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22-25,
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writes:Hi guyz, My case is, I have been in a relationship for a year 6 months, I loved ths guy a lot but things are sometimes not good between us, he lied to me about some things but I stood by him after he explained his reasons and never did it again. We live in diferent towns but see each other every week, except for the last two months. I call more often than him because I am working and he is not. He travelled to Angola for a holiday because that's where he is from, I knew he was leaving that day but he never called to say good bye, I called him and he said he did'nt see a need because I knew already that he is leaving and that was almost two weeks ago and he asked me to wait for him and that he loves me but he never called ever since.Than I met a guy at work (my client) from his country, and this guy is falling for me, I don't wanna dump my boyfriend but I think I am falling in love with the guy I met at work, every time I bump into him there is just a certain feeling that I never felt before. He told me he loves me, and I told him I am occupied but he said for me he is willing to wait for life if that is the case because he knows I am the woman of his life, he told me the first time he met me, that was last year april and how hard was it for him to get hold of me and he said he knows for sure that I feel something for him also but he thinks it's just not the right time... may be... but he is willing to wait. The other thing is this guy looks like my big brother a lot in the face and the manners. Is this the reason why I love this guy. Can I go for him. I am confused.PAWA
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (14 January 2009):
 If you feel your relationship with your current b/f is going nowhere and you would be better off apart then you need to tell him before you pursue anything with this other man because to see him whilst with your b/f would not be right so if you are sure in your mind and in your heart you no longer want to be with your b/f then you need to tell him once you have told him you can start to see this other man.
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