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female
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30-35,
*aniq
writes:I'm currently in a relationship with my boyfriend which shall be named as K for 9 months now, the love for him seem to be fading . and i have feelings for someone else , M . K does treat me well and all but .. his job is in the middle of everything because he works as a sailor (3 moths at sea 1 month on land) when in times of need he doesn't seem to be there when his working. for awhile now i have fallen for M.M makes me feel secure, and trust.. and lied that i wasn't in a relationship when M asked me to be his gf, it seems such a shocking news and accepted it the proposal 2 days ago..now i have 2 boyfriends .. what should i do ? i intend to tell M about K . HELP! ='( ( fyi, both are long distant relationship)needs to know1. what should i do2. how do i tell gently3. how to i tell M and hope to remain the relationship. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009): What you should do - be honest straight away. First, tell K that you no longer have feelings for him and you're moving on. Tell him honestly how you feel. Just let him know that it's not going to work. Just say it as nicely as you can. Its best to break it off with him before telling M anything.
How to tell M - again, just be honest. Tell M everything! Tell him you regret it and everything to do with K is over. Its then up to him if he still wants you to be with him. Just hope for the best.
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