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*aree02
writes:I don't get it. All my friends say that guys are always staring at me and that some say I'm pretty and what not. Yet, I'm single. Not that I'm desperate to have a boyfriend but it comes to the point that you envy those who have the relationship you want. It would be nice to have someone. So, how can I get what I want even though I'm clueless and guys don't have the you know what to come and talk to me themselves? Reply to this Question
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reader, maree02 +, writes (18 January 2009):
maree02 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou did help. thanks so much. sorry for asking so many questions. lol. :)
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (17 January 2009):
 Wow, these guys must be stupid or something. I guess the only thing you can do is continue to look good and do your thing. But like I said, be very crowd social and fun and the right guys should start coming up to you. I've been nervous about talking to a girl plenty of times myself, but you just gotta go for it sometimes. I wish I could help more. Im sorry hon.
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reader, maree02 +, writes (17 January 2009):
maree02 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo really. its them. I asked one of my girl friends oh check if I have anything on my pants. And this guy I had a crush on asked what she was doing and joking I said oh you see no guy checks me out so she's doing the job for them and he's like really I check you out all the time. I was just like really? Hmm...one thing is looking and another thing is going up to a girl and saying I think this and this and that. But not even a compliment. yea im going crazzzzzy.
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (17 January 2009):
I find that really hard to believe that no guys come up to you. I'm thinking that maybe you get some but not the ones you want. Everybody has standards but are yours too high maybe? I'm just throwing that out there. I dont know if thats true i'm just saying.
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reader, maree02 +, writes (15 January 2009):
maree02 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI understand that they may be intimidated but it sucks that im the one that has to go up to a guy and flirt. It isn't old fashion. Now a day everything is you want something go get it. It doesn't come to you anymore.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (14 January 2009):
They may be staring at you but how do you make yourself approachable?
Girls tend to move in groups so it's very hard for a guy to get you alone to ask you out without all your mates spying and giggling round the corner.
If there is someone you are interested in and they are staring then look over at them, smile or wave, and make sure you hang back to tie a shoe or check your bag within their vision. Make it as easy as you can for them to come over and talk to you. Give them opportunities.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (14 January 2009):
This is easy. You are very pretty and thats intimidating to guys. Most of them probably assume you MUST have a boyfriend because you are so pretty how could you not. The only thing to do is flirt with the ones you like. But us guys are pretty slow when it comes to that so make it obvious.
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