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Dating: Help and advice

I'm capable of everything but romance. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

4 January 2011 (?) - I'm a big overachiever in the arts. I'm applying for a well-respected art college in February, I'm in 2 bands, and I'm a performing dancer now. Not to brag, but I find I don't have much difficulty getting good at things, and I do all of the things I ...

Which do I choose?

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4 January 2011 (F) - hi, Ii'm so confused, i met this boy in town about a month ago and we have met up a few times and everything seems to be going good, but then the other day my friend told me he has feelings for me. my friend lives about 2 hour drive from me, so we ...

Is his best friend gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4872 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and when it is just the 2 of us, it is the most amazing relationship I have ever been in. We totally get each other and feel comfortable talking about everything. The problem is my boyfriends ...

"T'is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" - yes/no

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

4 January 2011 (?) - Just out of curiosity, what are people's thoughts on this sentiment? Are the 'highs' of being in love ALWAYS worth the 'lows' of breakup and loss?...

I really want to be with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4871 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - I am in the army when I went on leave during the holidays I met this girl then I had to go back to Kentucky and now i cant stop thinking about her I don't eat much I just keep waiting for a text (which she does). She feels the same way about me but ...

Am I over analyzing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Hey, I'm looking for help to translate guy speak! My bf has been unwell, sent me a message saying the Dr told him to stay home and rest for a couple of days, so I sent him a message saying that if he needs anything, just let me know. He replied ...

Is a highly sensitive person (HSP) better suited with another with another HSP or Non-HSP?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I'm a highly sensitive person. For those of you that have identified yourselves as one, you will know exactly what I mean by that. Through reading I've discovered both pros and cons for dating HSPs and Non-HSPs. I would like to ask fellow HSPs which ...

My boyfriend's facebook "friends" make me very uncomfortable...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend recently added a girl he used to like on facebook. They originally kept in touch back in 2005, before i met him, and i think originally, they were intouch on msn, although i dont know where they first found each other. She lives in ...

My worry is that I do not feel like his main girl whenever another girl is around!

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4 January 2011 (F) - So, I am having a dilemma with an insecurity problems in my relationship. My boyfriend is a bit flirtatious and has a bit of a blunt personality. My worry is that I do not feel like his main girl whenever another girl is around. I don't mean to come ...

My boyfriend punched my friend and said I can't see him any more

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4844 days ago

4 January 2011 (?) - Today I was hanging out with my best friend(a guy) at a park and we were just talking and having a great time just hanging out. Well then my boyfriend came and got really mad that I was hanging out with my friend. My boyfriend was super mad and he p...

The relationship has gone down hill. Is it time to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I want to know what happens in relationships. I have been with my boy friend for three and a half years. In the beginning he was willing to take me places and he said really nice things to me. My boy friend takes a lot of pain medicine for his...

From girlfriend to friend but secretly not over him...how do I handle this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me few months back and we are now friends. My problem is, i am not over him, i still love him. He sees me just as a friend, but he knows how i feel about him. He is asking my advice about dating other girls,...

Am I over my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - hi! well basically, iv been in a long term relationship with someone previously for almost 3 years... and within the three years i have been through a lot with them for example his cheated on me and i stil took him in.. and that has messed me up al...

How to stop yourself turning into a mother- or sister- or friend-type of girlfriend,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys, I'd love some advice on how you stop yourself turning into a mother- or sister- or friend-type of girlfriend, if that makes sense? I've been with my bf for 4 months, think he's gorgeous, kind, caring, funny, intelligent, sexy. He's the ...

Why do men not tell an ex gf, they are dating someone else

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone, my question is mainly for men. What does it mean when a man ignores his ex's question? (broke up with 2 months back) When she asks him if he's seeing someone, knowing that she's travelling to see him where he lives Does it mean he ...

Is there a way I can get him back in my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - i am student of engineering,19 in age.when i took admission in the college i had a friend A whom i liked very much. he also liked me very much as a friend ,being a gay i had crush on me. but after some time a got some other guy B who liked me very ...

This girl keeps coming to me, then going back to the ex, again and again, why?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - I need help LADIES please answer this one, as you're the only ones that can... So I've been dating this girl, who is conflicted about her ex, but since I was so persistent, I guess she gave me a chance perhaps as a payback to her ex. My question is ...

Is she not interested or could there be a reason why she has not responded?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - So here goes, I met this girl and we talked on the phone last night. We talked for about 30 min and I thought everything went really well. Out of the blue she was like " I have to take this call, can I call you back." Of course I said yes. She said ...

This is so confusing, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, So there's this guy, let's call him Joe. Joe and I met online, this summer, I found out he was in my school, so we chatted from time to time. We didn't become THAT close, but our relationship was OK one way or another. So wel...

Why do men play games... how long should I wait for a call or should I call him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Just wondering from a man's perpective... how long should a girl wait for a guy to call? I met this guy on Facebook and we have a lot of mutual friends.. actually, he went to my high school, so I'm sure we'd have tons in common. Anyway, we kept ...

Does it mean that the girl is not important to him because he never gives her flowers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are together for 11 months now... and next month will be our first year anniversary together. He is a very boring person and hardly surprise me with things. AND HE NEVER GIVES ME FLOWERS BEFORE.... I am pretty bothered by t...

Is he subtly trying to tell me he's not interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - A friend of mine often brings up "why are people gossiping, there's nothing going on between us". We do spend a lot of time together chatting, several hours at a time. We've cut back on that cos it has engendered a lot of gossip and it's detrime...

Has anyone got any ideas for a fun first date thats disabled-friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - I have been talking to this girl on a dating site for a month now, and now we both want to meet. However, I have got Cerebral Palsy which means I am a bit wobbly at times. Has anyone got any ideas for a fun first date thats disabled-friendl...

