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Dating: Help and advice

We're attracted, she wants a relationship, and I only want sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - I met a chinese girl in my seminar group at university.We are both attracted to each other.The only problem is that I think she wants a serious realtionship whereas I would like sex.I don't see a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship because we differ ...

Should I give in to him or stay sex free and single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - My friend says he loves me,he's been loving me for three years,his feelings never changed,but he cooled down somewhat because i never used to take him on. Now im madly in love with (just out of an abusive relationship) but i know its not a ...

I cant choose between the picture-perfect Vince and not-so-perfect Caleb who I love, but...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Help me with my decision! I have been with Caleb for a year and a half. We have had some rough patches. I love him an incredible amount but I want him to do more with his life. Sometimes he seems unmotivated to work and find a job.He lost his ...

I definitely think she is "the one"...but I still really want to cheat on her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year now, and we were best friends for almost 3 years. I am madly in love with her and I am pretty sure she is madly in love with me. I definitely think she is "the one"... However, recently...

"Even though the stars are blind....." or are they???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - My Sister swears by horoscope comatibilty and dates only her own matches. I am a sagittarius female,my boyfriend of nearly a year is a leo male. She told me my sex life will be active which is true,she told me to treat him right and he will be your ...

His demeanor is flirtatious, I def don't get the friend vibe, but he doesn't seem to be taking me seriously in a dating situation either... Whats the deal??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (?) - So I'm 25 and he's 28, we work in the same office. From the night of the first happy hour he and I have chatted each other up. The next day he started with the daily emails on the company email, which continue to this day. Right away he asked me to ...

My ex's words: "it's too much right now, but maybe later in the future". Was it all my fault??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - My ex and I met through a mutual friend and instantly connected. He was talking to someone and so was I, so we were strictly friends, but the more we talked about things the more we realized how much we had in common with what we wanted out of a ...

I'm not sure if we should make love or wait until we are married, in about 2 years...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Me and my Boyfriend of 4 months have decided we want to spend the rest of our lives together. But we cant get married because of some family issues going on , so we must wait. We both want to make love but i feel pressured. I am a virgin and am ...

Can somebody tell ... if it's love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - I have been trying to make this lady have a data with me and after 5 months of trying she agrees. I kept calling and texting her but I eventually felt am pushing a door that can't open in December 2010, I called her told her I like her and I started ...

Once we graduate will our relationship survive in the real world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Hello guys, My brother told me that guys will change once they step into the society to work. Is it really true that there is a high chance that my boyfriend, who is graduating this year together with me. My brother shared with me some stor...

What should I wear on this date?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - i cant decide between 5 dresses which one i should wear for a date.. please someone give me a clue on what type of dress we have to wear on a date. your answer will be appreciated...

21 year old dating a 16 year old... how do I make people understand we are serious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I've recently been seeing this girl who is the sister of a work collegue. We get on like a house on fire, shes sweet, thoughtful and drop dead gorgeous but there is one thing holding me back and that's a gap between our ages, i'm 21 and...

Dating a month and he doesn't call me every day. Is this going nowhere?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Help! I have been seeing this guy a little over a month and it is really going nowwhere. He dosent call me everyday and when he does the conversation is short. I tried to break up with him last week but he called and said he wanted to be with me. He ...

I want to move on, how can I stop being clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - i wrote a month ago about my x boyfriend.. now its over.. it all started a month ago when i needed him urgently for a life or death situation and i called him many times.. he finally showed up but then he started distancing himself from me like i ...

Torn between my childhood sweetheart and a lovely guy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Okay, so i have gotten myself into a huge dilema. Seven months ago me and my childhood sweetheart met up and within a few weeks we were an item. I really loved him. He has been in foster care his whole life so i was always weary. Four months into ...

When do age differences stop being an issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - ok i need something figured out, i know that a age difference isnt the greatest in dating and if theres even a 1 year age difference in your teens everyone goes insane. but if your in your 20's 30's 40's all of a sudden there could be a 20 year ...

School love triangle - what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - what do you do when your best friend likes the same guy that you do and she says that i can go out with him and then goes back on her word but the guy likes me more then he does her? thank you for all your answers in advance....

I can't get him out of my head! I think he is the one.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I can't stop thinking about my ex, and I wonder every day if he's the love of my life. We were together for five years and he's the only real serious relationship I've had. And same with him (I'm 18, he's 19).. We split up about three months ag...

My insecurities have a strangle hold on me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Hi. I am hoping I can get some advice with a very troubling problem. I am in a relationship, I am 33 and boyfriend is 31. We were both late bloomers and I especially had/have problems with self-esteem. We have been together for 1 and a half years ...

Is my bf materialistic or I am just not generous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4858 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Hi All, I am feeling guilty right now of what has happened the other day with me and my bf but on the other side, I feel that I have only said what my boyfriend needed to hear. Can you let me know if i have done something wrong. I hope to make it ...

Ideas on what to engrave on boyfriend's ring?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I'm getting my boyfriend an engraved ring as a surprise. Do you have any ideas on what to engrave on the ring? I'm thinking of something sweet and personal so it doesn't look like i just bought it off a store. Any ideas anyone? We've been tog...

What should I do next?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - OK so I'm 28 and I've met this guy who I work with, we've been at a few functions and have always kinda flirted see the thing is he's 39 so am not sure if that's too much of an age gap. He's a lovely guy and he told me that he has been thinking...

In my 20's and new to dating - looking for people who have had similar situations

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - so im 21 and new to dating ... im not entirely sure if i want a relationship right now, or whether im just craving meeting new people/ making new friends... basically, my question is for those who have been in my situation, and have started ...

