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*adyIris
writes: I wrote a not to a guy I really like, but i dont know him at all we only talked a couple of times. Well on the note I asked him if he wanted to go to winter ball with me, and had my friend deliever it she explained to him it wasnt from her but here was no name on it! I forgot to write my name! Im soo shy I really dont know what to do!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 Maybe you should ask your friend to talk to him again and ask him what he thought of the note, and if he already has a date or not, and then she can tell him it's you who wrote it?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 January 2011):
 I think you need to work on your confidence. Although a note is not a bad idea there will still be a time where you will need to talk to him face to face. I think you should start slowely. First learn to love yourself. Do things that make you feel good about yourself and remember always to think positive about yourself. When you put your mind to something you can do it. Just remember that we only get one life and we should live it to the most. Therefore tell yourself that you can talk to him, realise it is not that scary and believe in yourself. Tell yourself YOU CAN DO IT!!
Start of slowely by trying to make conversation with him and getting to know him. When you see him just start by saying hello and asking how he is and take it from there. You will soon get more confident the more small talk you make with him. Then once you have gotten to know him a bit more tell him that you where the one that wrote the note as you think he is a really nice guy and would love to get to know him more.
Goodluck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011): Do you ask because he hasn't responded? If it was your friend and he liked YOU he would be dying to know who it was from and ask her. Boys really should be the ones to ask you to a dance and not the other way around. You want them to think there are many competing for your interests and you are not desperate. It's probably a good thing he doesn't know who its from but I do think he DOES know since it was your friend.
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