She jokingly said she might dump me, does this mean she doesn't love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - I'm in a good relationship with my GF for the past 5 yrs, i love her so much to the extent that i can do anything to make her happy. Now she said i'm too harsh to her, because i do talk to her whenever she is doing something wrong especially if guys ...

How can I talk to him without making a fool of myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - its really a long story but im gonna make it short so i have a crush on a guy for almost a year and were both in college well i started to like him when i knew that he likes me but im just too shy to talk to him so... he tried so many times to ta...

I like him but he is only 14, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Im in serious sentimental crisis haha for the same guy who everyone thinks likes me ..because i think i like him just a little bit too, but he's 14 and i'm 16 and other people think that , that small age gap counts and would make it look weird for ...

Are pimples a turn off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Do guys get turned off a girl if they have pimples on there chest and back?...

Is it ok to date two guys at the same time before being exclusive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Hi there. I've ended up in a situation where I'm dating two blokes, and have never done this before. They are both great guys, although one seems overly obsessed with sex (which we havn't had yet). It is still early days for both of them and they ...

Is it normal to be a little anxious at the beginning of a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - Hi, Last week my friends sister who i had asked out previously texted me a few times and eventually asked to meet up.She got a little emotional and eventually just told me that she had only turned me down because she was a little scared as she was ...

Is she trying to make a point that she's not the easy type of girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - So there's a girl that im a little into. I met her about 6 months ago and a while ago she was drunk and was all over me at a club ( making out with me and following me around). I was texting her the week before new year's eve to make plans for our ...

Why does he ask me out but never actually come through?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I can't figure this guy out and I don't know why I'm even bothering to do so. Normally I'm not this patient, if a guy shows signs of disinterest, then I move on. Which is fine, not everyone is going to fall in love with me. But with this guy, h...

How can I get my ex and my best friend together without meddling too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - My best friend in the whole freaking world is being an idiot. :D I say that as affectionately as I can, though there is definitely an undertone of frustration. We are freshmans, and you know, highschool drama and all that. I broke up with Dan...

Real love can never happen unless you can trust, give, and communicate

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - You are at work palms all sweaty thinking about tonight and part of you wants to just say,"forget it." Everyday you are falling for him and you know where this is leading. You want so bad to make this work but your past is holding you back. When ...

I'm constantly checking out women and I want to stop being so shallow!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - Hello. I seem to have a problem. I have always followed and been under the influence of the notion: looking past the outside, for what's on the inside. But, here is the problem. I often find myself, checking out women constantly. All the time. Co...

How can I feel so deeply for someone that's been terrible to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Okay here's my problem. There's a boy that I think I'm in love with. I've always told myself that there's no way I could love him because you can't love somebody you can't trust and you can't love somebody that can't love you back. It's so co...

I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed. I'm a high school senior. I'm not like the other girls. I like different music than the rest, I don't like going to the clubs, i like reading books.I am different. I can't help thinking that I'm...

Need help being more affectionate with new boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I've posted asking for help previously already, just re posting because I need a bit more advice from the army of aunts ^^ Firstly, I've just started going out with a guy, he's my first boyfriend and I'm his first girlfriend, so naturally we're ...

Should I go with the flow? Or is it over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Go with the flow? Or is it over? I met a guy online in the summer. He lives out of town so we met a few times, most recently over the holidays while he was in town. I texted him on December 30th and told him that "I missed him" and he repli...

Should I give it a try with him even though I've heard bad things from my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (?) - I have had an infrequent casual sexual relationship with a friend of a friend. He is the platonic friend of my girlfriend. Lately, I get the sense that he might want to deepen the relationship with me. I am not opposed to this and at times I f...

The dating scene seems to have changed since I was last in it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

4 January 2011 (M) - I'm trying to understand something since it looks like it may cause me a lot of pain in the future. I am now separated from my wife. It was a long term marriage (over 25 years) but with a lot of trials. In my state you have to be separated for...

How do I convince him of my love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Basically, I think he is doubting my love for him, I think he is feeling insecure lately. I know that he has troubles with his parents fighting at home, he hasn't really told me much more. One of his good friends has recently gotten annoyed by him, ...

He didnt get me a Christmas present!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4869 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 months. I love him a lot and he says he feels the same way. For Christmas I got him a Wii, when I gave it to him it was before Christmas cause I was excited and didn't want to wait. He said that he didn't ...

I know I don't have a future with any of these guys, but they all like me and I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Ahh! Ive got myself into a right daft pickle. I know im fully to blame but i dont know what to do! I split up with my ex, my first true love, of 2 years, about 8/9 months back now. Ill admit it broke me, but i thought i was over him! I got close to ...

In love with a bad boy: Should I give him more time to change or am I being too caring?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Alright so, I figured I'd try a website like this out so I could get the opinions of people that arent biased. I've been dating this guy for almost 3 months now, and makes me happy, He's an overall good boyfriend, and never ceases to try to make m...

Am I unlucky in love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - here is a list of my exes.. tell me what you think.. (most recent first) just wanted a FWB ex-girlfriend and mother of kid cheated on him and it left him an emotional mess. I met him only a few weeks after she had dumped him for her other man, b...

How can I persuade my parents to let us in my room during the day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - I'm 14 years old, and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for about 2 months, he isn't one of these older boys who are just after sex or anything, he is a really decent lad. I persuaded my mum and dad to let him sleep round at the weekend. They ...

I know he's going to hurt me again, but I cant let go.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

4 January 2011 (F) - Well... I've always been really closed with my emotions and never let myself fall for anybody properly in case I lose them. Around half a year ago, I met this boy and although I knew it would be more than likely that he'd turn out to be really bad ...