Are there still people out there today who don't prescribe to whats on the idiot box?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - hi im not sure how to say this but im a normal person, i have no trouble making friends it's just i really don't like to have sex and it's not like im gay or anything, i know that im not attracted to men. it's just i can't seem to find girls who are ...

I don't think this situation with my "friend" is heading anywhere. Should I just call it quits??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Hello! I've got a problem with a 'friend' of mine We met each other at university (we're both studying anglistics) and get along with each other...or at least I think so. To be honest I fancy him pretty much but I suspect that he's just not that ...

His behavior makes no sense to me! I still cant figure out what went wrong!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - so i started dating this guy last year in july. he had seen me at a party a few months back and had added me on facebook in may. we used to talk online almost everyday and soon we began telling eachother everything about our day, our secrets. when ...

What does it mean when a guy mimics you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - what does it mean when a guy mimics you? When I touch his face, he touches mine. If I rub his hand, he rubs mine back. I kiss his cheek and he kisses mine back. He will often repeat the things I say if he thinks they're funny. Is he do...

Was our friendship really a secret relationship? Was he even gay to begin with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Hello to all, I welcome anyone's advice and just a disclaimer this question is very prolonged because it requires so many details. Well I am gay, and up until recently I haven't always told the people that I am. So when I entered my senior year in ...

Do you think he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Hey, thanks in advance for taking the time to read this. I'm confused and would appreciate some advice. I'll try to keep it short, too. I've known this boy since third grade. I went to the same high school with him in freshman year. We talked, but ...

She doesn't want a relationship right now. What!??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4853 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Hi all, So, I need a bit of advice, validation. Hope you've got your reading glasses on as this is too long of a post... I've been dating a girl for the past 2.5 months. We've been getting dinner, getting lunch, going to movies, grabbing...

I need a good guy to marry. But how can I stop being attracted to loving bad boys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Recently i hooked up with my friend. I've known him about 8 yrs. I really love him but he can't do anything for me. Love is all he can offer. i'm young, pretty smart and good looking. And i've got a permanent job at a well known orga...

What is important if you are in a relationship? Personality or who the person is?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - I just want to be open about how I feel about this girl, I honestly loved this girl with all my heart and everything. Now its been over a year and a half since we have broken up, she has had a few relationships in this time we have remained friends ...

How he could beg for me to take him back and yet sleep with four other women meanwhile???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend were dating for three years we have children. he lost his job and started hanging out with friends all the time and he pushed me away from him. when i finally got tiered of it. i asked him to leave. he begged me to let him stay ...

How do you turn a straight boy gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4855 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - i am a boy of 19 years and mostly get attracted toward boys.so there is a boy that lives just behind my house i really feel attracted towards him.that boy age is 20 years and i really cant spend even a single second without seeing him and i really ...

Should I talk all the time on stay quite during a movie date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are going to the movies in a couple of weeks. We have been dating for two months and this is our first actual date. Iv been out to dates at resturaunts and iv met my ex s parents but iv never been to the movies on a date. am i ...

Is it bad for me to want to be in a relationship this badly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - Is it bad for me to want to be in a relationship this bad? I'm a 16 year old gay boy and I really want to find my prince. I want a boyfriend so bad. Some one that understands me, and our personalities mesh. A best friend, a lover that cares about ...

Why does she need this 'space' in our relationship? Is it a test? Or because of the medical news?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - i have been dating this girl for 8 months now. Before we started dating we were friends for years.We both came from bad ex's both were abusive. also before we got together we both have said to each other, 'we should be with each other.' We both ...

I'm dating my second cousin and our parents don't know!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4859 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I'm 13 and I recently met my second cousin at a family reunion. 5 seconds after I met him, I fell head over hills in love with him. He feels the same way, so we've been dating. But we have so many problems. He lives in Colorado and I live in Texas. ...

Should I pick the man that only physically pleases me (my bf) or pick the one that emotionally satisfies me but not physically (my ex)?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - my situation is so complicated. Idk what to do. I recently moved in with my bf. Things went really fast. we only knew each other a few months before moving in together. things were great for the first month or so but lately he has been working Alot ...

She's the partner of my guy's best friend. How do I deal with this bossy woman? I'm all stressed out about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Big dilemma! I have been together with my boyfriend for almost 12 months - during this time we discovered that we were pregnant and have decided to go through with the pregnancy. Because of his income, we both decided it would be better if I moved ...

Despite our Stand-off I love him and want to settle down with him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I thought I had met the love of my life. We both have had issues in the past and were badly wounded from other relationships. It was a whirlwind and we quickly moved in together. The pressure really got to us, and i moved out. We agreed to take ...

Does he like me? He's the hottest guy on this planet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (M) - I've been bi for a few years. I've been currently messing around with one of my friends, but he has a girlfriend now and doesn't want to mess around. I told him i completely understand. There's this guy that goes to my school. He is the hottest ...

He doesn't seem to understand that my life isn't devoted to his penis!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I've been with a new guy for three months now, and he's absolutely drop dead gorgeous. But there's one problem - he's obsessed with sex. He wants it every day and more than once - the third time we had sex he wanted to do it six times. It's getting ...

I'm hurt he didn't reveal he had a girlfriend until later. What do you think of my idea to never contact him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4861 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I have this guy I fell in love with right from the first day I met him. We live in different cities but we talk, even though it's not as often as I want. Nor what am used to. I just take it like that because I think he's the ideal man I want to ...

My boyfriend's friend is nothing but bad news

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4855 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Okay, my boyfriend and I been going out for a total of five weeks and three days. lol...Before we become gf and bf we been crushing on each other for a year and a half...I think I fell for him and he told me many times that he love me. He said he ...