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Archived questions from: 24 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Girlfriend thinks I am too nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - Hello, theres a girl i know from the internet and I've got a problem now. Well, I know her for 3 months now and i felt in love with her. We have often contact through chat, skype and webcam. Anyway we're in a relationship now and now she asked me...

Am I destned to be alone because I don't want kids? Feel like giving up.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - I am 37 have been single for several years now. I'm not stunning but am OK looking, intelligent and have an interesting job and own my flat. I have many female friends, all of whom say I would be a good catch. The problem is I don't want kids, ...

It's not so much the lack of sex as the feeling getting turned down again and again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4847 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - I'm not sure if I'm looking for advice or just some support. Maybe both. I'm a 26yr old male dating a 21 yr old girl. We have a good relationship, we hang out often, play games, watch movies. She is currently in college and this certainly stress...

I don't know how to meet girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - So i no this sounds a bit monotonous of other questions, and y'all probably thinking that I should know how to do this by now, but hell, i guess ill still ask. So im a real shy guy till others get to know me. I do not make friends easily b...

What is with this guy and his disappearing act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - So I was dating this guy a year back and he seemed lovely but I was just out of a relationship and wasn't quite ready for a new one. I started getting a little bit freaked out at how quickly and well things were going, and i thought we were going to ...

Was she out of line?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - okay today my friend went completely mad and started shouting at this girl and calling her a slut. so basically the girl walks home with the guy my friend likes and another guy but the other guy wasn't there so it was only the two of them. on the ...

Should I do something for him for Valentine's day, or will it just make me look desperate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Im 18 years old i went out with this guy for a bit over the summer i liked him a hell of a lot but he ended what we had just before we both went back to the same college, i still really really like him but im not sure if he still likes me because we ...

What is the difference between a girlfriend, a FWB or just casual sex with a girl?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - ok for you man out there , what is the difference between a girlfriend, friends with benefits or just casual sex with a girl? How do you treat a girl in each of these? I'm asking this because Im a little bit confused about my current relati...

Should I tell him I think he looks better clean-shaven or at least with his beard trimmed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - This might be a terribly shallow/silly question.. but Im starting to get involved with this guy.. who has a beard. I love beards, dont get me wrong, but I think he is so much more attractive when he had a tiny beard versus the mountain man beard it ...

I'd like our relationship to be on the best possible terms before she leaves for overseas

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - Ok so a little over a month ago my girlfriend found out i sent some pictures to some girls. we broke up and now we talk and text a little but not to the extreme. there has been days where we dont talk at all and days where we talk all the time. also ...

Help maintaining a relationship while I'm at University

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24 January 2011 (F) - Im going to University in September and am looking for ways to still maintain the relationship with my boyfriend who is 20, I am 20 in December. My University will be about 2 hours away, and despite him saying he is willing to visit every week...

Why was his reply "good" when I said I was falling for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - During the heat of the moment with a guy I have been seeing for almost 4 months I told him I am falling for him and he said "good" I think I should of kept my mouth shut. He tells me he is crazy about me and i had been away for 3 weeks and he told ...

Lost in love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - Ok. So Iim an 18 year old guy. At the age of six I moved to the US from Chile. I lived there 12 years and now I'm back in Chile with my family. I have a cousin that is an amazing person. She is 19 years old. She is kind to me, loving, and she makes ...

Does she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Well... There is this girl, and At the beginning of the year on the first day of College she and another student are talking us through what it is like to be at the college. The whole time when I am not looking at her, she is staring at me, a...

I really liked him until I saw his teeth!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - there was this guy i went to school with that i had the biggest crush on. through facebook we have been back in touch and so far he seems to be the most humble guy and i like him. i had of course not seen him in years so he came by this past ...

I don't get this girl.

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24 January 2011 (M) - I don't get this girl, we talked one day she tells me how she does not want a relationship with anybody and is not willing to lose me. She does not want to be tied down to a guy, and well she told me she would only date a guy she didn't really know. ...

I know I need time alone but I wont get back with the ex, and I really miss the new man! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I have a dilemma which I hope you can advise on. I am married but separated. After many years I made the leap out of an emotionally cold and controlling relationship. It was very hard but I moved in with a work-mate and was getting on with my life. ...

Why cant one of the twins find a man yet the other has guys falling at her feet? They are basically the same person!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Ok so last night we had a big discussion on this topic and we would like to get other opinions ... You can be honest we need answers !! Ok here we go .. We have a two good friend there twins .. Twin A is a nice girl very funny loves sports . She ...

I like him but I don't know if he is really that into me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now and I'm so confused. I was reading several questions from other members but i don't know if mine fits those that i read but anyway here goes... This guy that I'm dating, i see him everyday...

