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Dating: Help and advice

Women and Men: Being Equal

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - When your in a relationship, either married or dating I think it is safe to say that equality in that relationship is a very good thing. I'm interested in seeing what everyone can come up with for equality points in a relationship. I'm not really ...

He is my best friend and my worst nightmare!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Ive been dating a guy for almost three years and I still feel hot for him one week and cold for him the next. He makes me feel loved and needed and we can be the best of friends like it comes naturally. Then he will show his irritated and angry ...

I don't know what to do and I feel helpless.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Ok where do I start. Well first off me and my girlfriend have been together for five years. We loved each other very much and helped each other get through very tough times in our life. She has always dealt with bouts depression and I have helped ...

My husband refuses to meet our daughter's ex crim boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My daughter is 18 and a senior in high school. Last year she met a man 5 years older than her and now they are dating. He is also an ex-con (time for drugs)and a tatoo artist. I found out last year that she was writing to him in jail. He is now out ...

I'm nervous and don't know what move to make next!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Ok so i recently met this guy at a bar. He immediately came up to me and asked me if i would like a drink. So we ended up chatting for the rest of the night, and he walked me home. We then spent the rest of the night talking. Finally, I started ...

Everytime we make plans to hang out something comes up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - She says that she wants to go out with me and that she likes me, and i like here back, but every time we try to go out something always happens and we never do go out...this is like the 4th time its happened...what should i do...i already talked to ...

Why am I always alone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Where do I start off? I'm just always aloneeeeeeeeee! I'm pushing 20 and I'm a very pretty girl. But I want a boyfriend. I don't get it, I only had 1 boyfriend and ugh that was when I was 17. I don't care for him at all. But I want male attention, I ...

My boyfriend doesn't treat me the same anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't treat me the same anymore. What can I do? he used to text me all the time, but I'm lucky if i get one without asking a question what I need the answer to.. and most of the time one worded. He never makes the effort to come s...

I feel stuck and unsure what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I was wondering if anyone one has gone through a similar situation and how you dealt with it. (And thanks for reading this) My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 3years, me 22 and him 24. We have been in a long distance relatio...

Are my girlfriend's sexual issues common in women? Is there something I can do to make the experience more enjoyable for her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I are sexually active. After having sex for a bit, she will ask me if I am about done. After she asks me this question, I just stop, or other times she will say it's hurting her. We use a lot of lube. Is this normal for women? Is ...

I find myself falling for a man who already has a girlfriend.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hi I am 45, recently divorced and redundant. Due to all these reasons I have been fairly depressed. I recently met a 37 year old guy at a party socially who befriended me and showed me a lot of sympathy. He also seems attracted to me. As a result I ...

Which guy should I like? Or should I find a guy outside my group of friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I recently moved to a new town and made some new friends. I mostly hang with the boys since I become easily jealous and I'm very conceited. It makes me feel better about myself being surrounded by a group of guys. Along the way, I made some ...

I am bothered by the thought of my ex moving on. What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I dated for about a year and a half. I broke up with him because we were both in college and we were in different places in life. I was just starting college and he was graduating, and he resented me wanting to party because he ...

My girlfriend's past is causing me stress. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - So here is the situation, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. I've known for some time that she had slept with my brother before meeting me and that it wasn't anything serious because she has told me many times. She told me they ...

Should I reconcile with my ex now, or wait until she and my best friend break up. I am somewhat turned on knowing he is with her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I had a heated argument a few days ago. Yesterday, I was having a drink with my best friend, we have been friends since high school. He asked me how Linda was and I told him we had split and that she was fair game. I knew that he ...

Creative advice needed!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - I am in need of some help from those who are creative. I have an on going "battle" with my gf for doing little things for each other that are out of the ordinary. so I am looking for self made crafts or creative ways to tell her how im thinking. ...

I'm feeling uneasy about her close friendship with this guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and a half now, and just recently have been realizing the magnitude of her relationship with her male friend. He is living in North Carolina and we are in Arizona. They have been friends longer than we ...

Should I give a 'yes'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I'm caught in a real dilemma..when i first entered college it was as if I suddenly became alone..It was at this time that a person came up to support me so much that he came all the way from just a classmate to the best friend I ever had..1 week ...

Is she not certain or was her friend pulling my leg?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Hi there, To get straight to the point, there is a girl i met on a site(not dating one) with which we go in the same school. I started hitting on her, but she told me she wants someone else so i respected her descision and quitted trying to get us...

Will she fall for me if I do things to make her jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Please girls, help me! Can making a girl you love jealous make her fall in love with you? Like hanging out with a lot of girls and even those she knows? Will it make her fall for you?...

Should I propose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - I need some advice about my relationship and whether or not we're ready to be engaged. I have a great relationship with my boyfriend of two years now. We are compatible in almost every way, same interests, passions, life goals and incomes! ...

My LDR has something going on but won't tell me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hi there, hope some of you can help settle my mind on a certain situation. I'm involved with a guy who lives long distance, of whom is coming to spend the weekend with me within the next 2-3 weeks. We're really close and share almost everythi...

