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writes:I'm 15 and have felt pressured to have sex most of my high school life. I have a girlfriend and I want to have sex with her but I'm not confident enough. It's not that I have a small penis, it's that I have tight forskin and cannot ejaculate yet. What should I do...? Help? :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlthough my forskin is tight i can pull it right back but when i get an erection it doesnt go back.
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reader, amybaby +, writes (22 October 2008):
 you need to speak to a parent then you need to go to the doctors. having it removed i think is the only option. this isnt a bad thing though i promise! my other half has had his removed and it is so much cleaner and you will become more sensitive down there (good for you!) you need to talk to your girlfriend and tell her the situation. but i strongly advise getting help from a doctor. good luck and let me know how it goes!
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reader, oliviab  +, writes (22 October 2008):
 u should talk to her about every thing UR FEELING and be HONIST!!!
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (22 October 2008):
 well peer pressure is a fact of life.
I promise you this. you Will have sex. but why do you have to do it right now? why so soon?
Question. are you a sheep? and by that i mean Do you follow every order thats given to you?
If all the kids jumped off the bridge are you gonna do it?.. personally i would because theres gotta be something Really cool down there.. and of course i hope to land on the fat kid.
as and when you're ready for sex is one thing. When your gf is ready... thats the person who decides. not you. as you can't force or pressure her. because thats unfair. oh and wear a condom or you'll have to explain to her folks why their little princess is pregnant.
In closing.. and you're gonna love this. if you haven't discovered masturbation. well its time to. it will help loosen the tight foreskin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): Dude, do something about your tight foreskin first - you don't want your first sexual experience to end painfully. See your GP - he'll be able to offer some simple advice that'll help solve the problem and boost your confidence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): Whats up bro im 16 still in high school just like you.If you are certain that you couldn't have sex even if you want to because you have a physical problem stoping you then tell your girlfriend I'm just not ready for sex and you're just going to have to accept that,if she loves you she'll be okay with it bro.But if you're just how do I say under confident about it and thats all then take my word and stop being,older people are going to say don't think about sex you're to young.Take this from another young kid,there's no age for sex and im telling you,you'll love it.It's great there is nothing to be afraid of bro it's the greatest thing that will happen to you.My first time I was scared as hell,I was14 and I was worried I wouldn't know what I was doing or I wouldn't pleasure her enough,and it was wierd the first time but you got to practice sex with the first girl you have it with.Tell her it's your first time so go easy on me,then every time after that it'll just get better and better.Take my word for it.But please always use protection you can get condems at any gas station and there is no age law I always bought them at your age.Just give the sex a try,before you know it you'll be a pro
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reader, dobro +, writes (22 October 2008):
 You're fifteen mate. You are under age to begin with, and very few fifteen year olds have the emotional maturity for sex. I am nineteen and I still feel that I don't yet, and I can say honestly that it isn't that bad to never have had it.
Don't feel pressurised. Think about why you feel this pressure.
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