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Archived questions from: 9 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I am having suspicions that my girlfriend is cheating on me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - Hi everyone, I am having suspicions that my girlfriend is cheating on me. I have been having these suspicions for quite a while now, and recently took action to see if anything was going on. The other night as we were asleep in bed I secretly placed ...

She's 17, I'm 21 and we're dating. How do I tell her parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - Okay.. so heres the deal... I have been dating a girl for almost a year now. We have a 4 year age difference and its never bothered us that much. Today however we both realized that at some point her parents need to find out (I'm the older one.) ...

Whenever he goes "in", I feel this burning sensation like I have to pee.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy I have been hot and bothered about for a while! The sex is astronomical because my feelings for him are rock hard. But there is something that is bothering me. Whenever he goes in, I feel this burning sensation like I ...

What does it mean if someone says "you're not beneficial" to them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Im 16 my ex is 17. What does it mean when someone says 'you are not beneficial to me?' while dating (unofficially). My ex said that and I think he meant i'm not going to go 'things' with him and so he doesn't think i'm going to benefit him? ...

I really love this girl, but I have had this gut feeling that she has or is cheating on me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - Please read this if you have the time I'm torturing myself over this, THanks I'm 16, she is 16. We have been going out for almost 7 months, and its been pretty tough. She suffered from depression and anxiety in the early stages of our relation...

I'm confused, what would you do if you were in my position?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - I'm doing my A-levels at the moment and I have 7 months to finish them, but I'm also engaged to the most amazing person in the whole world, I love him to bits and he loves me too but recently he had to move another country for personal reasons and ...

I wish he wasn't her ex husband!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Please help me! I met such a wonderful guy and the problem is come to find out he is the ex husband of a former co-worker that i had from 14 years ago, I had"nt seen the co worker in years because i moved out of our small town for seven ...

She doesn't feel welcome with my friends and gets funny when I spend time with them instead of her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - Hello :) Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over a year now. She's completely in love with me and i used to be so in love with her but everything's changed. Last year we had the same friends and she lived close to me so i could go ...

My girlfriend always seems to make a mountain out of a molehill. Any suggestions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend makes a big issue out of the slightest thing! I think? It's like the rhyme, There once was girl, who had a little curl, right in the middle of her forehead, When she was good, she was very very good, But when she was bad she was horr...

If my boyfriend fell asleep while I was giving him head, do I have the right to be pissed?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - If my boyfriend fell asleep while I was giving him head, do I have the right to be pissed?...

I am a Virgo male and I'm in love with an Aries female. Are we compatible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - Hi , I am a boy who believes in zodiac signs. I am born under Virgo in 1989. I love someone, she likes me too. She is Aries born in 1994. How is our internal compatibility on signs. Will we be happy or not? Please help. Thanks...

He broke up with me but says its because of him! Does he want to go back out with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - hi x there this boy who i really like and i know that he likes me because we just broke up and he said that its all his fault and that he still likes me and that the reason why he broke up with me was because he was a total fuck up and that and i to...

I like her, but how do I know if she likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - im a 16 year old guy and ive just started college, theres this girl in my form that ive rly liked ever since i started there. ive recently started to hang out with her but i can tell if she likes me the way i like her, any ideas about wat signs to ...

Tell me about your first time. Was it romantic? Was it fun? Was it what you expected?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Tell me about your first time. Was it romantic? Was it fun? Was it what you expected?...

Is this pathetic? Should I give him a little more time? (Very long post...)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - i was with someone for over 3 years and he was my first serious boyfriend, the first guy i loved, first guy i was with. And he was about 9 years older too. I know he loved me. But i think i was young with some things didn't know how to be in a r...

I'm worried that I'm forcing him into marriage!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - I am 30 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. He says he wants us to be together forever, but he is an anti-establishment type and he doesn't care about having a marriage. He feels that we are in love and we will be together ...

Can someone help me decide if he likes me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - I'm just wondering if someone can help me decide if this guy likes me or not. Okay we've been friends for 11 years. We were friends with benefits for awhile, then stopped. Well for the last six years we haven't been anything but just friends. But ...

I hate that this stupid 5 minutes years ago has had such a huge horrific impact on my life!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - I've had real problems with self-esteem and subsequently booze for quite a few years. I have forced myself on a downward spiral and i seem to dwell on my problems more and more. It all began when i was 20 and booze enabled me to be 'popular' (at the ...

I have no idea how to approach him as my separation has left my self-confidence at an all time low....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Please help me Ive met a Guy and ive fallen for him big style .I cannot get him out of my head i sleep thinking of him and wake thinking of him .Im currently seperated from my husband after 23 years of marriage .This guy looks at me a lot ,Is very ...

I'm in love with my boyfriend and best friend!!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - i am currently in a relationship with my loving partner whos loves and adores me and my daughter i love him so much i have jus started university and know what i want out of life my partner isnt working as yet but is looking for a job. The problem ...

Is it normal to get bored with someone you've been with for awhile?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - im 23 years old, ive been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 years now. i know i love her n i know she loves me...we treat eachother with respect, rarley ever argue...but alot of times i find myself thinking of what if i was with someone else. i ...

