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Dating: Help and advice

Do I stand my ground? She wants an open relationship, but I want none of that

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - This is going to be a bit long, so I apologise. I am 22, and have never been fantastic with girls, and met my first (and current) girlfriend about 9 months ago. I had previously just come out of a failed attempt at a relationship that had left me ...

I'm shy but want to tease my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Hey guys, Not asking for like real explicit stuff, don't wanna get banned haha, just a few ideas would be great. Basically, sometimes my boyfriend will finger me but first he will 'tease' me. All it is really is him well rubbing me over my clot...

Guy at my girlfriend's work troubles me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - This guy at my gfs work seems to go the extra mile for her always. If she needs something doing he'll do it before his other tasks, he helps her when she is puzzled at her work and by the sounds of it he comes over to talk to her a lot. I know she ...

26 year old man 18 year old female... WRONG ?????

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - 26yr old Male, interested in 18yr old female O.k. so their is this very cute girl who works at a local coffee shop, I have been interested in her for some time now. She beat me to the punch, by friending me of Facebook. We have been talking for...

Should I try to start this relationship or wait until we can be around each other?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - So here it is guys. I have been talking over the phone with this guy for a few years now and I have just recently realized how much I care about him but what can I do? we live 5 1/2 hours away from each other and to top it off I've never seen him in ...

This girl is hitting on me and I need more time, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4847 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I don't know, to be honest I have no idea at all what I'm thinking. You see there was this girl hitting on me in the campus, she started with a little chit chat on facebook then advance to text messages from the number she got from my friend. ...

How do I deal with my girlfriend's irrational behavior?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Yesterday my girlfriend and I had another fight and she provoqued me by saying she had no money to buy the plane ticket so I should be the one doing it. I did it. When she saw I could do it she started to play victim saying that she didn't want to ...

Am I falling for him? Is it too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - i have been in a new relationship for 4 days now, i have been in so much pain with fallin in love because of my past, but when im around my bf i just dont care about anything else and when he holds me and kisses me he doesnt want to let go and nor ...

What is the easiest way to talk to him without going directly to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I want to know what the way and how to start talking with a boy that just live behind my house instead of going directly suggest any other way of talking with him. I haven't talk with that boy ever before and i really want to talk because i love ...

Boyfriend seems to need something else from his ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a great relationship. We are both very affectionate, our sex life is great, we stimulate each other mentally and physically and we both have outside interests, we're also very well matched in our interests, our sense of ...

Should we go out just as friends or should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I met a girl who I really liked a few months ago, through some friends. I got chatting and walked her home. I got her number and a couple of days later I texted her to asked if she wanted to go for a coffee. She said yes and we arranged a date. ...

He actually looks sincere but I know he's lying!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I love my bf to bits. We were best friends before, so I know he has a habit of falling for his friends. I still gave in and we been dating for almost 2 years. When we were friends I saw one of our friends flirting with him, and I asked him--he sa...

I fall in love too quickly

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I wonder if anyone has got any tips to help me deal with this problem - I fall in love way too easy. The result of which is I give too much of myself, have sex with them before I have gotten to know them properly, ignore their bad qualities, ...

My GF has had more sexual encounters than me...and it makes me feel like Iv missed out on stuff

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Basically im in university and have fallen in love with a beautiful girl. However she was only the second girl I ever slept with. I was her 5th. Now i do not have a problem with her sleeping with more than me as it opened my mind to girls are jus...

Should I risk a possible awkward situation and tell her how I feel? What if she doesn't reciprocate??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Ive suddenly fallen for this girl i know, our families are very close and are always visiting each other, she has just recently come back from up north were she has been working, she is back for a few months we have been hanging out quite alot ...

Would it be strange to expect it to just start up in the summer where it left off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I have always had this tiny crush on this boy 2 years ahead of me. This has been for at least 4 or 5 years - he was my friend's brother's friend. It never really meant anything to me, I just always admired him. As we all got older, our social ...

First boyfriend dilemma.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - This is quite a long story, but basicly, I have never had a boyfriend and really want one. There is this boy I like but he's really popular but I'm just a nobody. Plus I am really short so we might look a bit awkward together. I would talk to him ...

Why doesn't my girlfriend want to tell me if she's a virgin or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4851 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Hello. I have been dating this girl for almost a month already. I usually spend at least 1 day a week with her because we both go to different schools. I can tell she feels the same way I feel about her. She has told me before that she has had ...

What makes a man emotionally attached to a woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - For the first time ever, I swallowed! Will this make a man appreciate you more? Not that I did it for that reason, but just wondering since I heard that if a female squirts she can become so attached to him. I did this because 1) I like givin my bf ...

