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Archived questions from: 25 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Do I wait for this guy when we had such a wonderful relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - Help! 4 months ago I met a guy who was in the process of breaking up with his girlfriend. He was very open about this, but also said he was very attracted to me and after he ended things with his girlfriend we began the most amazing relationship - ...

I've never cum when I'm having sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - I've never cum when I'm having sex... the only time I have cum is when I do it myself with him helping out... any suggestions? ...

How can I find somebody who truly loves me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - Hello.. I'm 20 years, I'm working like a model.. i have never had this kind of troubles, but i don't know what's wrong with me ?.. a couple of days ago a guy asked me out.. so I said yes! then he call me and said I'm sorry but i can't go there.. ...

Was he just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been seeing this guy for 4 months and we had sex and I got worried coz I didn't want to get used so I asked him if he was using me and he said no, I really do like you and I would never use you, so we were having sex for a while and then ...

Should I alter my lifestyle slightly to allow me to meet more women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 October 2008 (M) - Hi I'm in my early 30s and struggle to find the right type of partner. I have been dating women I'm not really attracted to as sometimes I feel in need of female company. I've decided to stop that as it's just wasting mine and their time. I...

Am I making the right choice here?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I gave him my virginity, and now he wants it over and over again (I'm 15 and he is 15) and I try to tell him no but he pushes me too hard and just say yes. Am I making the right choice yes or no? ...

Does this mean I don't really love my fiance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - Evening all, I have been with my fiance for 5 years (we have a long distance relationship) and the initial spark has gone for me.. he however is still loving and attentive as he was when we 1st got together. I do love him but I no longer get that ...

Why is it that nowadays, looks are the only important thing to people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - Why is it that nowadays, looks are the only important thing to people? Personality doesn't matter anymore. It's all about hotness. Personally, it annoys me. The pretty girls get everything; boys, money...but if you're overweight, no one cares. ...

Is teasing a sign of flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - I just wanted to know if a guy teases a girl, is that a sign of flirting, does that mean a guy likes you or is he just being friendly? Thanks...

Hopelessly single! How am I to embrace my singledom and to rebuild my self esteem so I can actually begin to flirt again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - I have recently become single again after a 3 year relationship. It was a really nasty break up, my ex cheated on me and ruined my self esteem. I have been single for 2 months. I have enjoyed the odd drunken snog but it is becoming patentl...

WTH is My Problem?? I'm LOST & CONFUSED !

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25 October 2008 (F) - Hi ;) BACKROUND.. i was with my ex for about 5yrs everything was good untill we married, about 6 months into the marriage we seperated. because of my attitude and insecurities,he didnt love me anymore,couldnt stand me..blah blah. we than d...

I am in love with my boyfriend (we are both going through divorce) but why do I risk losing him for casual sex with others??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - What am I doing??? My husband and I are going through a divorce. It will be final in about 2 weeks. We have been seperated for about 5 months. For the first 3 months I begged and begged him to come home. We were very back and forth. I did go out ...

How to know if he is nice or actually cares for me without making him uncomfortable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am in love with my former instructor. We have known each other for a little over a year. He is abnormally shy. How do I know if he is just being nice or if he actually cares for me without making him uncomfortable or embarras...

We are in our early 60's, he always stood by me with good advice for the past years, how do I let him know my new feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5666 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - My story may sound strange coming from some one my age. After three years of having the greatest friendship one could ask for, I suddenly find I have fallen in love with my best friend. He has stood by me during a couple toxic relationships, he ...

How to get him to notice me more and get to know him better? Do I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - okay this is really long. i have only ever really had a crush on 2 people. The first was last year, when i thought i really liked this guy but didn't make any moves. It lasted for about 6 months, then i realised i didn't actually like him in that ...

Is he "the one" for me? We're best friends since kindergarten! I think I have feelings for him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - Ben and I met in kindergarten and have been pretty much inseperable ever since! When we both grew into puberty, everyone around us thought (and still think) there's something going on between us, but I don't really know what that could be. Sure, I ...

I regret my reaction to my boyfriend telling me he was bipolar! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - My bf just told me that he was bipolar im just 13 and i didnt like him at first but now i love him to death. He thinks im always going to break up with him but im really not. After he told me his bggest secret.... that he was bipolar, i was a jerk. ...

I have alot to lose if I move acroos the country to be with a man that I'm not too sure about. Please give me some advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5640 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - So i have been with my boy friend since mid January ( almost 10 months now ) He recently has finally told me he loves me and expresses his difficulty in showing his feelings. He is a vet from the war in Iraq, hes been deployed a few times and has ...

I love him, but I'm not "In love" with him. How do I handle this ?

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25 October 2008 (F) - Alright, so me and my boyfriend dated for a year and he is the best boyfriend i have ever had. We also have the same interests and want the same things. The only thing is I'm 26 with a kid and he just turned 20. He is head over heels for me but I ...

First my crush tells my friend he likes me, then he says he doesn't. Should I believe my friend ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - I have a crush on this guy and I don't know if he likes me back. And i got my friend to ask him if he likes me and the first coupel of times he said maybe and today my friend asked him again and he said no. But I don't know if my friend was lieing ...

I feel like I am dating a Mama's boy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - Sorry the explanation is long, but please bear with me and give me opinion! I would greatly appreciate it!! My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years and i go to college and work and he stays home and watches his little sister for his m...

My boyfriend's porn is 75% big girls ( I'm a small girl.) Is he even attracted to me at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - Help guys! My boyfriends porn is 75% big girls I'm 105lbs, A cup, attractive, and have decent confidence, but I'm starting to get worried about what he's attracted to. He says he only looks at big girls 10% of the time because he feels like the...

I resent that he slept with a prostitute, 5 years before he met me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - I cannot get over the fact that my husband-to-be slept with a prostitute 5 years before he met me. I did the wrong thing and asked for all the details, but he did too when he told me about it when I didn't ask. After three years of living with this ...

How do I "re-grow a pair"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

25 October 2008 (M) - I got dumped after an almost 3 year long relationship. The last year or so was a long-distance arrangement until she finally cheated on me and told me it was over. The whole situation obviously shrunk my self-esteem quite a lot, but now, almost 1...

My head says he still cares...but does he? Is there anything there?

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25 October 2008 (F) - Recently my ex and I have been going up and down. We haven't talked or seen each other in three weeks. The last time we talked we had arranged to hang out. But he called and told me he didn't want me to like him anymore, he didn't want me to need ...