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Archived questions from: 6 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I love her but I'm afraid we're at a dead end

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - Weve been dating/going out for about a year and a half now, at the start, it was great, now there is no spark between us. A few weeks ago she said im not as happy as i was when we first started going out (in general) Yet i dont feel like i have ...

Was this advice, or a warning?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - Hello, I am posting on this site because well I need help and I havent found any other websites to post to so maybe you all can give me some answers. My girlfriend and I have been toghether for a year and a half and we have always been very happy, ...

We both want different things, and I'm finding it hard to talk to him about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I didnt reply to a text that this guy sent to me, and he was on msn at the same time as me earlier tonight, but i set my status to " Away " as i didn't know what to say to him. There is a bit of a problem that i have with him at the moment, and i'm ...

He wants to do it all the time... I don't!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I do not know what to do... my boyfiend wants sex all the time but I do not and I do not want to do it all the time. Please can people give me some help?...

That first kiss...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend want to kiss but are both shy and he thinks he's gonna mess up..... how do I convince him otherwise? ...

Help! Am I being played???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I am 15 and my boyfriend will be 18 this april. we have been dating for 2 months now. things are changing, we used to text all the time, now he is saying we dont need to text as much any more because he is afraid it will become awkward. he says he ...

My girlfriend's ex texts her often and tells her how he feels. She saysnot to worry but I don't know...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - Hello I recently started dating a girl about 3 weeks ago and its been going pretty good. We both go out frequently but the only thing that bothers me is that she has a lot of guy friends. They text her often and she tells me not to worry and tha...

Should I not have mentioned my late period to my BF?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I just want to know, is this my fault? I have been on and off with this man for 5 years. He is the only man i've loved in 5 years. We just got back together and things (I thought) were going really well for the past 3 months. He had told me he...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to care about me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I have an uncaring boy friend, he doesnt seem to care at all, he makes dates and forgets and even forgets to appolgize, he doesnt communicate much, he says he doesnt like phone calls and sms. He even doesnt like going out! he says he loves me but ...

I haven't heard from him since our date. Should I keep waiting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I don't kno what to do anymore. I went on a date with this guy I've known for years but we wernt close we were jst good friend but didn't see eachother often. Anyways he moved out of state and wanted me and my kids to move with him and I explained ...

Does it mean anything when a man holds your face when he kisses you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - Does it mean anything when a man kisses you and holds your face? He cups your face with both hands but is he sending you a message also? Not all men do this? Just looking for opinions? thanks!...

I contacted my LDR BF through a fake profile to see what he's up to

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I did something I probably shouldn't do...sigh! Now I need some advice! My LDR boyfriend is on a travel site which has a setting that looks exactly like match.com (one to one, not a forum), in fact I think it's a combination of dating and meeti...

Should I be worried that my BF added a girl he used to like on facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend recently added a girl he used to like on facebook. They originally kept in touch back in 2005, before i met him, and i think originally, they were intouch on msn, although i dont know where they first found each other. She lives in ...

My girlfriend has a "friend" she doesn't even know.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is meeting up this this guy she barely knows(they met once a few years ago that's all) and she has been buying new clothes, getting a haircut, dying her hair (she would never dye her hair) and suddenly making herself all stylish and ...

I'm crushing on a straight girl. How do you tell someone you like them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I’m someone who has had crushes on males and females. I don’t worry about my sexuality because I don’t feel the need to label myself. I also have not made my friends aware that I like women, nor have I had any sexual experience with a woman (I have ...

Am I too young to be in a serious relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I am 19 and I have been going out with boyfriend for a year and a half and i have only ever slept with him. And we now have a long distance relationship as we have both went to different universities. I just feel like i have found him too so...

Should I salvage teh relationship, remain friends or cut ties?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - A few weeks ago I got with a guy in a club and one of my best friends started being really weird about it. I didn't think anything of it but then a few days later he confessed to me that he really liked me. I was a bit surprised at first but ...

How can I prove that I am serious about this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - hi all, after a very rocky 15 years together and after all our promises to try and do the right thing by each other, after trial seperations and actually splitting up we do still love each other what do you suggest i can do to prove im serious as we ...

Should we date or be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - 21 been seeing this guy that i met online for about 2 months.. saw each other about twice a week, but ive been away for the past few weeks and so have been thinking about the relationship etc... this is the first time ive dated someone and so im wo...

How do I control my insecurities between dates?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - I've met someone who I am very taken with. We've had two dates, then Xmas came and have had to wait about 2 weeks before seeing her again. We've arranged the third date for this weekend. We've talked a lot inbetween. I don't know what my prob...

