New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244969 questions, 1084326 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in October, 2008, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (27), 2 (39), 3 (39), 4 (28), 5 (32), 6 (42), 7 (44), 8 (51), 9 (42), 10 (51),
11 (40), 12 (54), 13 (39), 14 (51), 15 (63), 16 (46), 17 (33), 18 (30), 19 (47), 20 (67),
21 (55), 22 (61), 23 (44), 24 (43), 25 (25), 26 (46), 27 (65), 28 (59), 29 (58), 30 (55),
31 (27),

Archived questions from: 5 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

(More questions from October, 2008)

Dating: Help and advice

Am I being paranoid about my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - Thanks for read my post, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 8 months, he is a very good guy, he does everything to make me happy, we have strong feelings for each other, but my problem with him is his lack of planning our dates, we ...

What can couples do under 16 without going on the wrong side of the law?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

5 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I r both 14 and we both love eachothers company. But once we we were both at a sleep over at a friends house and we ended up sleeping in each others arms, with me wearing nothing but boxers. Neither of us minded excpt that one of ...

Help! I don't want my girlfriend pregnant!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (M) - Im 17 years of age and sexually active. I'm the type of person that worries over everything; and i mean obsesssively. I've looked and researched into ways of making sure i'm careful as i have a very successful life which isn't ready for a ...

I can't decide between two guys...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - i cant decide between two guys! one is 3 years older than me, a complete sweetheart, my potential soul mate BUT THERE ARE NO BUTTERFLIES!!! he has just appeared in my life after transferring up from down south. we went on this amazing spontane...

What can I do to stop ejaculating so quickly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (M) - I am 17 and recently lost my virginity whilst drunk. I was nervous a lot before having sex but I finally got over it and did it with a random girl where I lasted about 45 mins. Since then I have recently got a girlfriend. The first two times I had ...

Is he stringing me along, or does he just find it hard to talk about emotions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - I would love some views on my relationship situation. I have been seeing my boyfriend for just over a year. We are both late thirties/easrly forties, both divorced, and I have two children. He is very loving and affectionate when we are together, ...

Am I a sociopath???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - I have a problem, I love relationships, I love being in love but I have issues staying faithful and lying... am I a sociopath. I have been with this guy for 8 months and in this time we spent 6 months apart as he was working and I cheated on him ...

I beat his score on the video game, now he won't talk to me! What's the big deal???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (?) - My boyfriend and me were playing video games with his friends at his house. They were taking turns playing and one of his friends who was playing against my boyfriend gave me a turn. Usually I'm not very good at video games. The next thing I knew it ...

Is this the build up to an orgasm that I'm preventing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - When me and my partner have sex, it's amazing. Only, I haven't yet reached an orgasm. When we're mid-action, I sometimes have to tell him to stop, just because it's TOO intense, and feels TOO good - it's weird. Is this the build up to an orgasm that ...

Is this abuse? Should I get out of my relationship now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - Should I get out of my relationship now? I am currently taking a break from my relationship with my boyfriend because I am working on issues from my past. My question is if he is abusive. Since we've been together for about 7 months a few things ...

He's not my kind of guy. Should I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - I've just met this guy who I'm crazy about, he asked me out and everything was great. The thing is, he's a LOT different to guys I normally go for and he expects very different things from a relationship, and it would take a while for me to get used ...

Is it wrong for me to continue this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - I am about to turn 40 and have been in a non-committed relationship with a man, who's about to turn 50, for the past 3 months. We've been on a few 'dates' but most of our meetings have been at his house for tv or coffee,talking, and then we'd end ...

What should I say when he tells me this stuff?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - Well I've known this guy for couple of weeks. Our first date was great. We text almost everyday after that. Our 2nd date wasn't so good. He acted like a jerk. I wasn't going to talk to him again but he kept texting me asking if I liked him and if I ...

Shall I just move on because he's not interested or is he just shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - Iv been getting to know a boy for two months now. we meet up, sometimes alone but usually with mates. The thing is nothing has happend between us, we only hug when saying goodbye and we text each other almost everyday. last night i told him how i ...

I'm 16, I love the guy I met in the Internet but I said 'yes' to another guy that lives closer to me, I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - i am 16 and recently i met i guy on the internet.hes twenty and goes to university.but another guy ive met asked me to be with him and i said yes but the problem is i love the other one but he lives a bit far from me and the other one lives cl...

