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Archived questions from: 12 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I hit my boyfriend as a joke, but he took it serious and he hit me back. Please, I truly need help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5193 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Well last night my boyfriend and I went to a party and got drunk. After that I hit his lower side, basically his balls. I did it in a joke a stupid one. After that he slapped me in my face and i started bleeding. I was so shocked because he never ...

I don't know what to answer if he were to ask me to marry him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - How do I know if he is Mr. Right? We already dated for four and a half years and I don't know what to answer if he would aske me to marry him. We are both 26 years old....

How do I 'make the move'? He's still a virgin too. Does anyone have any advice they could offer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - okay, well i wrote a qustion on here in august, about being raped on july 18th, the moderator deleted the part of my question, but it was the worst experience of my life and i would not wish it on my worst enemy. i got some fantastic advice back...

How can I get my strict Greek parents to accept my boyfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Hey everyone. please help me with this problem i have. i am an 18 year old girl who comes from a very strict Greek background. i recently met an amazing guy, but he is not Greek, so my parents do not accept him. i see him every weekend - but behi...

How can I avoid lockjaw with my new boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I'm quite inexperienced with sex and I've recently met an amazing guy and I absolutely love spending time in and out of bed with him but I've hit a problem when giving blow jobs. Every guy I've ever been with before has been a bit small in the ...

I need your help... I think I'm in love with my boyfriend's brother.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - two month ago i asked my boyfriend to move out even though we have a 2 year old little girl because he cheated on me we are still together and we still see each other on a weekend because we are tryin to make things work while we not living together ...

Do I risk telling my boyfriend and lose him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I've been with someone now for a few months and we're very happy together, he's starting to become special to me and i dont want to lose what we've got. but the other day i ended up kissing one of my other male freinds and i know if my boyfreind ...

She says she wants to get to know me and meet me but I feel her attitude is unacceptable and I don't want to meet her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - ive been seeing my boyfriend for about 2months and we are really crazy about each other..it didnt go so smoothly in the begining i kissed another guy at a party i told him straight away and i though we had things back on track..our main problem ...

Feelings have gone completely...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Long post but I really need help. You have to read this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-moved-on-and-i-am-still.html ..before reading the current one you are reading. So i spoke to him yesterday for 2 hours! and I got a...

My boyfriend is going too fast and won't listen to me when I tell him to stop!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I'm 14 years old and my boyfrined is the same age. I had never really had a boyfriend before, and I am still a virgin. I'm really innocent and have never done anything bad, I never even kissed a guy. Then about 3 weeks ago we started going ou...

I think I might really like him but I'm not sure how to handle it! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I'm really stuck at the moment. I haven't liked someone properly since my last ex, we broke up in June. Since i dumped him, he's dated this new girl, slept with her, and cheated on her by sleeping with her (he asked me for sex but i told him to ...

How can we get out of this vicious circle of annoyingness!?!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - Where do i begin? I love my girlfriend to bits in fact more than i have loved anyone before, and i know she feels the same. we are crazy about each other! We have been together for around a year (on and off), im british and she is dutch. I...

How can I use my tongue when I snog boys?!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - for some reason when i snog a boy i cant use tounge, why is this and how can i solve my problem n use tounge? please help thanks xxx...

How can I comfort my friend through this difficult time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - my friend has had a baby to a married man,he has told her he is staying with his wife who he doesnt love even though he loves my friend in order to be with his kids.His wife will not allow him any contact with my friend or the baby ,he says that ...

Does not having a boyfriend make me immature or weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I feel kind of immature and left out when I hear my friends talking about their boyfriends. I've had a "sort of boyfriend" before, but I don't think it counts because we never even held hands or kissed. Actually, I kicked him to the curb when I ...

Mens opinions needed! I saw pictures of his ex who had a really hot body and I can't understand why he wants to be with me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Ok so this is all my own fault, but it's really messing with my head. I've been seeing my boyfriend for a couple of months now, we took it really slow from the start, he didn't push for sex at all and in fact we've only been sleeping together for a ...

He was so nice to me, then he said some horrible things about me to another friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5568 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Hey, I really liked this guy at my work. We were really flirty with each other and kept in contact out of work. He asked to meet up a couple of weeks ago and I ended up sleeping with him. I know I should have waited, but at the time it felt right ...

Her dad said I was being possesive of her! I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - Mmhhhm..technology is a wonderful thing but sometimes it gets annoying. Such as, my girlfriend and I were riding in the car talking(her dad :( was driving us) her friends txt her a lot and that's fine so do mine. But when we are talking or not and ...

