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writes:Simple questions to the girls. Pls, consider you re lookin for a bf. And what are the features you ll be lookin for. Everything as a whole,what you girls look for when looking for a boyfriend.put everything you feel like you need in a boy friend. So,pls answer me. So,that i ve luck sometimes.thanks Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): Most people say they want honest & realistic politicians if you ask them. And then they vote for another phony charismatic liar every time anyway.
Don't focus on what women say they want, focus on what actually works on them in the real world.
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reader, jeslet992  +, writes (20 October 2009):
I'd say the most important thing for me is a guy who genuinely shows that he cares. Because then you know that he's worth the time. Notice the little things, take an interest in what they like. But more importantly, just be yourself.
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reader, Starlights  + ♥, writes (20 October 2009):
 If I was looking for a boyfriend (not that i am)
the following in no particular order would be the qualities any sensible candidate should have:
1. he should have a sense of humour
2. Respect for himself
3. Respect for others
4. Generousity (giving or helping others without expecting anything in return)
5. be hygenic and well groomed
6. positive minded or optimistic despite hardships
7. eat sensibly, exercise
8. Independant & self reliant
Hope this answers your question!
Goodluck!
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reader, satindesire +, writes (19 October 2009):
 Self acceptance. A man has to love himself, completely. And be at peace with himself. No self esteem issues, no ego problems...no cockiness, no Napoleon complex.
Intelligence. Someone who is articulate, well read and has a thirst for knowledge.
Funny. I need a man with a sense of humor, because I'm random and I need a guy to laugh with, and laugh at me and my silly antics.
Open mindedness, to the point of being willing to listen to other people's opinions without judgment.
Masculinity. I need a man who's a man's man. A guy who kills bugs, opens stuck jars, and is unapologetically male in the sense that his gender does not bring him shame or discontent.
Discipline. I need a guy who doesn't overeat, drink too much alcohol, and lives a healthy lifestyle. A man who keeps his temper and doesn't blow up angrily at stupid things. A man who can speak rationally even when he's upset, and would never use violence to get what he wants.
Romanticism. I don't know if that's the right term for it, but I need a guy who isn't ashamed of being romantic. He'll do it in front of anyone, it's not something kept for "private". He'll hold my hand in public, tell me he loves me in front of anyone, and is willing to do little extra things like bring me a little gift or take me out for dinner occasionally.
Loyalty. I need a guy who isn't going to sleep with other women.
Trust. I need a man who trusts me, who won't accuse me of things I'm not doing. This goes hand in hand with not being possessive. He needs to allow me to have my own space occasionally.
Honesty. If I ask him a question, he has to be honest with me no matter what. That means, I will never ask him a question I Don't really want an honest answer to (AKA the, "Do I look fat in this outfit?" question.)
Good hygiene. The guy's gotta shower, brush and floss, use deodorant, every day. I can't have no stank man clouding up my house with ball sweat.
I think that's about it. Kind of a long list, eh?! ^_^
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reader, TasteofIndia + ♥, writes (19 October 2009):
 I love for a funny, thoughtful, smart fella who is comfortable in his own skin. A guy who is polite and respects his family, his peers and me. Every girl is different in what she wants in her fella - for me, I like my guy to be creatively talented. But, every lady is a little different in whatever particulars they seek out.
But, ya know, even a theater geek like me can fall for the football star. It really comes down to respectfulness and comfort in your own skin. Just be yourself and be nice and you'll find a lady who loves you just as you are.
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