I like two guys, but I need help choosing the right one. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I'm so confused. I met a guy on an online dating site. We exchanged numbers and have been texting... he lives about 2 hours drive from me and we haven't met up yet. Recently, I met another boy who I do like. However, the other day, the boy I met ...

My friend does not approve of this boy I am interested in. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hey, I have been dating this boy for about a month now and he wants to move to the next level and start seeing each other. I do really like this boy and he said he has the same feelings, but my friend doesn't like him and is telling me not to get ...

How can I gather the strength to break up with my terrible boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hi. Well I just want to know how to stop loving my first love. Obviously, I know I should have broken up with him a long time ago and all, but I just want to stop loving him. I've heard he has cheated on me so many times. Ugh. I don't know what I'm ...

Am I in love? And how do I go about telling her I have feelings for her without causing any awkwardness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - I really like this girl... and have liked her since I met her 5 months ago. We're not going out, but I want to. I have had crushes before on celebrities and people I know, but this doesn't feel like a crush. Since November (3 months ago), I have ...

Now that I live with my boyfriend, he no longer pays any attention to me! What can I do to change this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. We used to be in a long-distance relationship and while I was gone, we used to talk about how happy we were and how excited we were for me to move and get our own place. Well... Now, we're li...

My friend set me up with a male friend of hers, but now she's acting jealous! Should I go through with meeting him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (?) - My friend wanted to set me up with one of her guy friends. I talked to him over e-mail and he wants to meet up. He lives in another state but said he would drive up to see me. I'm nervous because what if he sees me and isn't interested? I'm just ...

Am I just being used here or is he really in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - ok heres my question. ive had a bf for almost a year last week we were hanging out together went clubbing and i asked him how come he decided to come over to me the day we met? he told me that it was because he just had to have me and then he said...

I really want to blow his mind when I see him again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - My guy is out of town working and we wont be able to see each other for three weeks till he gets his second pay check.....and I wanna really blow his mind when I see him again...should I get lingerie...or something else...HELP?...

I always thought I was just friends with this guy...then why the kiss??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - i need help to understand this situation im in tnx. i grew up with this guy and we were extremly friendly he was a sort of father/brother figure to me. he is nigerian and he wasnt allowed to live or work in the country, so he married his gf back at ...

It doesn't feel and hardly even qualifies as a relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - hey.so me n my bf have been together for 4 months now.but i actually don't feel like im in a relationship.i feel alone. i cant actually open up n share things with him n neither does he. i wanna over things but i don't wanna lose him.i mean i ...

Should I forgive and forget if she still insists on seeing this group at her college?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months, and love eachother very much. We go to different colleges, and she has a lot of guy friends that she hangs out with on the weekends. She always tells me that they respect our relationship and ...

How can I make my boyfriend feel better about my past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I am a 17 year old girl, and my boyfriend is 19. We've only been dating for about 2 months, and I just recently got out of an abusive relationship of a year. He knows this, of course. He can't seem to get over the fact that we messed around, even ...

I was just trying to be nice... why did she mistake that for a romantic interest in her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Why do girls think if you do nice things for them, that you like them or want to date them? Honestly this question never been so true for me right now. I dated a girl for a year and we broke up 18 months ago, she knew I loved her deeply. I was hu...

Big crush, like very much, or love, or lust? How do I tell which feelings are love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - Hey, so I need some advice. How do you know love when you, well, know it? I know it's silly since I'm only 13. Yeah, I've gone through a few crushes, like, 'oh that new kid is hot', yada yada. In 3 grade, I even 'dated' a guy.. For one recess. B...

She just up and left him out of the blue!1

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Hi all, Would like peoples views on the following. My friend is in a situation wher his girlfriend has left him out the blue for a friend of her's, myself and other friends of his think that she has just done it without giving it any thought as...

My best friend is in love with my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - my best friend is in love with my BF and i dont know what to do i really love him and every time we go out one of my BFFs start to like him i dont know what to do, my heart is breaking and i dont want to lose anyone ...

Calling for very romantic ideas to do and buy for valentine's day please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - hey, I know valentimes day is for another few weeks yet but i'm in major stress.! This is my first valentimes day where i am with someone and in a serious relationship I have been with my boyfriend a year now and i want to make this valentimes ...

If guys know they love a girl, then do they still want to party and see girls, instead of settling down now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I met a guy, dated for a month, broke up and didn't speak for a month and a half. Then started talking again and became best friends. It's been six months since we've become best friends, we're each others only best friends, and we recently admi...

How do I stop being so accomodating to guys? I want a long term meaningful relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - I have always made bad choices in guys, form high school until now...I've had long term relationships but never meaningful one I was always quick to make them happy doing everything I thought they wanted me to do (pushover). Most of the time I had se...

Do I end it with my gf and also hurt my two children? or end it with the girl I feel is my soul mate?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

22 January 2011 (M) - Hello wise people, I did something I thought I would never do. I had an affair. Now before anyone goes tut, that was me, before it happened. I met this amazing girl at my girlfriend's work. We clicked from day one and it was at first, just the ...