2 das together. I like him but there are things that really annoy me about him and I am not sure if I should continue with the relationship or end ...

We just want to sleep together and our parents won't allow it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I'm 15 years old and my boyfriend is 16 and we want nothing more then to fall asleep in eachothers arms and wake up in eachothers arms.... But we can't do that. We've been dating for 6 months now and we love eachother. We don't even want to do ...

Dating my ex girlfriend's best friend has turned into hell! Everyone hates me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I am dating my ex-girlfriend's best friend and everyone is mad at me and hates me except for my girlfriend. I love her a lot but my life is starting to be a living hell. Do you think it was a bad choice to go out with her? If no how do i get them to ...

Why won't my boyfriend let me see him naked?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Hey, My boyfriend and me have been dating over a year, neither of us are sexually active yet but we both really want to. Me and him do foreplay etc but hes started to ask me for Bjs etc. But he wont take off his top or bottoms so I can help satisfy ...

Am I looking for love where its actually not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - I have a question about love, and the woman I believe that I love. When I think of her , she is beautiful in my mind, but when i see a picture of her she looks no where near as i imagined, when we talk on the phone she sounds like a princess,again I ...

Should I talk to him about my sex life (or lack of it) and about my views on my virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I'm seeing a guy who I met at the jive club I go to, he broke up with his ex-girlfriend of 6 years about 8 months ago and she's annoyingly self confident. I'm not. I'm a virgin and have little to no experience with guys. I'm concerned that if our ...

I really want to ask this sweet girl out, but I can't figure out anymore if she likes me. Please don't sugarcoat it, I need honesty.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Happened in the last two weeks, but slowed down recently POSITIVES: I’ve known her for 1.5 years. I've asked questions on here and 99% said she was really into me. They thought I was dumb for not asking her. She sort of felt up my abs at a...

I was told by my GF :"Girls don't like it when guys last long, they get sore and it hurts down there". Really???

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - Hi, Happy New Year by the way! So, when I have sex with my girlfriend, first I pleasure her for about 7 minutes until she finishes, then we have sex and I last for about 1 minute on a good night. Now, once I kept "doing it" for a while after I wa...

I can't tell him what happened. And I can't face him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - Long story short I had sex with my friend last night and he came in me.. It's 9 days after my period so I'm assuming I'm pregnant.. He bought me the morning after pill and I took it asap.. I guess about 18 hours after we had sex.. How do I even look ...

Will she think I'm only rekindling the relationship because I'm ill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

2 January 2011 (M) - To make a long story short, years ago I had an affair with a woman I fell passionately in love with, and it lasted over 5 years. My wife found out about the affair, and of course the usual problems were a part of this situation, however I did no...

I don't understand him, please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

2 January 2011 (F) - I'm 16 and I live in Florida. My family and I just went to our hometown in Wisconsin to visit old family and friends. My dad wanted to visit his old highschool buddy so when we got to his house, I immediately hit it off with his 16 year old son. We ...