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Dating: Help and advice

How can we maintain a relationship and see each other more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - alright so since august i've liked this guy john and he likes me but i only see him when my mom's friend comes to a party and brings her son and john. unfortunately thats twice a year, once in the summer and again at my house for new years eve. this ...

Why is my boyfriend ignoring me?

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1 January 2011 (F) - I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16 we've been together for nearly 7 months now. I love him and he claims to love me too. I live about 1 hour 30 mins away from him so it is hard but I see he every two weeks which is good cos we have school and all of ...

I can't figure her out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - I ended a relationship 6 months ago and have been enjoying single life again while getting my life back on track. 2 months ago on a night out with mates, a girl said she recognized me and we chatted for a bit and that was that. She found me o...

Should I tolerate this madness or just call it quits?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - Help me. my girlfriend and I have been having so many problems. for one she had a lot of guy friends that flirted w/her on her facebook "that picture can bring a man to his knees" "I miss you, love you punkass" "those eyes I never get to see" etc ...

Is intimidation a bad thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - So i have had a few boyfriends in my past. And every time we broke up it was kinda sudden and not really that far into the relationship. And well my mom was talking to the mom of my ex. She had said that her son was probable intimidated me. Which i ...

Nothing ever works for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - Nothing ever works for me. I know I have issues, as I've known for quite some time. I always mess up every relationship, yes, it's always my fault. I'm 26 at this point and I don't see things improving anytime sooner. I fall for people easily ...

Does this mean we're through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - I was seeing a guy only for a couple weeks. Only had a couple dates. Well last night I texted him cause i wanted to hangout and he was just a jerk, and he has been from the dates. I started getting mad, then i showed up at his house for him to not ...

I have feelings for a girl who is in a relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - Help... I have feelings for a girl who is in a relationship. She feels the same for me, she has said so. She would rather be with me than her partner it seems. I'd love to give it a go, but I don't want to get between her and her boyfriend....

Does the crying means he does love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of six months, never once saw him cry, Told me how much he loves me and tears rolled down his face. He said I'm the only good thing in his life and he would take a bullet for me. I'm only 15 and he's 16. Is it possible he really loves ...

How can a straight man attract and/or ask a bisexual woman out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - Whoa, 4 years now, and I've been playing the wrong cards. I thought for this time, I've been trying to attract my crush, and just ask her out on JUST one date, and I found out a rumor for the first time she might be bisexual. Now, if this statement ...

Do nice girls really finish last?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - What do guys think of nice girls?? I was just in an emotionally abusive relationship and ppl told me that it was not worth it to be nice all the time? Do men find playing hard to get and bitches attractive?? I mean I believe in being honest and ...

Should I tell my boyfriend what I said to his friend when we weren't together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend have confessed everything that we should of done , weve probabley had the worst christmas and new year ever, but i want to move on from it. The only thing is, id said to one of his mates chris that I liked him. Me and my ...

It's like he wants to be close, and then he doesn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (?) - I am so lost. I have been dating this guy for about two months, and everything was going great at first up until about two weeks ago-right around Christmas, and now New Year's it's over before it even began. We were never exclusive yet, and last ...

If she really liked me why didnt she break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - here's how it goes i made friends with the girl im sitting next to in class. She has a boyfriend btw. She was really nice to me and i started liking her. We texted a lot everyday and we got to know each other. Eventually we were very close and w...

I don't want to end up being just another girl for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - I have had the same bf for about eight months now and recently he told me before he met me he slept with a girl in my grade and ignored her and they haven't talked since. Now I am unsure if he used me for the last eight months to try to get to that ...

Met a great girl at a party, I want to be with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - I went to a party with my friends and cousins, I met this girl and we talked throughout the whole night we were both sober when we met and we got really drunk, we hold hands and danced all night. Our close friends really want us together, I want to ...

He's just started ignoring me, I really like him, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - ok ,so i've known this guy for about 2 years and i became really close to him, i've liked him for a while but he doest like me and he ignores me and ive not spoke to him for ages. he has feelings for his ex and that why he said he didnt like me that ...

Is "introducing a girlfriend to family" on skype something big in the US?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - I'm in an open relationship with this guy (34yo) due to the long distance between us, we used to be close distance and committed but now we find it's better if we keep it open. We'll be close distance after 2 years. So he went back home in the...

His dad read our MSN conversations and stopped him from seeing me...and its pretty much over now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - About a month ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of a year and two months. I still love him, and he says he still loves me. It's all very confusing. Basically, his Dad installed a tracking device on his laptop, and read through our MSN conversa...

How can I tell if he feels the same way about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - I'm in the eighth grade, and well my story may seem a little confusing.. So in the beginning of the school year I was totally fine, until about a month after school started, I got into a bad situation that happened outside of school, and that caused ...

Our conversations dry up, how do we communicate better in this new relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - So I've just starting dating this guy, and we like each other its just we have trouble keeping interesting conversations alive. A lot of the time our conversations are quite dry and get driven straight into the ground followed by silence =/ We don'...

I'm confused and distraught at my uncertain situation. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - hi; i now have no where else to go but get a strict answer from dearcupid. i was searching for a simple resolution to my love problem. i read several questions but none of that defines my problem. ok first of, i'll write all of the story. i c...

Choices? Pursue my new friend or try to interest my best friend who I love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - I have this gorgeous girl bestfriend. We always hang out together. Her parents know me very well then same goes for my parents. we've been bestfriends since first grade. well now were already 17 years old. I started to feel strange towards ...

I'm hurting because I don't know where my relationship with my GF is going.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - i've been with my gf for a whole three years and i've had the time of my life. but she gets defensive if i even say his name . she talks to other guys and hugs them and when i ask to see her phone, she changes the subject. i've had a lot ...

What happened? Should I see the Dr?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - hey all.. i really need help. i was with my boyfriend yesterday, we were making out and having dry sex. but still i touched his penis and i think he did precum. i was fully clothed though (underwear and jeans). after we're done i went to the toil...

I'm married, also have BF who's going to leave his GF and I'm possibly pregnant plus I'm in a panic. Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a man who is 14 years older than me for 10 years. I got with him when I was 17. We had a lot of problems through the relationship, however, we kept going. I couldn't get pregnant, and it took 3 years of trying ...

I like being single, but I miss kissing and stuff. Should I just go for it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - I like being single, don't get me wrong It's nice! But what I miss the most is well, everything! i miss holding hands and kissing and stuff. i like this guy who's about three years older than I am. I like him a lot! But i can't date him until high ...

My boyfriend cheated on me with another women. Now I think I have a STD. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - my b/f recently cheated on me with another woman. Yet we have had unprotected sex two times since he cheated. The last time was the day before my period came. Now my period is finished and my vagina feels different. He didn't tell me until like ...

I'd like a girlfriend but not sure how to get one

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (M) - I'm a 19 year old male and am single (always have been) . I would quite like a girlfriend now but I'm not sure how to get one. I have no problem talking to girls and I'm not shy. People say I have a good sense of humour. I haven't had the expe...

What would you guys do in a no win situation like mine?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - Hey. Just after some advice. Do you think hiding things is ever ok? My boyfriend is a very jealous, posessive and sometimes paranoid person. From past experiences with him I now go put of my way to avoid confrontation and accusations from him. ...

Boyfriend blowing me off for his best friend and I feel hurt by it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

1 January 2011 (F) - I'm highly obsessed with my boyfriend. We've been dating for ten months. Yeah, it sounds funny and a lot of you are probably shaking you heads, but I am. He is too though. We text 24/7, see each other as much as possible, and talk on the phone from ...