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writes:HiI'm 18 years oldThroughout my life i have been through some sh***y relationships and broke up with my last boyfriend because he cheated on meI have gotten to the point now where i just want to lose my virginity (hopefully with someone i know). I know this is prob the wrong/stupid idea and im only 18 but i just want to stay a virgin foreverIve always been in the mind that i wanted it to be with someone i really care about and who cares about me, but from my experience there just doesnt seem to be that guy out there. It seems that theres not that one guy out there for you, just need to find one that doesnt treat you like c**p. I think i need some reassurance here or just anyones idea
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009): I've never met a girl in my life who didn't meet any guys that would treat her well. I just know tons of girls who pass up those guys year after year.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): OK, you're 18, so it's only been a short number of years (three, four) where you've been having relationships. You'll have heard this before, so forgive me if it's repetative, but you've lots of time ahead to get it right. There *will* be a person in your future with whom things are right. You're going to go on to further education, or to other jobs, and you'll meet people that way. And one of them will *not* be a sh***y relationship. The guy who doesn't treat you like crap is out there.
You have to do two things. One, respect yourself. Two, not accept any crap from anyone. If you demand respect, you won't get any more crap guys. Just be patient, and true to yourself.
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