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Archived questions from: 22 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Her words don't match her actions! What to I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Hi Everyone, I am really confused by this girls actions. I have a new neighbor she is 20 yr old. I am 40 and single. She came over and introduced herself the first week and asked if she could her laundry since she does not have a washer/dryer. I ...

Her dad is very overprotective, and won't even let me speak to her anymore! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Okay, so I met this girl awhile ago, and we didn't really talk until about a week or two ago. The fact is, we both really matured and we both REALLY like each other, I mean I have never ever felt this way about a girl before. I just want to be ...

He keeps asking for sex. Do you think I should have sex or should I wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my BF for 5 months and we have known each other for 1 and half years. We have not have sex yet. But we have french kissed and cuddled. He keeps asking for sex. He says that we should take it further because it is a ...

He cant forgive me because I had sex with someone else! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Ok i was in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years, and for a year of that was long distance and we were having major issues in our relationship stupidly i got drunk one night and cried on the shoulder of a friend and we ended up having sex. ...

Why is my ex interfering?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hi( sorry this is long) im just back from meeting a friend of mine and my ex, basically we had a drink and a laught and nothing more, anyway i know for a fact that this mate i went out with likes me more then that,anyway i think he mentioned this to ...

What's the big deal? She won't let me see her naked.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (?) - My girlfriend (she's 18 and I'm 19) is through this phase thinking she's fat (trust me she's not). And because of it she won't let me see her naked anymore. We do make out but she lets got to the point where I can't control myself. Only she gain ...

Boyfriend hates oral: I can't cum without it!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend hates giving me oral sex and thats the only way i'm able to orgasm, i have vibrators and other various things. has anyone got any suggestions ...

It's killing me waiting for her to move on....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - My gf and I broke up 6 weeks ago. She hasn’t gotten over it (i.e. she keeps sending me emails and we keep “accidently” running into each other) and I miss her a lot. I don’t think she’s the one (she's not a life partner - too irresponsible, ...

What do I do about this coworker I like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Hey, I like my coworker, but I am afraid she doesn't have the same feeling towards me. I don't know how to let her know, and if even I did, I don't know how she will take it. She is so cool, and I just like her. We work together all the time, an...

Problems at school!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - im haveing these bigg promblems in school. im 15 and in the 9th grade.this boy i really liked asked me out i really like him ALOT AND HE LIKES ME but theres these girls that i guess hates me so they told him to brake up with me.he dident but i broke ...

Men and games!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I Have been dating this guy for a few months and recently I have been living with him. He told me from the start that he wasn't emotionally ready for any commitment, but he told me I may find my way to his heart.......... ...

I'm 15 and have felt pressured to have sex most of my high school life.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I'm 15 and have felt pressured to have sex most of my high school life. I have a girlfriend and I want to have sex with her but I'm not confident enough. It's not that I have a small penis, it's that I have tight forskin and cannot ejaculate yet. ...

I'd love to have him back in my life again...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - My partner has moved out our home 3 months ago after 5 years together. At the moment he is living with his parents. He says he needs time and space and I know it is no point to make him stay or beg him. I said I understand and agree to let him go, ...

Her dad doesn't want her to date...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Alright, so I have PRACTICALLY been dating this girl for about 13 months (we have never called each other boyfriend and girlfriend). We do a lot together, especially talk on the phone, haha. She had gotten her phone taken away by her father 2 wee...

I don't want to break his heart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I wrote before about my boyfriend, and I am sure I want to break up with him. The thing is, he loves me like hell and I don't know how to do it! I know I sound desperate, but is there a way to break up with him without breaking his heart? xxx...

We're so different that it creates a strain on our relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We have our fights, but I feel like they are more often than should be in a normal relationship and they are becoming more frequent. I have a very hard time communicating without getting ...

Our relationship is being ruined by this guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hi, thanks for reading. I've been going out with this guy for about a month. Let's call him Bob. I love him to bits and he's really sweet. And then there is this other guy. Let's call him Ted. He has this insane crush on me and he won't leave me a...

Is it legal and okay for me to move in with him when I'm not 18 yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I am a girl of 17 in a wonderful relationship with a 27 year old guy. I am planning to leave home, transfer my college and move in with my boyfriend in 2 weeks time. My parent are not so happy with my decision but I have been with him for 6 ...

A lot of trust issues between him and I. Any advice?

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22 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend, "Pillsbury" for over 9 nine months. We met thru a mutual friend of ours. For the past 7 months he was doing drugs and standing me up and it almost ruined our relationship on several occasions! Now, for 2 months he has ...

She said there was no physical attraction...can we overcome this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Hi All I'm a nice normal guy in his early 30s who's never had a long term relationship and a few short term. I have interests and don't feel I meet the right sort of person for me. I recently went out with a girl from work for just over 1 m...

Does her crying mean she cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Hi, please help. My girlfriend has a not so nice sexual history including having affair with a married man and also a history of cheating. I love her so much and won't let go but it upsets me. I asked her when she was with another guy sexually ...

