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writes:I have A girlfriend who is a virgin. Shes 6 years younger than me. We've been going out now for about a month and I like her a lot. She plays with me and stuff but she's kinda shy when it comes to me playing with her(By that I mean fingering her) I Know she obviously likes me a lot but I'm not used to a girl who doesn't want to have sex because of former relationships. Is it because shes a virgin and is a little scared? I know I should wait till shes ready, and if so how will I know? I want her to feel comfortable and I don't want to pressure her but at the same time I want to know why she doesn't want to yet. thanks
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reader, CheReeZ  +, writes (14 January 2009):
It's only been a month for crying out loud! If she is very young, she may not be ready for sex right now. I'm sure you really like her, but being patient with her is the only way she will ever feel comfortable enough to be willing to give up her virginity to you. Just let her know that she means a lot to you and that you are willing to wait until she is ready.
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reader, pastfirst +, writes (14 January 2009):
 I liked satindesires's answer.
Take things slow. She'll let you know when she's ready. And make sure she's of legal age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009): No woman can say that this is when I will be ready, being ready comes on its own, and as soon as she is ready she wont be scared anymore, sweet heart, if you are not pressuring her then just wait until she initiates it herself, it has only been 1 month and that is a bit soon to be giving up your virginity, virginity to a girl is something she would like to give up to a special person, and in a special way, so I can understand why she does not want to sleep with you just yet, if you are 22 and this girl is 6 years younger it makes her underage, (or that s the law where I am from) if you really like this girl rather wait until she is of legal age or at least until she tells you she is ready
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