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Archived questions from: 31 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What does she want? What can I do to get her to come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - Ok, this is a long one, but I want to give you all the details. Enjoy the read! I wrote a question on here about 5 weeks ago just after my ex-girlfriend broke up with me. We had been together a year and we got on really well and loved each other...

Now I'm single and he's with someone else. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - There's this boy at college, that I've had a crush on for months, and he used to like me, but at the time I already had a boyfriend (a total mistake). I didn't like him then either. Now I'm single and I know I've fallen head over heels for this guy, ...

How does a person who has been molested know when they're ready for a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - How does a person who has been molested know when they're ready for a relationship? How does the molested person know that what they are feeling for some guy is really real as opposed to just being obsessed with the person?...

Is he interested, or just checking me out ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - hi, i have known this guy for about a month and basically today we decided to meet up for a coffee, he said he would text me telling me exactly what time today because he had university. anyway we had decided around 5 so he texts me at that time,...

Has anyone out there ever been with a person they thought was their soul mate and they leave you...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Just so I can gain some strength and hope.... Has anyone out there ever been with a person they thought was their soul mate, best friend and the love of their life... only for them to leave you to go back to their ex wife or husband?... Yet you have ...

How do I attract him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Im 19 and im guessing he's like 22 or 23. I dont really talk to him in class, but he always looks at me and he for sure knows my name because he gave me my quiz back without me telling him my name while everyone else did. I want to show him im ...

What can I do to stop these insecurities ruining what I have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Hi. im pretty much with a guy... by pretty much i mean that we know we like eachother bt he's at uni atm and we're gonna see how it goes when he gets back home. my problem is that i get so jealous! i cant help but get so insecure. when ive been wi...

What will happen to the relashionship if I kiss him and he doesn't want to be kissed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of months now, and we haven't even kissed yet. He recently admitted that he was frigid, but I would like to kiss him. I feel confused. I would kiss him, but I don't have the confidence to just do ...

There is a picture of my boyfriend and his ex hugging, on a wall in his parent's home, where he llives. It bugs me, how do I bring it up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend lives with his friends. In their house the is a wall that has all their pictures and stuff. One of the pictures has my boyfriend and his ex girlfriend in it, hugging each other. It is a group picture, my boyfriend didnt put that on ...

If she loves me shouldnt she want to live with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - I love my gf and she tells me that she loves me more than anything in the world but whenever I mention us living together she is not intersted. when we are together we have a great time, i can feel the love from her and we feel like we are in o...

This guy has helped me out a lot, but does not want a relationship, am I wasting my time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - This guy and I went to high school together (he had a crush on me, and I didn't know it), I graduated and moved away. He graduated the next year, we lived our lives for the next 20 years and ran into each other one night. We started talking on the ...

Dating for six months, he wants to break up suddenly, why, could I have a guy's opinion please??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - From a males point of view why is he pushing me away and being so mean i dont really understand? me and this guy have been dating for about 6 months now and monday we was fine not fighting or anything and he calls me and tells me he is moving out ...

My long term boyfriend went to a strip club, got a lap dance...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Long Term BF went to a strip club, got a lap dance (2 actually) sat around chatting with the strippers and says it's harmless. Let me give a bit of background, both divorced, in a ltr of 3 years, we've got a great relationship, very direct and ...

Is my girlfriend cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - Hello Okay, i am incredibly obessed with my girlfriend and we have dated almost 3 years already and we've been breaking up and hooking up again every few weeks but there are still stuff that are still bothering me? Last year me and my frien...

Boyfriend is suddenly distant, haven't seen him in two weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of almost six months and I have been exclusive since nearly the beginning of our relationship. We usually see each other once or twice a week, due to our work schedules and the fact that we both have kids. Last week he went by himse...

Please help!!! Do you think its too late to save us???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - ok here goes.. me and my boyfriend have been together for about 7 months. when i first met him, i think we rushed into the relationship a bit soon because i had only just come out of a long term relationship myself.but he was too good to let slip...

The man I am dating he had made clear that he doesn't want a commitment.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - The man i am dating he had made clear that he doesn't want a commitment. Although i don't agree with him i see him because he is interested and i like to spend time with him. When i meet him i develop feelings for him but i try to hide them as he ...

Curiousity killed the cat.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Last week my boyfriend and I almost broke up. He was troubled with the idea that we were meant together. We talked it over and were still together. Tonight he went out to a bar with his friend even though I asked him to stay home with me. While he ...

What are your suggestions on completely letting go of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - so, at the end of june my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me about 3 weeks before leaving for the navy. he couldn't make up his mind what to say to me or about me, although none of it was entirely bad, he was stuck between saying he loved me and ...

Is this what you would call 'love'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for three years and I love him very much but I do worry that I dont know what love is and so worry that maybe I dont love him.I know its silly and im 23 years old,I feel like I should know better.I ...

Hope I can get an honest answer here!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Hi! hope i can get a honest answer here...i've got a bf and i love him a lot and he loves me the same way. he's very nice and kind. only i'm not used to the kind of relationship he's got with his sister...i think i'm a bit jelous and i'm almost ...

Should I stick with her and try to work this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - I'm 20 years old. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. About a month after we first started going out I was very drunk and cheated on her. I let her know and we talked it over and got over it. We got along really well after ...

How many times do you call your partner per day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - She works at night time and there will be days she works alone in her department. She text for me to call back. It happened few times so I guess she is lonely. I decided to call her everyday during her break time. The problem now is, she do...

Has anyone been in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - I've been dating my partner for almost a year now, and after receiving an sms that I knew wasn't meant for me, I did something that I shouldn't have. I went through her phone. Unfortunately I found a large amount of sexual text msgs and 'I love you ...

Why has he left me to go back to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - It is late at night and I am sitting here not knowing what to think or how to get through this. My partner of 4 years has left me tonight to go back to his wife. He never divorced her but left years ago to have a fulfilling and loving relation...

I have a funny smell coming from my vagina.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Heya, this has only just started but me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and just recently after we have had sex and got up the next morning I have got a really funny smell coming from my vaginal area. What's wrong with me, help it's ...

Am I doing the right thing keeping this to myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - I started a relationship with a guy thats much younger than me and when we started dating we were both in seperate relationships at the time but those relationships ended and now me and him are in what i thought was a committed relationship. ...