Why does my boyfriend act differently with his friends and brothers around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - My friend (we'll call her... Lily) noticed something about my boyfriend (we'll call him... Greg) that I noticed too. See, whenever we hang out (just Greg, Lily, and I) he acts differently than when Greg, Lily, Me, and a bunch of Greg's guy friends ...

I'm crazy about this guy I met at uni, and now we work together and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - i have been really crazy about this guy i met at uni.. i asked him out at uni he never really answered the question.. we always used to meet up after lectures and he used to be really flirty with me. he broke my heart one day when he told me he had ...

Should I go to meet this guy in Europe after what might have been a simple holiday fling?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I recently fell in love with a married man from a far-off land (something I personally don't approve of and yet it has happened to me!). He came for a visit a month ago to my country. I had met him five months earlier in his own country and while ...

He was tickling me, does it mean he's flirting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - i went on a second date with a guy i like from work, i had such a good time On the way home when we were on the train he put his arm around me and was tickling my ribs, and we were both laughing is this a good thing? was he flirting?...

I have been involved with a married man for 9 months.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I have been involved with a married man for 9 months. When we first got together I was hesitant, but decided to be his friend, of course we fell in love. He texts and contacts me every day and night, over the past months she has found the texts and ...

I keep dumping one guy for another and can't make up my mind who to choose...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - What do I do? I was going out with this guy when I broke up with him because he's really pressurising and really mean sometimes, however we'd been in a relationship on and off for 11 months. But about 4 days after breaking up with him I started ...

Stuck in a rut, how do I break away from an on and off bad relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - How do I break away from a bad relationship? We've been on and off for nearly a year, what started off as a rebound thing has become a bad habit, we get together, he treats me great for a month or so, then turns into a complete prat. We break ...

I want to get married but he won't

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost five years and have two kids. He doesn't think marriage is important and he still talks to all of his exes that aren't married. I feel like there is such a lack of respect for me. Is he afraid of ...

Why don't I have a girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - I am 22 and i have a problem that im trying to do something about. I really want a gf but i have never had one before when ever i go out places or go on holiday i see couples together and i get really jelous and think why is this never me?. I go out ...

Been on a few dats, but I don't know how to break it off now

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I've been on a few dates with this really nice sweet guy but I've decided now that I just don't feel anything for him! He still keeps texting me but I don't know how to break it off- whether to be honest and explain that I just don't feel a spark or ...

I met a guy on Myspace but I don't feel that spark

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Theres this boy, we met on myspace, then we met up. We met about 4 times but i didnt feel a spark , he told me he liked me on a text...but hes never treated me like a boyfriend, hes not kind of boy to be all touchy feely or anything, maybe if he ac...

I'm depressed because I'm not in a relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Ok i know this is going to sound stupid but over the last half a year or so i have started to get depressed because i am not in a relationship. All of my friends have been in relationships and I have never had one and feel stupid and immature when ...

Is it normal to have doubts about your partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - hey aunts, i'm just wonderin. is it normal to sometimes have doubts about your partner? i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and we've had our ups and downs and he's hurt me heaps before but we've gotten back together becoz thats what...

My ex found me online and wants cyber sex despite having a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I recently was found via a social networking site by an ex from over 20 years ago. We had exchanged the odd email - nothing major just catching up and thought that's good. This weekend he started sending more flirty type messages, I tried to ...

I'm a virgin in my late 20's and scared of having sex with my girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - Hi I am in my late twenties, vigin, and got my first gf about 6 months ago. I love the girl but everytime I am just too nervous about having sex with her. I had a fear of losing erection when it comes to sex. When I attempted to have sex with her ...

Do I tell my best friend her boyfriend slept with a prostitute?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I have a small problem, I just found out my best friends boyfriend slept with a hooker. What should I do. If I tell my best friend, She will think I am trying to split them up (as I was not happy with getting together in the first place). If I don't ...

Ended over bad communication and now his feelings have all gone and mine haven't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Hey.. Long post but I really need help. You have to read this question: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-has-moved-on-and-i-am-still.html before reading the current one you are reading. So i spoke to him yesterday for 2 hours! and ...

The married man I'm seeing wants to work at his marriage but also have me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I have been with married man for approx. 1 year, we fell in love with each other within 2 months. In the past couple of months he has had tough times in his marriage once she found out about me. he has decided to work on his marriage, but he still ...

