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Archived questions from: 12 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is a condom enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Hi I'm a Uni student who is a virgin and I've been dating this guy for a few months, and I really want to have sex with him but I'm scared to death of getting pregnant. If he uses a condom, do I really have that much to worry about?......

Porno for Valentine's Day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - My BF is obsessed with the tv show entourage..and I'm thinking about getting him the entourage parody porno for valentines as kinda joke kinda serious ha. is this a good or bad idea?...

B/f seems to want me to challenge the bounds

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - I have had a bf for 3yrs and I love him lots and would never hurt him. I am one where I like to play it where I wouldnt do anything to him that I wouldnt like myself. However, he WANTS me to do this stuff, cos he's treated me bad before and wants me ...

Hearing about my boyfriends sexual past turns me on...is this common?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. We have a wonderful sex life. We have occasionally watched porn together and I noticed that watching him watch porn turned me on more than actually watching it myself. Over about a six ...

He tells me that he doesn't know what to do because he wants his kids and also wants me. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Well here's my crazy story......when I met my husband we had a great relationship he was totally honest with me or atleast I thought he was being honest with me he told ne he had a son and that him and his sons mother had a mutual understanding that ...

Older boyfriend is not interested in sex...what could be the problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend is older than me by 15 years. when we first got together he took me places,ate out,he would do anything for me. now everything i do annoys him, he gets mad when i am sick,he won't touch me,kiss me,no sex. i can't bring the subject up ...

Why was I played after everything that I did??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - ive liked this guy intensely for ages and tonight i was speaking with two of my good friends and they confirmed what i suspected for a while-that ive been played. i cant describe how hurt i am. i really cared for him and he knew it.but he was new at ...

Most of the guys who ask me out or flirt with me just make me feel sick; but when I am with a guy who doesn't saying anything about getting together I'm just fine. Help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3568 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Okay, this kinda makes me feel silly but, I am 21 years old and I have never been in a serious relationship. I really just never put a lot of thought into it in high school; though I basically had majority male friends. Now that I have been in ...

She's coming for the weekend, might be the first time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Hi, me and my girlfriend have been together for a month and a half and this weekend she is coming to stay at mine. If I have been reading the signs right and not been misunderstanding them, I think it may be the first time for us. The only thing is ...

What is with his fickle behavior?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - my ex and i broke up at the end of november. he ended it because he felt like we were drifting apart (school and work got in the way of seeing each other a lot). a week after not talking he chatted me on facebook so we could discuss the break up. he ...

Am I just a friend with benefits or are we moving slowly towards a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - I started hanging out with a guy I know. I love spending time with him. I would love very much to be in a relationship with him. I thought that was the way he was headed too. After hanging out for a while we slept together. We text every day (or at ...

Sexual vs. Physical attraction

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - hi , could you explain .what if someone is sexual attrative is ? an what does it mean if they are physical attrative to you . which one is better for you if your looking for a relationship ....

A guy asked out my friend but, he only wants to date for 2 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - A guy came to my friend and said her that he wants to make her his girlfrnd for 2 years only....she is very confused....are these kind of things normal?????.....to propose a girl along with time span of 2 years...doess this kind of commitments ...

What is the source of a girl's attractiveness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - OK, I had an interesting experience recently. There has been a girl who is stunningly beautiful and very sexy whom I have known. She is always being sought after by guys. But I got to know her with no physical contact, in a friendly way. I ...

What's missing is a boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Hi guys, Lately, I've been feeling really lonely and depressed. I live on my own, away from my parents, because I'm studying in a university that's far from my hometown. Even though my life's supposed to be great: I'm healthy, I have a nci ehous...

Have I just been fooled?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - So, here is the situation: I feel like a fool right now. I started to get closer to this girl more than one and a half years ago. She had a boyfriend back then, but I knew that she is unhappy and the guy just does not let her go, even after a few...

Re all women this hard to read?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - I know that women have since the beginning of time been hard for men to understand but I keep having a relationship with this girl who baffles me. I wanted to ask you, Wise Agony Aunts, if this is "normal" female behavior or whether it is unusual. ...

My girlfriend has become distant and I don't know why

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - alright. I've been with my girlfriend for just about 10 months now. The first 3 were great and and then as the months followed things started to get progressively worse. She became more distant and didn't really spend time with me. Now more recently ...

He's dragging his feet about commitment.Am I too clingy? And should I allow this relationship to continue?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - I have been dating this guy on and off for a while now. We started off being friends. I do not know what I can do to show him I will be a good girlfriend. He definitely cares for me but is dragging his feet when it comes to commiting to me. He ...

I'm back in the love-state with him, but he has a girlfriend! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - I'm a 20 year old girl and becoming crazy because of my heart racing and chaos in my mind. It's a long story but, in November 2010 i fell headlessly in love with this boy, he lives 20 minutes driving away from me, so i didn't saw him for a very ...

