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female
age
30-35,
*asierToFallThanToForget
writes:So me and this guy have been dating on and off since may of 08. We have dated a total of 3 times, once in mmay, once in september and we are dating now. Both times i was the one to break things off and for different rteason each time. The first time it was becasue i didnt think i was IN love with him...at least no in that way. Howver i soon began to miss him and we got back together in september. We dated a while until i broke up with him in october. This time i broke up with him because i realised that my best friend was in love with him. My bf and my bff had known each other a lot longer than me and him and i had always though they had a thing for each other. It was just the way they acted and some things they said...so despite the fact that i really did like him i broke up with him. About a month later they started dating..and despite the fact that i helped get them together....i hated that they were. I HATED seeing them together...it made me want to start crying and want to throw something. They dated and i started to distane my self from them adn made it so i didnt have to see him anymore to try to keep myself from missing him but it wasnt helping. Anyway after a while my other friend realised i was upset and me and her got into an argument about love. I had become a lot more pessimistic about it then i used to be adn she wanted to know why. Well when me adn ehr started arguing i was getting more and more upset and finally i blurted out angrily "No i'll fall in love with someone who will fall for my best friend instead". After that my friend finally got what i hadnt wanted to admit to even myself. Not to long later my ex found out that i still liked him nad we ended up getting back together. Well this tme around its amazing. ITs so different than how it was before and i cant figure out why. Now just the thought of him not being there makes me want to cry whereas before it wasnt that big of a deal. I constantly want to be with him and talking to him when before I would get sick of him and feel smothered. I just can't figure out why... what makes this time so different that I feel so much more. We are essentially the same people we were before.... so why is everything so much stronger?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): You can't live without him! Plain and simple. You had to evaluate your feelings and this time around, they're stronger than ever. You really care about him and it's hard to find someone that feels the same way, so cherish it. Don't let him get away again. It's a fresh start, with new emotions and you're so lucky! I wish the best for both of you and your relationship :).
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