We're not in a serious relationship despite having a child, always hanging out and sleeping together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I am still inlove with my child's father. But we havnt been together in years. And weren't even together that long before I got pregnant. We get along great ( minus the few times we do argue) and we still sleep together off and on. I do so much for ...

I'm worried my girlfriend fancies someone else

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - Hi People, I'm not sure if this question is stupid or not but it has been playing on my mind ever since. I have been with my gf for almost 6 years now and I don’t want to wreck it from paranoia. The other night we got abit drunk and were pla...

My boyfriend makes me cry every day

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend When he gets mad he says mean things to hurt my feelings -your a bitch/whore/loser/pathetic Gets madder, and makes fun of me and acts like a complete jerk when I'm crying over him Wont listen to me when I tell him that I nee...

Parents slip us up when they smelled weed. How can I fix this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - Hi there Dear Cupid Forum! As of 6 months ago I began dating a Woman that I am now in love with. She is my first love, I have known her since I first moved to British Columbia when I was 14. We have been through a lot together, she was my Grad ...

My girlfriend is busy and I'm worried I'm losing her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - Im a guy from Pakistan and i realy need help.My girlfriend doesnt really seem to give time to me anymore because she is busy with her studies and shes a year junior. this is my last year of school and im gona be leaving school soon and she almost g...

I am very sad that my friend is dating someone else and neglecting me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4869 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I been loving this guy friend like two years and we were studying in the same university. Unfortunately I and him have thing more than friends, but he did have feeling on me, because only friend, he will not crying with me when he saw me hurt and ...

Would it be considered strange to send a woman roses who isn't your girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - Hey, would it be considered strange to send a woman roses who isn't your girlfriend? We both have strong feeling for each other just can't really be together because she lives in a far away state now. I just want to do something nice for her, make ...

Dating an 18 year old but her parents have no idea about us....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - I'm in love with my neighbours daughter. (The neighbour I used to have until I sold my house) The problem is there's an age gap. I'm 28 and she's 18. In the beginning, I admired her from a distance. Not wanting to scare her. I eventually got to know ...

My girlfriend's past troubles me: She got pregnant in an orgy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - What is up with my girlfriend? I sent her a text saying that I was having jealousy issues, and that we should be apart tonight, since she practically lives at my house. Basically, this all comes down to her allowing 2 guys that were her "friends" to ...

Should I just stop searching and just wait for the person who love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - Is it true that If I stop searching, the person who love me will appear? I have tried to date two girls in the past two years but both failed miserably. I had tried whatever I could to get girl that I love but they both went out with someone els...

Female Readers: Please help me get my mind off the sex in my relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend (27) and I (26) have been dating for 5 months. I have never dated anyone as wonderful as her and I am ecstatic. I have also never dated anyone for so long without ANY sexual intimacy. I am horribly inexperienced with such an ...

How can I get her to choose between her existing boyfriend and me,whom she loves too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - Its about my life..please read below n advice me... We(me and the girl whom i love..lets calld D) became best friend just two weeks before..it's been a year we became close to each other.. Just before a year. We'd been to educational tour from col...

I don't feel the same way about her. Should I be honest and break up with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - Ok, so I'm a 17 year old guy, dating another 17 year old girl for about 6 months. However we go to two totally different schools (I go to a private school, she goes to a public), and we only get to see each other on the weekends if we're lucky. S...

Why has she kept it a secret that she loves me? And how should I ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - For the longest time I've been liking a girl who hangs out with most of my friends but she's popular and I been wanting to ask her out to a date but I don't want to get rejected. Today my cousin told me the girl said she's been liking me for like 2 ...

I am attracted to her, but to start with, how can I tell her my name?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - Hi I am writing for your advice on a very strange situation I am faced with. There is this woman in my office who has joined recently and her joining was intimated to us by our team lead by email. She works in a different room than mine. But we o...

I really want to find a girl who is like me to be with. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I am a 17 year old closeted lesbian...I've never been in a relationship with another female but I have had some drunken hookups (as a closeted lesbian it's easy to "blame" alcohol). Lately, however, I've been really wanting to get into a ...

Trusting a boyfriend who has cheated before...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - Hi. I've never used this before I was hoping to get some really good advise. Okay here I go. My boyfriend and I have been dated for a year and 7 months. We're going towards our 8th month this 25th. Recently, a girl came up to me and told me that my ...

I really like her, but she hates me! I've tried being nice, any other tips?