Did she cheat? With son in mind which option will be better for my new family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Ok this question is going to be lengthy but its important that i get the details out.Please give me your thoughts. A year and a half ago I started seeing my gf.(Jul 31) Right at the end of our summers, I was going into my junior year of college,...

Is it possible for a woman to cry on demand?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Hi, Last year I was in a relationship with a woman who in retrospect I feel was manipulating me. She had asked me for a lot of money and I gave it to her over the course of the year, without getting anything back. (We were not even dating.) But I fo...

After all these yrs & all that we've been through why porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - In need of some advice. Me and my child's father are trying to work things out. We've been off and on for almost 9 yrs (majority of it was my fault) and we have a 2 yr old. He say's that he's forgiven me and is willing to let the past be the ...

She'd do me, but "sort of have a boyfriend". I don't know how to read women, and I not want just a fling, so what does she want with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Okay. I met this girl while out at a kareoke bar. We have talked and we seem to really hit it off. She has my number and we text every so often now. She has said I'm cute and in a text once "I'd do ya, If you dont mind my sayin...lol" She has said ...

He announced his love for me, broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years, but how do I enter a relationship with him without becoming a rebound?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - I have been best friends with my male friend for 7 years. We both were in long term relationships for most of the time we have known each other. My bf and I broke up about a year ago and this last year my best friend has been having relationship ...

The Mom of my married boyfriend has threatened to Dis-Inherit him if he doesn't go back to his wife. What can we do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend is married..i know but he left his wife and stayed with his mother and our relationship bloomed. he recently found out that his mother has had him followed, knows all about me..she told him to go back home to raise his 2 girls..(mind ...

I hate being rejected. She's not as interested as before. Our LDR is deteriorating. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Hello, I've been dating my highschool sweetheart for the past going on three years of college. She is about an hour away at a different college, however hopefully transferring here. Im truly in love with this girl and I would like to spend the rest...

He's apologized for his remark, but I'm feeling broken and lost inside. He means so much to me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - I don't know what's wrong with me now. There was a misunderstanding between my boyfriend and me. He thought I was talking bad about his friends and said something to me that made me feel less important. I love him so much but I feel as if I don't ...

I'm scared I might have hurt her when I chickened out of going further. I don't know what to do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Ok, so i'm 15 and my girlfriend and I are talking about sex. But i'm scared to because i might hurt her. we've reached really close to having sex, but i chickened out. I told her this reason and she keeps saying it'll be ok... i don't know what to ...

I'm not ready yet. But I seek your guidance on how to initiate sex for the first time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Okay.. Please don't be mean with answers to this. I'm not planning to make an instant decision here. To start off, I'm 19. I am a virgin, by choice. I've had a lot of chances of "Losing it", but I didn't want to until I was ready, and with someone ...

He's trying to change me on so many levels. When will these changes be 'enough' for him?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Hi, i really need some advice!! Iv been with my boyfriend for almost a year. Im 22, he's nearly 30 and he's a christian. Iv never felt like this about anyone before and i really really love him. When we first met everything was great! He was just as ...

He asked if I liked him.. I said yes. Now he's silent!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Hi! Sorry this is a pretty basic question. I want to know what it means when a guy asks you if you still like him. First off He knows I've liked him since 6th grade...(we are in 12th now) Second he just asked me over messaging if I still liked ...

Been out of the dating game for a while -- how do I approach her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - Im in a bit of a pickle i seek wisdom help! So here is my situation i was in a relationship for 4 years and then it abruptly ended (she broke up with me) now we always had a good connection no one ever cheated but she would hint at her suspicions ...

Girl friend can't get over ex-boyfriend -- need advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - I just started talking to this girl that goes to my school. We've been out on our first date already and it went well (she likes me and I also like her). The only problem is that she recently got out of a serous relationship. She broke up with her ...

My heart wants it to work, my head tells me to move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - I feel like I'm unable to move on because he's always on the back of my mind. I'm holding on to that little bit of hope that things will work between us, that's what my heart wants. But my head is telling me that it's never going to work and that I ...

Is my coworker interested in me, or is it in my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - I like this guy I work with, but I don't know if he is just friendly, or likes me back. To clarify I work part time at a grocery store. Some traits of our relationship: -He helps me whenever I need something -He always laughs at my jokes and s...

I really like him, but he's not very talkative

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - I started liking this one boy when he politely opened the door for me at pep band one night. We've talked a little, but not a lot. We have talked enough that he knows my name and I've gotten to be friends with his friends (who I had been friends...

Boy Crush, Missing a teacher, help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Alright so i've got a couple things. There's this guy i like. I've known him since last summer. i work at a store so he comes in a few days a week and always says hello but usually i am the one to start the conversation on AOL instant messange...

Can't get a boyfriend, what am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

12 January 2011 (F) - Why can't I get a boyfriend? I am half- japanese, and all of my friends say that I'm really pretty, and guys have called me beautiful, georgeous, hot, ect. And they tell me I could get any guy. I can't even go down the street with my friend ...