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*illyhannah
writes:Hello, Am i being too posessive? i was with my boyfriend and he got a text of this random number, that hadn't been saved on his phone. when i asked who it was, he replied, " i don't know it's been texting me all week".so i started to text the number to see who it is. As i began to do so he "coincidentally" remembered that it was a girl from his college.\so we had a big argument about it and my friends rung her up to find out what has been going on, and sort of frightened her of a bit. The next morning i went over my biyfriends and he was angry with me for making a big deaL about it and calling her and upsetting her relationship with her boyfriend. He then said to me if i don't apologise he would break up with me. So i apologised but then thought to my self i have shouldn't of and broke up with him for making me feel stupid. We are now back together, but this girl texted him again last night at quarter to 12! The way he lied sbout th number has made me doubt him and there is clearly more to it then he is telling me else why would she text him so late at night???? i really don't no where i stand with him anymore and could really do with some advise on wht to do now????? ( bit of a essay i know) please reply asap!!!!
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reader, eve567  +, writes (29 October 2009):
Please what ever you do dont that him get away with it.My husband has been talking to other ladys on his cell for a long time and all I could do was that him keep doing this.Well his boss took his phone away he wouldnt tell me what for.Well I got another cell for him and he is still talking two them and god knows what ever he is doing with them. I have it all on paper now so soon I will get to give all the phone numbers to him that he has been calling and say Good bye for good.It feels so good to know the truth even when he lies to me over and over again!! I hope you the best.I would just that him go for good.You dont need to be hurt.I know trust me.
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reader, lola29  +, writes (27 October 2009):
nope, hes the one who had the nerve to "suddenly" remember who it was. To be honest, i think you should tell him its over, what ever you have with this girl, you can continue, and im not going to stand it and be in the middle of anything. you have better things to worry abut than be the one pointed as a control freak, i was in ur situation tell him straight that you know hes lying and you wont stand for it. gooodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2009): Look there is nothing wrong with you asking him or texting back. He shouldent stress it. But him suddently remembering who it is? Thats a red flag. Do you trust him? Thing about that. Just because its a girl means nothing what does he have to hide and then he threatens you no way somthings up.
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