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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi i was woundering how do i relax arounds guys if a guy touched me i go weak in the kness and get nevervous and tense up.the last time i was in nightclub a guy had his arms around my waist and i felt very nervous and shy.i was weak in the kness.the guy told to me relax and i couild,t,because i have no experecnce with guys like that before.i never a boyfreind and even kissed a guy i am afraid too.i,d run mile from it.should i always say yes when a guy offers me a drink in a pub or nighclub.
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reader, Sisyphus +, writes (14 January 2009):
 I'm not sure how you should become less nervous around guys. I'm less nervous now than I used to be, there are only two kinds of guys that make me nervous now: Creeps and guys I'm interested in (and the creeps are FAR more common).
As for accepting a drink, I wouldn't for fear of drink spiking. If you do accept a drink from a guy remember that you are sending him a 'yes I am interested in you' signal.
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