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Archived questions from: 3 January, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He didnt say much after we fooled around, did I do something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4521 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Okay, I've been dating him for about 7 months. And we've just fooled around. Make-out, cuddle. Little stuff. And I finally got the guts to rub his penis. Over his underwear of course. But he was left breathless, and didn't say much afterwar...

How can I read his moves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and me have been dating for about 7 months. And we haven't gone very far. Mostly because i'm scared. And i'm not reading any signals he's sending me. And i'm afraid our relationship is growing weaker. Can you guys help me know the sign...

How long should you wait before sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - How long should you wait before you are intimate with someone? I'm 24 and have only slept with one guy in Whig I was in a 6 year relationship with and I am back on the dating scene! I'm wondering how long should you wait I'm not really e permiscious ...

I feel like our whole relationship is becoming purely physical, should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4870 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been daing for 1 year and a few months now. And i feel like our whole relationship is becoming about being physical! Should i be worried.. or just happy he is into me? he is a sweet guy and i dont want to be mean! ...

I like all 3 guys but I don't know which one I like the most!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4869 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - dear cupid, okay so im in the middle of 3 guys. im not promiscuous or anything, ive just been hurt really bad in the past and im trying to figure out who i really like,and i havnt had sex with any of them either. so here are their personal...

Is this all he can offer or should I push him for more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Sorry if this long or not a specific question but I just need some advice on what to do and how to handle the situation I'm in.... Met a guy 8 mths ago and fell head over heels and it got intense very quickly. He admitted he had commitment issues a...

Boy problems getting out of hand......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Moved to another country and a close friends best friend said i should contact her boyfriend so he can show me around and also so i wont be lonely as my boyfriend is in another country... my boyfriend recently had sex with another chick and the girl ...

Am I being a prude by not wanting him to go to this out of town, weekend-long bachelor party?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - So I feel I am in a bit of a pickle lately having to do with both my friends bachelorette party and the potential bachelor party my boyfriend has mentioned. Im 22 and my boyfriend and I have been together over 4 years. We are not the type of peop...

Expensive love!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - dear cupid, i would like to ask, is right to spend alot of money in a relationship to impress your girlfriend....

She said she was interested, then wanted to be "friends"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - I 'met' a girl in my school a few months ago, though she'd always been there, it's only since a few months that i 'noticed' her. When i started hanging around with her, I asked myself 'do i like her as a friend or am i atracted to her?' many times. ...

Do all guys change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4868 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I have been together with my boyfriend for 1 and 1/2 years. We used to meet almost every day during the first 3 months and the days started to lessen. Until now, we only meet up around once a week if time allows or probably once in 1.5 weeks. He is ...

I have no idea who he really is!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for almost 2 months. Everything has been great, we hit it off, have fun, laugh and we usually see one another 3-4 times a week and I will sleep over. Well suddenly after xmas he seems different. Telling me he has been ...

He's a nice guy, but there's no chemistry. Am I allowed to be picky at my age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I am 50 years old and I met a very nice man online dating. We went on two dates and he's done everything right. He is nice, has a good career and great kids. But there is no spark. It's so frustrating. He's asked me to go on a day trip this ...

Wondering if I should keep texting him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Ok, so theirs this guy and i met him at my friend's homecoming at her school and we go to different schools. when i first saw him i told Her"wow isnt he hot". well then he asked me to dance and ect so i got his number. ive hung out with him at the ...

Unrequited love, what am I supposed to do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - I 'met' a year in my school a few months ago, though she'd always been there, it's only since a few months that i 'noticed' her. When i started hanging around with her, I asked myself 'do i like her as a friend or am i atracted to her?' many times. ...

I love her but don't want to be one of her sex slaves

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Hi everyone, In short I know a girl who I care for and think I love, the problem is she is beautiful and younger and does not want to settle for any one man. She has a string of open relationships where she is sexually intimate with a few people. ...

Does my FWB want more with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - For the past 4 months I have had this fwb..it was never defined as such. I met him online and we started hanging out and we see each other and have sex and hang out between 1-5 times a month. He texts me everyday lately i don't know if he likes me ...

What should I think about his many, many pet names for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend rarely calls me by name...he has many, many nicknames for me. One day, he saw me with hair beyond poofy and he grins, and calls me a little llama :p Stuff like that...he only says my real name when in public...still rare. Why? I also ...

What do you think of this as a Valentine's Day gift idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Valentines Idea Basically I really want to do something special for my crush. I know its elaborate but I wanted to do something different. I wondered what you girls (And guys) thought of it and how it'd make you feel. I was thinking of the ...

I have fear of dancing in public! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Hm, where to begin? Not quite sure if this falls under relationships, possibly more for dating, and it's not completely a question either, but anyway... The problem I have has been with me since my first days at nursery school (I'm now in my late ...

We've been talking about moving in together, I'm confused now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Im very confused hear and is actually driving me mad (And have read on hear before with some girl having trouble with a guy of of pof) Ive been speaking to this guy on pof for about 4 months now we speak on the phone mainly every day if not sp...

Is he trying to get laid or does he just need to polish his dating technique?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I've known this guy for about 3 months, we started dating about 3 weeks ago. We've been on 4 dates, we've gotten together for lunches and chats during the day about 5 times also. He didn't even hug me until the 3rd date, and on the 4th date he ...

I date a guy and then 3-4 years later I don't love them anymore

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I'm almost 28...divorced...2 baby daddy's...what's my problem? I date a guy and "think" I'm in love...then wake up 3-4 yrs later and don't love them anymore? Why can't I commit? Why can't I love someone for the rest of my life? I've always been like ...

Is dating my non-blood related third cousin okay? And how to handle being nervous around girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - recently for new yrs i had a party at a relatives house. i was chilling w/ my friend and i told him to flirt w/ this gorgeous girl i saw. he does. he says its my turn because he was unsuccesfull. i said no cuz shes my 3rd cuz`. later me and her are ...