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6 January 2011 (M) - Hi... So there's this girl I really like, but she hates me, for no reason! When I first met her she was so nice to me, but now she absolutely hates me! I really really like her and i have't done anything wrong. I've tried being nice, and that didn't ...

Will he leave his girlfriend so I can be with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - hi, so i met this guy for the pass 6 months and from day 1 he seem like he like me and we will spend hour talking and getting to know more about each other. but since day 1 i knew he had a girlfriend and he know i knew about it through my sister (he ...

How can I seduce somebody?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

6 January 2011 (?) - How do I seduce a guy/get him interested? I've dated people before, but it was always them pursuing me, and this time around I'd rather have a little more say in the matter. I don't even know that I'm looking for a serious relationship. I'...

Is it okay if I ask her out on the first go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - ok. I like a girl(i'll call her G1) at my college, but we have never really met before. just once at a scholarship function. and we haven't really talked. but we have a mutual friend who happens to be a good friend of mine (this one's G2). I really ...

Is there any hope for my sister? Her guy can be a monster to her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - my sister dated a guy for a year, and a half she got pregnant after 6 months of dating. He during that 6 months broke up with her every month, because he always found something wrong with her. she never fought back just left his house when he gave ...

I don't feel I can trust him any more. But am I being too jealous about his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months, everything between us is great and we've discussed marriage and kids and everything seems to be perfect. Although, he talks to his ex... which I wouldn't normally mind, because he is open and honest ...

Do I wait it out in the hope he'll become more responsible, or do I leave and leave it to someone else to suit his needs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I'm in college and he's working retail. We live together. I feel like it's time to start being responsible adults and he says he does too but he doesn't show it. He is late on ALL necessary paym...

How much do you have to do for a guy before enough is enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - how much do you have to do for someone before enoughs enough ? I've adored this guy i know for ages. I've bent over backwards to help him. He was struggling with work, and i fixed it for him. He wa slow on money and again i helped. At the begi...

Are the chances slim that this relationship will work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I was dating a guy for a few months before I got pregnant. My daughter is now 2 yrs old and I am still in love with him. He left a few weeks after I found out, so we havnt been together for about 3 years. We have had an off and on friendship though. ...

Is there any way I can ask him out and he will accept? Because he said No, the first time I asked.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - Well.. first of all. I really like this person in my class and today I asked him out, when no one is around, and i told him i been liking him for 2 months already. He said, 'i'm sorry but i'm not interested,' and I was disappointed, because I really ...

I told a lie, then the truth. He got angry with me. Now I think he's going to break up with me. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - What am I going to do?? i lied to my boyfriend. omg i've been with my boyfriend for 3months now and i love him soo much and he says he loves me too. But today i told him I am actually 20 and not 21, like he thought i was.. and he's now really u...

Would it be stupid to leave one good man (who is my baby's daddy) for another man just because the romance was richer??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating a man for about 8.5 years except for one break-up that lasted about 4-5 months at which time I met this other man and really liked him but when the first man wanted me back I went running, being still in love and all. Its been 5 ...

Making Long Distance Relationships work....any pointers??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - hi all.. basically I am just wanting some peoples opinons on LDR's..I am relativly inexperienced on the relationship front anywyas but have hit it off with this guy who lives quiet far away from me ( we were initally friends and things have ...

What motivates a man to say "I love you"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - Hey, sorry if this question sounds stupid. I'd like your advice on guy's motives for saying I love you. I've been with my bf 5 months, he's great-caring, kind, funny, sexy, intelligent, thoughtful. He told me last week that he loves me, and said ...

This is heartbreak at its worst.Any suggested coping mechanisms??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

6 January 2011 (F) - There's probably not much anyone can say to this so its probably more like a rant.. Me and my bf of 4 years have just broken up. We both knew it was coming to an end, and I snapped and it was me who said it was over and he agreed. We had become mo...

Girls, why do you get back with cheating exes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - I have developed a crush on a coworker. She is 22 and I'm 27. She has worked there for around 3 years, myself for 5. We hardly ever spoke because our paths at work hardly ever crossed and because she seemed to look away or not appear interest...

I love her...but I don't know what to make of this situation between this girl and her BF

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

6 January 2011 (?) - Hello everyone! I have a strange , very frustrating problem. So there is this girl, one year older then me, (btw, next year we will probably be in the same class) and ahe has a boyfriend. But the boyfriend acts seriously wierd! I see them quite ...

Should I get involved knowing I am second choice, to my best mate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

6 January 2011 (M) - My friend and I were mates for years,we did everything together. We were inseparable, that is until a woman came between us. He and she became a couple, and we drifted apart, although staying in touch and the odd lads night out. Years after things ...