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writes: Ok so theres this guy who ive known for years and i didnt relise how i felt for him til not so long back wen sumthing happened to him and it hit me hard. Basically i love him but i dont know if he feels the same because he laffs at me wen he's with his friends but wen were on our own hes so lovely to me. however were not in item or nuffin, we live by each other and i always see him i just want to run up and tell him. but i dont want to make a fool off myself. wen were alone all he seems to want to do is, want me to give him head he trys to finger me and i dont want that whilst were not in a relationship.but we kiss and stuff its nyc and it feels right but i dont want to do other stuff because we not togther and i have a feeling thats all he wants from me and if i cuz i dont do nufifn he ses im boring:(please help me i really dont know what to do! Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 October 2009):
I agree with the other post. The fact that you're not in a reltationship with him, and he then has the nerve to say that you're boring when you try to focus on the emotional side proves that he really only sees you for one thing at the moment. You need to talk to him and tell him clearly that you're not his toy, and that unless he commits to you and focuses on the emotional side as well as the physical side, then you'll have to end it. Never allow yourself to be used.
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reader, happyhippo85  +, writes (27 October 2009):
 firstly, i feel that you should never go intimate unless in a relationship..
secondly if he is upset because of this then his feelings to you are questionable.
Focus on building the emotional aspect of this and see how it goes.
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