Are we moving too quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost four months now and I know for a fact that we are perfect for each other. We understand eachother because of the tough ish that him and I have gone through before meeting each other. I have never ever ...

I want to see what might lie ahead with her but I'm so afraid of losing her if I ask her out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - I had just gotten out of a strong but unstable relationship a few months before all of this happened. I had gone off to college to (get an education) get away from my parents and hopefully find out something about myself. It was about a year after ...

I get attached too easily!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - I like someone a lot but I notice that I think about him too much. I notice that when I like someone I get attached easily and it is hard for me to keep my options open. I am young and I want to be able to stay single to stay focused on my career ...

If guys don't approach you or notice you, are you unattractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4868 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I'm 21, never dated. But I've been wondering if the reason why guys rarely approach me is because I'm not attractive. Or reject me all the time because I'm not good looking. I've been rejected a total of 23 times. Its gotten to the point I've ...

want my girlfriend to care about me more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - I've talked to my friends about my girlfriend and tell them it seems like she doesn't care about me but she still wants to be with me and she tells me she does care about me but I'm just thinking she's saying that.. its been 2 months with her and ...

Does it matter who texts first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Who texts who first, the girl to guy or guy to girl? Is it always the guy to text the girl first? What if a girl texts you first? does that mean she thinks about you? and If you text her back first and she takes at least 10-15 minutes and after sh...

Everyone tells me my neighbor is in love with me and I'm the only one not realising it. But I already have a BF

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I am a 25 year old female confused because I been recently close with my neighbor who was engaged but broke up with his girlfriend about month ago. I been here for him during this whole break up but everyone tells me that he's in love me and that I ...

Should I risk my chance and tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Okay, there's a girl I've known for a good few months, nearly a year, I am quite sure I am in love with her, she seems to me like she is the one, I love everything about her. Although I am not with her, she has a boyfriend, complications included, ...

I think a LDR will ruin our relationship but my fiance wants to chase good money in australia.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4873 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Dealing with this exhausting situation? My heart is being ripped apart. I've lost my job and my fiancee is trying to push me to go back home to establish a good career 6 months before she emigrates to Australia. I don't want us to be apart. It is s...

Is he leading me on? Does he just want a friend with benefits? I'm confused

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Ok so I met this guy a couple years ago and we were friends with benefits for a short while. Then in the begining of 09 he moved out of state but we started talking again right before he moved. We really liked each other but lost touch again soon ...

My ex said he doesn't care about me and never will. I'm crying my eyes out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - my ex officially cut me off for the same reason below... what do i do now? he told me he doesn't care about me and he never will... And if i have a miscarriage he really wouldn't care.. i'm crying my eyes out because i didn't believe that this is ...

He says our relationship 'isn't worth it' to make the changes I think it needs. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having been together for almost 2 years now, but it looks like our relationship is coming to a close. I feel I definitely have a lot of things to work through that I can't focus on when I'm focusing on the peaks and ...

How can you spot a player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I took things slowly with my ex, went on dates, met his friends and family, didn't sleep with him until at least a couple of months. Yet I still got played. Still got cheated on and dumped by text. So how can you tell?...

He says I'd make a good wife. Does that mean he's thinking of our future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I been with my boyfriend for 8 mos and with in 8 mos we have been throw alot of bull.. like babyma and babyda and car jackin lost of jobs.. but we still together and happy as ever. I have said something about me getting marriend and kids we don't ...

I have a girl friend but I want to kiss my male friend. Am I gay or confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - Hey I dunno if I'm gay or not, I have had a girlfriend now for two years but have recently started to find guys attractive and I want to kiss my best mate. I'm so confused, help...

I am in love with two guys but don't know how to resolve the situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Well my dilemma is, I think I'm in love with two people. I was going out with a a guy for two years and we were going through a really rough patch, but i was still really in love with him, but he dumped me. I was so hurt I didn't talk to him agai...

Will any guy find me attractive despite my physical imperfections?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - I am 18 years old. I am not pretty, in fact, I think that I am really ugly. I have a lot of insecurities with the way I look. First, I have a lot of blemishes. But the one that really concerns me is this: I have stretch marks on my shoulders. I got ...

Does this make me a terrible girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a "musician", or so he tries. I personally can't stand listening to him sing. I just don't have the heart to tell him that. Instead I suffer in silence. We haven't even been dating a year yet, and the noise is beginning to get under ...

What's the longest you've been out of contact with your s/o?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4875 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend left the country for a week for school reasons and I will not be able to talk to her at all for until she is back. I didn't think I would miss her this much, she left last night so I miss her like crazy right now. How can I get this ...

34 and never had a proper relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - Help!! I am 34 years old, black, professional, college educated woman, and I never had a boyfriend! I spent the last 5 years dealing with a man who took me out maybe 3 times, never calls me, barely texts me back, unless we were planning to meet at a ...

How to be more confident in kissing girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - i am a 16 YO in my junior year of high school finally getting more social with the opposite sex. I am inexperienced with girls and have only kissed one girl in my life but i was extremely nervous and it was quick and bad. I want to get with more ...

Should I tell him about my troubled sexual past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (F) - About 6 years ago I was abused sexually by a family friend but never told anyone as he has a wife who is very dependant on him. Then when I was 16 I got in a very involved relationship with a boy who I now know is very depressed, long story short he ...

How do I stop acting so needy and believe in myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4874 days ago

3 January 2011 (M) - im 49 years old and very nice looking. i have aq great body yet im still insecure and i hate it. i get tired of doubting my girlfriends love for me and worrying about her fooling around. i should be the guy that makes other guys insecure yet i still ...