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Should I ask her if shes into me?

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Question - (27 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There's this girl I've met and I like her a lot! I've never liked a girl in this way B4..We talk on the phone all night and we hangout almost everyday! we talk about our secrets to one another she's so easy to talk to and I'm getting feelings for her I know she's not into girls but I get the feeling she's into me.. How can I ask her if she's into me?

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A female reader, openmind United States +, writes (30 October 2009):

Be sly about it girl if you just blurt out hey do you like me as more than a friend it may end up blowing up in your face. Word it in a way you can play it off. Ask her what she would do if one of her female friends was really into her if her response is positive then ask her if she has ever been attracted to a girl before if response is good again then tell her you would like to try new things with her and just see where things end up. If she doesnt seem into it when you ask her the first two questions then just play it off and give her something about you read something online that said only 10% of people are truly gay and only 10% are truly strait and that 80% are on the fence as in bi so you just wanted to see if it was true or not and then laugh it off. You guys seem really close so what ever route you choose you should be ok good luck

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2009):

Well it certainly sounds if if she likes you. You do seem to be connecting well, and that's a good sign. The only real way to find out whether she likes you or not is to speak to her. You have to be brave and take a chance, so ask her to meet, then ask her if she'd like to take things further. Take your time and really get to know her. Good luck.

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A female reader, lactaction gurl  United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2009):

lactaction gurl  agony aunthi there well my love get here on here own in a nice place and ask her how she is and how she feels about another woman liking her she can only tell you to go and run jump go for it slowly though

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