I think one of my friends fancies my best guy mate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - hey i think one of my friends fancies my best guy mate. i think I love him and he knows how I feel, he fancies me too but is scared to 'tempt the friendship' Do you think he is secretely seeing her? she said she does nt have feelings for him bu...

Will this have a bad ending?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I have been divorced for 10 years and have had an off and on relationship with a woman for the past 5 years. The first time we split up, I think , after 2 years. I feel that we moved in together too fast and it created problems for us both. The ...

Is he falling for me? He says he doesn't want anything serious....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - i met a guy we are in the same grad school program together and because of this we see each other everyday. We started getting close and becoming really good friends and one night we had sex. Since then we have had sex a few times. I really like ...

What am I doing wrong? I want a boyfriend....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - This is gonna sound quite big headed,but i am a good looking girl and im a size 12 im clean and live in a nice home with an ok family. the onli problem is im 16 goin on 17 and i still havnt had a seirious realitonship ive only ever had one,that...

What should I do with this great connection we have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - i have a really big crush on someone who has a girlfriend. me and him go to school together but she lives like 2 hours away at college he always flirts with me and alot of people see it, he even went as far as taking my phone and getting my number ...

Where and when did I become public enemy number one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Here is one for you.. You see a girl for two years, she sees someone’s, you say fair enough ask no questions and say if its what you want good luck with it, heartbroken you get on with it. Weeks later she cries saying it is all a mess you are kind ...

Read her journal: did she sleep with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - There is one particular ex my GF has that for whatever reason, more than her others, rubs me the wrong way. I don't like this guy one bit. However, he was her first boyfriend, and stopped dating I think at 16 years old. We are 22 now, but she is ...

Is it possible to change someone's mind about being single?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - In what way is it possible to change somebodys mind about been single at university? This girl inparticular isnt like alot of other girls. She wants to be single to have fun with her mates, be able to only have to think about herself and not ...

What is going through her head?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - my girlfriend left me one day and went to australia a week later. she has two sisters there. she never verbally told me she was going but i did get a letter stating why the break up and why she had to go to australia. two months past and i went down ...

Am I wrong for letting him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - My heart is SO heavy...i was seeing this guy for almost a year now.Things were going great between us but we never spoke about what's going on btwn us, we just went with the flow!im not very good with ambiguity in relationships cos if things are ...

Why is it that boys are obsessed with breasts?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hey guys, I am 15 years old and am blessed with generous cups. My bf regards my breasts very sexy. Why is that boys are obssessed with breasts? My all bfs used to suck breasts more than to have sex. Personally,I like that but I dont understand ...

I don't like to go out drinking, or be be around people who drink. Where can I, then, meet girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Briefly: As I have mentioned before I am overweight, but am trying to work on it. I know I have a good personality and am caring, considerate etc, am a gentleman and so on. Now here are my questions: I am uni, but I don't like to go out...

Is it legal to have sex with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I am a 17 year old girl and seriously in love with a 27 year old. Is it legal if I have sex with him as I love him so much and hes been saying no to me. Pls help. anonymous....

I'm 23 and I'm meeting my new date who is 42, tonight. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hi guys a bit of help hear, My ex bf just rang me to say that one of his and his new partners mates wants to meet me, ive said yes and agreed to meet me on my own in a public place, m ex is 28 and the guy im meeting 2nite is 42 where im 23 is there...

This break up has really messed me up...help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Im feeling so rubbish at the moment, so many feelings and emotions are getting to me. My boyfriend left me a month ago, we had been together for about 2 and a half years, and he was my everything. we split up once before and then got back together ...

He is ignoring my texts...should I carry on and forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend of a couple of months broke up with me a week ago, he originally said he couldnt handle the long distance relationship (whihc was never an issue before) and eventually i dragged it out of him a few days ago that he thought our ...

My bf says he loves me but he's really better off single. I don't get it *guys opinions please*

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - ok iv been on and off with my boyfriend 3 times now and he has recently said to me that he is not happy being with me and that he was better off single and i asked him why and he said because i feels like i dont love him and i said 'if you're so ...

My bf isn't working and just lives off me! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is nearly 23 years old, we have a house which we rent in a village near our parents houses. We've been together for nearly 4 years now and while ive been with him he hasnt had a job. I find myself having to pay for everything for him. ...

She doesn't want me! I need a solution, besides just moving on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I am in love with my first cousin and have been through a lot with her in a few months of our relationship. We start of well and now in a long distance relationship. I am a posseessive and full of insecurities and that messed up our relationship. ...

He cheats with his ex constantly. Puzzled and confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - So here's the case. My boyfriend and I have already been dating for almost 7months, actually it's our monthsary tomorrow. He has been with his ex for almost 4 years, though within that 4 years he's constantly cheating with that girl. I always ...

My gf doesn't want sex that much...has the spark gone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I have been with my partner for 5 years and at the moment I feel like we are an old married couple. We only have sex once a week, when we do it is amazing but it leaves me wanting more. We are only young after all! We have tried all sorts of things ...