I have so many questions... please give me your advice and thoughts here.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - He is a childish, sensitive, gentle,caring and affectionate man …Our long distance didn’t last for couple of weeks… communication has always been difficult as I am not good with long distance relationship… He and his ex have been together for 2 ...

I'm always the person that dispenses the advice to my friends.. but when it comes to my life, I feel absolutely and utterly clueless.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - I'm always the person that dispenses the advice to my friends.. but when it comes to my life, I feel absolutely and utterly clueless. I feel stuck inside a huge rut with no way out.. I feel paralysed where I am. If you could give me some advice, I ...

Do you think it's over between me and him or do you think it's just a blip in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5534 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and those 2 years have been great. But over the last few weeks we've been arguing a lot. We never really used to argue a lot and whenever we did we sorted it out and went back to how we used to be. But th...

My ex has messed me up and I need advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

5 October 2008 (M) - hi need some advice so here goes...i met my gf may 2007 she is 29 im 36 to be honest i was not really in to her to start but feelings developed she told me about her past and how she was raped 5 yrs ago , ourrelationship was always rocky especially ...

What does this guy want from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I normally don't write about things like this, but I am confused. I have been friends with this guy for almost 6 years. I have loved him since I have known him. I couldn't or wouldn't act on my feelings for him for two reasons. One, I ...

Am I bored or is the chemistry lacking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - I went on a date with this guy he was a pefect gentlemen.....we went to beach and we talked for hours...........he knows how to express himself very well.......we had a lot in common.......I mean a lot....he is something I was looking for........but ...

I found pictures of him wearing my satin panties!

This question has 61 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - I am in so much shock!! I've been with my loving boyfriend for almost two years. I just found pictures of him in several of my satin panties. He's positioned in different ways to show off the panties he's wearing. Some pictures actually have hi...

I get mad when she messes with other guys so what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (M) - Alright, now I know this question probably won't be answered as seriously as most of the other questions, seeing that I am really young. However, I found this girl at my school, I've liked her for a year, she's liked me for a year. It used to be ...

There are two girls in my life....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

5 October 2008 (M) - There are two girls in my life. The first, she and I met a while ago, through friends, kept in touch through emails and MSN and the likes, always talked of meeting up, just the two of us, but it never really happened. She met some guy, and out...

How can I make him cum quicker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - Hi, when I give my boyfriend a hand job I usually swap hands because my arm gets sore after a while... but recently I broke my arm, so I can't do this. Is there a way I can get my boyfriend to cum before my arm gets sore when I give him a ...

I found out some bad things about him. What now?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

5 October 2008 (F) - I have been in my first serious relationship for the past 4 years. I started dating the guy with I just turned 16. I had never been sexually active until him and to this day I am 19 and have still only had one partner, but I later found out some ...

Should I stay or move on? She has a boyfriend....

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

5 October 2008 (M) - i have been seeing this girl for 2 months but she has a bf. She says she she wants both of us, but her bf doesnt know anything yet. She said that i make her happy. Do i convince her to date me or do i just move on? - All her friends like me...

If a college girl spends nights nude in bed with her boyfriend, and gives him handjobs, but no sex, would she be thought of as a slut?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

5 October 2008 (M) - If a college girl spends nights nude in bed with her boyfriend, and gives him handjobs, but no sex, would she be thought of as a slut?...

Breaking up for the first time--and for the first time, online. Tips? Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - I've never broken up with someone before. I ended up having to move--and overnight--with my 1st bf and we lost all contact without even wanting to break up. My second BF broke up with me. I walked up to his locker on valentines day just to s...

How do I get him to open up more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I am in desperate need of advice, I'm having a lot of relationship problems. My boyfriend had a bad break up with his ex and I think he didn't get closure. He's very to himself and doesnt like to share personal things with me, even though ...

Does anyone know what EMO means?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - hi. I'm a 12 going on 13 and I want to know what is emo. My ex boyfriend was emo. but he stopped 4 me. He won't tell me what emo really is. I really want to know so I'm asking you. What is emo?...

Should my partner and I of 6 months (age difference 18-25) have a baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

5 October 2008 (F) - I want to have a baby. I'm 18, and my boyfriend is 25. I know I sound like a massive bogan saying this - but I'm not. I work in a hospital and I am currently studying nursing and health services managment and a good university in Queensland. My ...