Away boyfriend is convinced other guys hit on me when that's not the case!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is a Marine and gets extremely jealous even at the thought of another guy flirting with me. We are many states apart and I obviously have the occasional worry of girls hitting on him. However, he takes it to another level. He is ...

Never dated or asked a guy out...but I like someone and don't know where to go from here...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - There is a guy that I've liked for a little while now and I'm not sure how to find out if he might feel the same way. It's not in my nature to just ask him directly, although I'm sure that would be the easiest way to know for sure, but I don't know ...

My BF is overly jealous and I really don't know what to do about this!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Please give me advice.. I have a boyfriend. He is a very very jealous man. He never allows me to attend my friend's birthday party or any party in my college because he said there will be many handsome guys there. He also calls me many times in...

He thinks I'm the one, but I'm not so sure if he's the one.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 1/2 months now. I had only known him for slightly less than 2 months before we started dating. I'm pretty sure he was saying he loved me from the very beginning. I held out for a while in saying it but then ...

How long should I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I have been trying to make this lady have a date with me and after 5 months of trying she agrees. I kept calling and texting her but I eventually felt am pushing a door that can't open. In December 2010, I called her told her I like her and I ...

Should I put myself out there or take myself out of the game?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I feel really lonly latly. I've always been the relationship typ ever since I was yung. The longest I went single was a year and I was about 19 to 20 and it didn't bother me then because I always had a lot of male attention. But I love being with ...

How can I overcome this lack of balance between love and sex in my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for about two years now, we are both 20 years old. As far as our relationship goes, things could not be better! We both genuinely love each other with our whole hearts. She frequently talks about how she wants to get ...

I'm not physically attracted to my mate

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Not physically attracted to my significant other, but not sure what to do. I love her in other ways. What do I do?...

Should I take a risk with my old friend....we both have our reservations, but should we go for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I don't know what to do! I ran into a old friend from highschool whom I haven't seen in 14 years, whom I always was secretly seriously attracted to. We chatted away that night and realized that we each went through pretty rough divorces in the past ...

Sometimes he shows signs that he likes me, but other times there is nothing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I really like this guy in school. We used to talk at the beginning of the year online and he would say hi to me in the hallways. But now, he never comes online and just ignores me in school. But, everytime I look at him he is looking at me. I'm ...

He talked to me about having sex with other girls but I thought it was just a joke...it wasn't

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about 4 months and I have been spending the night almost every night for about 3.5... He has always been hesitant to call himself my boyfriend, but I let it go because he was always so nice to me. He took care of me when ...

Help! I'm too clingy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I joined this forum because I need help and support. I reunited with my long lost love last November after a 15 year separation. The trouble is I have been having a lot of problems with insecurities and neediness. I have had this issue all my life ...

Dating my ex's friend should I or dont?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - hello thanks for reading, well it starts like this, i use to go out with this guy 3 years ago we broke up 3 months later. this year i started going out with one of his friends, and my ex's best friends girlfriend is being a bitch and saying that i ...

Should I confront this? A man's patience can only last so long. I feel unwanted.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - Hi I am 47 years old, in reasonable good shape, as is my partener of 46, whom I adore. But the problem is this she been rejecting my advances, for nearly a year now. But she does still seem to enjoy making love, about 3 times a month. She says...

He blames me for everything. Puts me down. I really love him. But what am I supposed to do about HIS behavior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I am a 36 year old gay bloke who has been with my partner for over 18 months. In november my partner moved to be near my family and i moved into the house with him. Ever since we have been together he can get moody, and when in a bad mood will put ...

Something's wrong. All the signs are there that she's cheating. What can I do

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

18 January 2011 (M) - I think my girlfriend is cheating. i've been going out with her for just over seven months now. We have only been out on a proper date once, and I only slept with her once. But that's not the main reason i think she's cheating. She was texting ...

How can a man reject his baby daughter for his new GF? Is this just a phase? He says our baby will ruin his new relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - how can a man reject his child for another women? We were together over 6 years and i fell pregant. Soon as he heard, he did a runner. Three months later he's in a serious relationship with another girl. They are going abroad together. His child ...

How do I make my father realize I'm not a little kid any more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I still live with my parents. I just got out of high school, and i'm rooming here until college. But i had my boyfriend over. And we wanted to watch a movie. So we got online and found one on netflix. We got on the couch and cuddled. And we had a ...

My family tell me this crazy. The trouble starts when we're apart. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I love being around him. When i'm with him its perfect. But as soon as he leaves i'm depressed. So depressed that my family starts yelling at me, telling me this is crazy. Is there any like way to fix this problem?...