What should I do to make this right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (?) - my best friend is kind of obsessed with this guy we go to school with named ''todd'' who's a year older than us and is a sophomore. she knows practically every single thing about him: his hobbies,b-day,class schedule, middle name, everything. well, ...

A nice first date

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

22 October 2008 (?) - my first date was just three weeks ago. my date was a junior at my high school. he arrived at my house at seven. when i asked him what we were gonna do all he told me was ''it's a suprise.'' at the end of my driveway was a horse drawn carriage. he ...

He had the chance to walk away and be with his "secret relationship" but he tries to win me back, do I accept him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - So I am engaged to be married to a man I have been with for almost 3 years. I love him whole heartedly and more than life itself, but we have some trust issues that recently came acrossed. I was promoted through my job so we had to relocate- I ...

If we are just going out, what can I do to get her in the mood for sexual things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - How do I sexually turn on a girl??? for example, my friend and I were hanging out together, and me being a guy, i was basically turned on by looking at her, lol. However, she did not want to do anything sexual that night. My question is, if ...

(I'm in love with this older professor, but I'm married to someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Please don't judge, but I am in love with my professor. I don't know what kind of love it is, if it is how a daughter loves her dad, or how a woman loves a man, but I have been in love with him for over a year now. I am 21, and he is 58...

I have personal issues about this woman from his past! Why am I like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I love my Fiance, and we are getting married in 5 months. There is a relationship in his past that really bothers me. She was divorced and with a child. She was a bartender at a trashy young bar and lived at home with her parents. She also ...

Angry because he won't have sex but he still masturbates daily! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I'm angry at my boyfriend, he masturbates daily and lies about it. We don't have sex anymore and when I ask him about it he comes up with a different answer every time. I don't know if he's lying or not. We are always talking about breaking up and ...

My gf's sex drive is lower than mine! Is that unusual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Im 29 and my girlfriend of two years is 34, she is rarely the one to initiate sex and seems to have a lower sex drive than me. recently she told me that she could go months without needing an orgasm, but she has one nearly every time that we have ...

I have an unusual vagina opening..what can I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - well, i'll start here, i love my boyfriend. i'm almost 17, and he wants to get engaged, i know, sounds soon, but we really love each other and we've known each other since the beginning of january, fallen in love. me and him, we can read each ...

She just told me she was forced to go down on a guy, how long do I have to wait to ask her to go down on me again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - Over the course of our 13 month relationship my GF has gone down me maybe 10 times, and only once did she stick it out til I came. She swallowed, and it was glorious. When I ask her to do it, she usually obliges, but rarely initiates it her...

I have problems talking to girls..any tips on changing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I have problems talking to girls. I guess its that i am very shy and always think of things that can go wrong if i do talk to her. I am scared of rejection and of being embarrassed. I dont think i am that bad looking, and girls talk to me alot, ...

I can't stop phoning and texting him!! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - i'm seeing someone new now. i've just come out of a 2 year relationship.............i can't stop ringing him, texting him all the time. how do i get a handle on the crazy????...

We got involved and she went to break it off with her bf! Haven't heard from her..should I be worried?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - I started to see a girl 3 months ago thing escalated pretty quickly she practically lives at my place over 5 or 6 nights a week its great we started as friends and i knew she had a boyfriend oversees after on month of friendship it turned into t...

She can't date me until she's 16! What can we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - i have liked my friend for 1 year or less but she cant go out with anyone till she is 16 and we r the same age wat should i do should i take her out to the movies but not for a date...

Do I have cause to think he might be cheating on me or am I being paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I made arrangements with my boyfriend and some of our friends to go out for my birthday last weekend (Sat eve/all day Sun). Up until the Wednesday of last week he seemed very enthusiastic, but then he text me saying 'shall we see what the weather ...

He's not fulfilling his promises to me...should I still date him or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Ok so I work in the nightclub industry as a dancer for three years, and have begun to really hate it. Then about a month ago, I met a guy in there whom i liked, and he promised to take care of my bills and whatever i needed, so long as i didn't ...

I don't understand why he broke up with me but still wants the emotional connection? What's up with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - My BF broke up with me two months ago, and we didn't talk for five week, but now he is calling me two or three times a week and if I didn't cut off the conversation after 30 or 40 minutes, he would just keep on talking. I'm confused. He said he ...

Is having a virtual gf, with the intent of meeting her in real life....a good thing or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

22 October 2008 (M) - ok,well lets see who can help me, many of you might know what a Vworld is, many might not, here is a link to one of the many www.kaneva.com i want to know, Is have a virtual g/f is a good thing or not? eg: getting ego boost so you can go fo...

I think he thinks I'm not interested, but I am. What should I do?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - I'm very confused and have no idea what this man wants. I met a guy a month a go and we went on couple of dates. First date was perfect but the second he acted like a jerk. I stopped talking to him because i didnt want someone like that in my life. ...