Why does she keep picking my spots??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - I've been seeing this hot chick for a while and we love each other to bits. However, she keeps scratching my spots off and it really hurts. I keep asking her to stop but she won't. What's wrong with her?...

I met an amazing man online and life was bliss but it now seems to have all fallen apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Hi All, I hope someone can help. I met the most amazing man online around 4 months ago.......a little background tho, its long winded I know...... He was engaged for 7 years, the relationship broke down which spiraled him into a dark depress...

I met a girl on holiday who seemed interested but now she's not returning my calls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - Hello, this message will probably end up pretty long so if you do end up reading it. I thank-you alot. Here goes.. So I went to Spain in July with a few mates, we went by coach which took like a day. There was a big family infront of us on the coa...

We are not right for each other for marriage and we know it! How can I break away from him as I am so addicted to sex with him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - i am a 28 year old woman,divorced a year and a half ago,i have been a very horny girl from the begining.I've had good sex partners before i got married and i've had a few sex partners after i got divorced too.My ex-husband however did not satisfy ...

I like someone else but I have a boyfriend, is this a sign I'm unhappy in my present relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - please help ive been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years and he is 6 years older than me so he wants the whole settling down thing im still only young and want to enjoy myself. I really fancy this guy at work i flirt with him all the ti...

Failed relationships leaving me feeling down, am I not worth more than this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I broke up from a serious relationship back in December 2007, which left me quite broken because my ex kicked me out of the flat we shared, just after my birthday and Christmas. It took me quite a few months to get over it, especially as he ...

My boyfriend has anger management issues, what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - You know when you really love someone, and you think your boyfriend's freat, but he just has that one glitch that when it pops up, it really makes you wonder if he's going to be the one for you? I have been with my boyfriend 10 months. 99% of ...

My best friend cheats on his girlfriend all the time, but she is a really nice girl

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - my best mate regular cheats on his girlfriend everytime we go out,he sleeps with these women and get us to lie for him. his partner is a really nice girl and he treats her like shit at home and everywhere else.but the thing is shes really obsessed ...

Which guy gets the girl in this scenario?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - Hi. Ladies, who would you rather sleep with: 1) Guy who is superconfident and very successful who has a great sense of humour, but is not particularly good looking and although he fancies you he does not have feelings for you as such. or 2...

We really seemed to have a connection and we have kept in touch but all of a suden he is ignoring me, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I met a guy and had an instant connection. He gave me his contact info, and we kept in contact for several months. We planned to meet again and had a great weekend. During the weekend, he brought up relationships several times, but not directly. ...

Burning sensations during fingering, after period, any help? Also, how can I stop thinking about my girlfriend's past lovers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (M) - First off, I'm young, and honestly inexperienced when it comes to any of this. Yeah, I'm a virgin, and a guy, get over it. My partner, however, isn't. It bugs me, yeah, but I live with it. I have three questions, and any feedback is greatly ...

Does he have feelings for me, or am I just fooling myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for 8 months. He's going to work 2 hours away in another town for 3 months. I expressed my disappointment to him that I won't see him very much. He said that it was only 2 hours away and that he would come home on weekends. ...

Is my ex playing a game with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - so here's the deal.. my ex-bf and I have officially been broken up for almost a year and a half now..we had opened and closed the lines of communication since then until recently.. we began talking and seeing each other (hanging out..not exa...

I'm wondering...is my bf bi sexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I have a very loving relationship with my boyfriend. But recently I've started to think my bf is bisexual, because of some things he says, the way he talks about other guys and the way he acts. I've spoken to my bf about this before and he s...

We love each other but we have a lot of stress in this relationship!, help please

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - Hello I need an advice here, my boyfriend is really wonderfull, he treats me like a princess all the time, my problem with him is that he is very affectionate physically talking, he hugges me, he kisses me all the time, and he is always ...

I need a step by step on how to kiss...any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - ok so i know this is going to sound really stupid, but im ready for my 1st kiss and i dnt no wat to do. i dnt no anythink even were to put my lips (bottom or top lip) and i just need a step step detail on how to kiss. thankyou xx...

What does it mean when someone says they need to get their thoughts straight. Do they really mean it's over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - This may be a stupid question but when someone asks to give them some time to get their thoughts straight because there is too much emotional involvement and they cant handle it. Does it means good bye?...

Going to move in with my bf and my parents flipped! How do I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - hi,well im a 20 yr female in college and i going to move in with my boyfriend of 3 years. Im having a hard time with my parents. When we told his mom, she was happy for us, and wished us luck. However when i told my parents, they flipped. My mom ...