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writes: theres this guy, call him David, i had got to know him during this camp thing from our school which was for 11 days in june last year. we had got pretty close and after we got back, he asked me out sometime near end of august. after eight days i had broken up with him because he was acting like a total loser. after that i went out with another guy in feb-march this year and we broke up because he was going away for college(he was senior to me by one year).nobody except my closest friends knew about me going out with the second guy. and now, since march David has asked me out five times...and keeps sending random messages like are you awake or asleep? and things like thati really dont think of him as anything but a friend any longer but he doesnt seem to want to get over it....normally i just ignore it but he keeps on doing it........ he doesnt message me often or anthing, its just once in a few weeks or something like that.......ive told him that i have moved on, i have told him that i want to be just friends but its as if i am talking to the walls.....and he is NOT a stalker....what do i do to get it into his head that i do not want to get into a relationship with him anytime in the near or distant future?????
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reader, KaidohsGurl  +, writes (21 March 2010):
hey.... i agree with the previous post and plus, it tottaly works.... soon he'll stop asking you out but even then try to have as little to do with him as possible, cause some guys, even if they have stopped asking the girl out, still like her, and if you have a conversation with him it has chances of ending up with him asking you out again....
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 October 2009):
First of all, well done for not settling for someone who doesnt' treat you all that well. Unfortuantely, when a guy fancies a woman, it can be hard to shake the feeling. Generally we respond to direct words and actions. You've tried the words, so now try the actions. Ignore the texts, have as little to do with him as possible (if possiblem have nothing to do with him, that's the best way), and he'll slowly start to accept it. If he does seem to become a stalker (you say he's not now, but it might get worse if he's acting this way), then don't be afraid to tell someone about it. for now, the best thing to do is ignore him.
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