Infatuation or love? I can't decide and I can't get him out of my mind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Well a year on and i am still infatuated, if that's the word, with the same guy. i don't think i'm ever going to move on. i love him more than words can describe. I know deep down he loves me too, or why would he put up with me? As i know i can be a...

Where can I learn more about contraception and find information on what to expect if my LDR friend And I take it to the next level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I'm really hoping I can get some good advice. Well story is I am in a LDR and my boyfriend is planning on coming to visit me soon. We have nothing particular planned, however, depending on how things go there is the possibility we will sleep ...

Should I wait for the guy who also likes me or should I just go on with the guy who's been courting me for years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Hi! I have a crush on this certain guy. I liked him since the day we met and it's really getting too complicated because he is my rival in our class standing. Although I can compete rationally without getting my feelings mixed up, when it comes to ...

Only younger boys are interested in me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, im almost 24 years old female, i have in in only 2 long term relationships in my life, one lasted about 10 years,i was 10 years old when we met and we broke up when i was 20, then when i was 21 i got involved with another guy but ...

Should I wait for him to catch up to me and the way I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid: I've met a man recently. We're both in our early 50's. We have much in common, we have much of the same likes and dislikes, however we still remain individual. I have fallen head over heals with him. I have all but told him this and I ...

How do I act around this guy that I've liked for a long time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I’m a senior in high school. I have a class for the first time with a guy I’ve liked for a really long time. We’ve been out of touch for a little while now, but we use to text each other all the time. What should I do? Should I sit next to him or ...

How do ladies feel about their man going to a strip club?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Ladies, how do you feel if your boyfriend goes to a strip club? My boyfriend has been to a few over the last year for bachelor parties. I feel like him seeing other girls half naked makes me less appealing. It makes me super insecure about myself ...

Why has this straight guy never been seen with a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - So there is this guy that I have been interested in for a while now. We don't really know each other, but I have seen him around a lot. So, two months ago I sent him a message introducing myself, and letting him know I find him attractive. Thinking ...

He wants to hang out but I'm too chicken to talk to him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Theres this guy i really like! And he tells me he likes me alot too! But he says he isn't feeling it's the right time?? But he wants me to wait for him??? And also he wants me to hang out with him and i'm too chicken to go up to him and talk!! H...

Did I take advantage of her because I kissed her?

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24 January 2011 (M) - I need to get this off my chest, I just wish I didn't do what I did. I will be honest and admit I got caught up in the moment. I dated a girl over 2 years ago for about 2 years, well she dated a guy for a year and got dumped by him. Well that was 2 ...

I was a sneak and called her nasty names because I thought I was being played by her....do you think she would ever want to get in touch with me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - I was friends with a girl and her husband for over three years. Seven months after they broke up we started fooling around but she had a boyfriend. She said she loved me but had to be with the other guy for now. I felt like i was getting played ...

Would this gesture of mine seem romantic or creepy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - Hello, I would like to know if this would be cute or creepy. I this girl and I have been talking and we are really into each other I mean really. Anyways I am seeing her this Saturday and I am going to ask her to be my girlfriend. I want to make ...

What is the thing you most need in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - Billy Joel has a song, "The Stranger": "Once I used to believe I was such a great romancer Then I came home to a woman That I could not recognize Though I pressed her for a reason, She refused to even answer It was then I felt the stranger ...

Why is my boyfriend so distant when it comes to sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and we are no longer intimate. When we first got together, we had sex at least twice a day, but we haven't had sex in about 6 weeks. I have even tried lingerie and 'dressing up' for him, but ...

My boyfriend wants to take a break and its making me feel rejected and horrible...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a month now. We moved in together very early and are currently living together. We've had some big fights but everything has been calm for a couple months. Then yesterday he started acting ...

Concerned about my boyfriend watching one particular porn star daily!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Hello all, please let me know if I should be concecrned here. I recently found out that my boyfriend looks at porn daily. I also found out that he subscribes to one girl's porn/webcam site so all the porn he has is just of her. I have been feelin...

Text messages lead me to believe she wants her ex boyfriend/casual partner more then me!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - My fiance and I have been together for over a year. At first, like all relationships, things started off great, we'd text all the time, the sex was regular, we were both affectionate to each other. However, over the last few months, things have cha...

On short notice he says he's coming to town and I turned him down. Now he's upset!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - I haven't seen this guy in a couple of years, we didn't "talk" (meaning email) for months and all of a sudden he says he's coming to town and was wondering if he can see me. I got annoyed at the short notice and said no, now he hasn't spoken to ...