Should I keep waiting for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Its been a month sine I got drunk and called my best friend and told her that I am in love with her and asked her if she remembers or thinks about when we kissed. She said that she remembers it happening but she does not think about it..She said ...

I'm sick of making all the effort with this boy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Me and A boy at school like eachother. He's really shy. and In school its usually me who makes the convosation and he just says he's bored. and On msn he said it was rubbish. when im there trying to make convosation. in school he says hes ...

Do women have morals?

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - I had a Japanese friend who once joked that 'women have no morals!' I can't remember what we were talking about but, having read a lot of forums, here and elsewhere, this is what seems apparent:- Men, when considering cheating on their partne...

Am I right for being jealous and controlling, or am I just doing too much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, THIS IS REALLY LONG! I need to tell the whole story to get a clear answer!! I have been seeing my boyfriend now since May and we became officially boyfriend and girlfriend in June. In the beginning the relationship was amazing...

What does "One of the Guys" mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am concluding a cheating episode with my fiance and ultimately trying to forgive him, but I am curious as to an explanation he has stated to me. He had cheated with me with one particular girl for a while and I asked him why? He said...

I haven't heard anything... so is there any point?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Hi all, need your help again. The guy I was seeing for three months came home a wedding in England and invited me out on the Sat night and I couldn't go with work commitments. He phoned me on the Tuesday after as I had had a break in to the house ...

We never have foreplay and I now hate having sex with him...what should I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - hi i`m 24 yrs old and i`ve been seeing someone for nine yrs now,my problem it`s that everytime we have sex my boyfriend would go straight inside me without making a foreplay or kissing me u know,and i dont enjoy having sex with him,i dont know if ...

What can I do within my comfort zone to let him know I'm interested? I'm so shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Sorry if this sounds really lame but there's this guy that I'm crushing on yet I'm too shy to even hint that I'm interested. We knew each other from elementary school and just recently found each other online. He told me that when we were young, he ...

I'm an Aries and he is a Capricorn - could he be the one? He's madly in love with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - This boy is madly in love with me. He is a very good friend.He is born under the sign of capricorn, on the January, 1991. Is he the real one? Or there is still time for my prince charming to come? Sometimes I feel attracted to him, and somtimes i ...

I feel I'm getting mixed signals from this guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5682 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - I feel like I'm getting mixed signals from this guy, and just wanted to get some outside opinions. I'm sorry if it's a bit lengthy, I just want to give you the 'full' story, so you can tell me what you think. I've worked with this guy for ...

Did I really lead him on sending him those messages??? (Guy's point of view is appreciated)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Me and this guy we been talking, getting to know each other. He's been talking about being friends with benefits so here I am trying to get to know him before I do have sex with him and I don't plan to give it up like that. We talk on the phone ...

I don't want to split with her... what do I do?

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9 October 2008 (M) - I've been dating this girl for 4 months now. I really care about her. However, we'll both be going off to college in a few months. I know the chances of us being together forever are slim but I still can't stand to think of my life without her and ...

Do these things mean she likes me?

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9 October 2008 (M) - there is a girl is a girl in my class who liked me a lot for one year, flirting and giving signs in weird ways. right now, i dont know if she still likes me. she fixes her hair and glances over several times. she says bad things about me and acts ...

Is he not answering because he doesn't like me at all anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5638 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Me and this guy I met at a party, started flirting alot and next thing I know he's inviting me over to his house a few days later and is really into me. We talk on msn alot, although we don't see each other as much, but he left me with the feeling ...

We don't spend enough time together...is it just me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - I am 27 and my fiancee is 34. I have been previously married, no children. He has 2 children from a previous marriage that stays with us every second weekend. My fiancee used to play sports once a week but it has steadily progresses to 3 nights a...

I really like her but don't know what she thinks.... any opinions appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - ok, I'm a little lost, any advise is greatly appreciated, first of all, I have always had a problem with confidence, I fight for it everyday and I believe I am doing ok but still get very anxious. I have also never been in a relationship. The ...

They don't know I have a boyfriend. How can I keep that idea going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - hey everyone i really need some advice quick... tonight my parents and everyone went out and i was ;eft home alone... so i decided to call my boyfriend round and spend the time with him... i asked my sister to call me as soon as they left so i could ...

What does 'Enjoy your company' mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - For starters I am 42 years old and have been divorced for 4 years now I did not start dating until Feb of this year - About a month ago I met a women who is 48 - We get along great - and we compliment one another on a wide variety of different ...

Standing Up for Yourself

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9 October 2008 (F) - I have just recently taught myself this so if it doesn't make sense for you, that is why. Do not let a guy call you names, or talk about you wrongly to other girls behind your back. I know you may love him/her but learn to consder yourself more ...

39 year old guy and 22 year old girl ... Where can it go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

9 October 2008 (M) - I met Susan in September 2007. We worked at the same company but different departments. She was 21 and I was 38. During the course of the year there seemed to be an attraction based on common interests. I broke up in December. We went out about 4...

Why all the calls, texts and dates if he doesn't want it to go anywhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

9 October 2008 (F) - Help..recently i met this lad i really like, he has took me on 3 dates now, and he seems really keen, he txts everyday and phones me evrynight since we met, he always compliments me ,saying im gorgeous and funny etc. and its really nice, evrytime i ...