A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i am in my senior year in school. i have my final examination in a few months time-the results of which will exclusively determine which college I get into, my career and my life. hence, it is needless to say i have to really focus on my studies. but since the past few months i cannot focus on anything else but this girl i have been crushing over since the past 5 years. i can't ask her out as she already has a steady boyfriend nor can i get her off my mind by seeing another girl as i really have to concentrate on my studies. what should i do?
View related questions:
crush Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, lastdinosaur  +, writes (20 October 2009):
 It's a classic case of the high school crush.
Been there, done that.
My advice, even though it's hard to take, is to focus on your studies and try to forget her. Chances are if you confess feelings to her, she'll only feel weird about it, as you said she has a boyfriend. But I also advise that if her and this guy break up, to talk to her about your feelings. Then she can openly express her own. And remember, that if she isn't the right one, that there are other fish in the sea, and that you'll be in college/uni soon, so you've still got a lot of things ahead of you.
-L.
A
male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 October 2009):
Just focus on your studies at the moment. The only way to get over someone is to do everything you can to forget them. Once you're out of the school system, you'll forget her. In the meantime, spend time with friends, spend time on your work and spend time finding things to do when you're bored. (Gym etc). It will take you time, but you will get there. Good luck.
...............................
|
