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Archived questions from: 17 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I get this feeling my boyfriend might break up with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend is about to break up with me. He's confronted me about the situation a few times but I haven't done anything about it and this time I think he means it. For a while now he's been telling me I'm too controlling and I say ...

Forming a relationship with a church-going lady?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - Susan(32) is a woman I met last year (September 2007) and we went out for a couple of weeks in Early to mid June. The dating started when a mutual friend suggested I ask Susan out as Susan had told her she found me attractive. We dated a coup...

How can I tell my ex there will never be an "us" without hurting his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - I'd just like some advice about what to do with my ex boyfriend, he will not leave me alone I have a new boyfriend now but we're keeping it quiet for a bit to see how it goes. The other day I explained to my ex that I didn't want to be with him and ...

Where do you draw the line???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - So I've been dating this girl for almost two months. As a little background to the situation, I met this girl about 5 months after the end of a previous pretty intense relationship. The ex in question here turned out to be NOTHING that I thought she ...

She wants to take a step back and focus on her situation...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I met a great woman several weeks ago, and we seemed to have an instant connection. I have been separated for 7 months and waiting for the divorce to go through and she is also nearly completing her divorce. She text and called a few times ...

Do married women actually like being asked out by men who have feelings for them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - Hi. Do married women actually like being asked out by men who have feelings for them?...

My boyfriend is introverted, how to deal with that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I need help here, my boyfriend is very introverted ( very very) and I am very extroverted, I like him just the way he is, I am inlove with him in that way, when we are together everything is perfect, he does everything for me ( we normally ...

I've been a party animal for the past years, but I want to change. How can I do so, and make people see it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - How can I lose the reputation I have in my hometown as a crazy, drunk bunny boiler? I have for the past 5 years been a party animal, people are used to seeing me drunk than sober. Ive had great times but now, at 26 years old, I want to try and ...

Why are there so many awkward silences between us now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - my girlfriend stopped talking to me as much and we seem to be having trouble talking to each other. Lately we have been having awkward silences when talking. I don't know what to do.... Does anyone have sugestions on what I could do to make it ...

What has caused my boyfriend to be this quiet the past two weeks?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has been quiet for the past two weeks. We got into a fight about his drinking and all of a sudden, we stop having sex. When I walk to a room, he leaves out. We do not sleep in the same bed anymore. I even asked him "what's wrong?" or ...

I'm now ready to have sex with my boyfriend, how do I ask?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - I want to have sex, but I don't know how to make my boyfriend get horny or turned on? Any suggestions?...

I don't fancy him sexually like I do this other guy... but I don't love this other guy like I love my ex!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - I'm curently in a relationship with a guy who is great, but I slept with my ex a few weeks ago. I know it's a horrible thing to do and I have ovewhelming feelings of guilt!! I just can't seem to get my ex out of my head! The only reason we split ...

What to make of increase porn use and behavior changes

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5640 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - I'm feeling a little "uneasy" and was looking for some feedback. My fiance over the past few weeks has been coming home and propping himself up in the living room where I cannot see the computer screen (which takes effort on his part) and lookin...

Sometimes when we're kissing he has his eyes closed, which is very odd to me.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about four months now and I really care about him a lot. He tells me he loves me and I tell him I love him. He's eleven years older than me but I don't think that really matters. I love him. I do have a concern though. ...

My partner has gone to work on the other side of the world for 3 months, how can I remain strong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - My partner of 3 years has had to go to the other side of the world to work for 3 months. It's been 3 weeks now and until now I have been pretty strong, but now I'm starting to fade. I'm feeling very depressed and lonely. I only get to speak to him ...

Is it possible or just a hopeless desire?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5672 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - hello there, I was just wondering: If your guy is too busy with school at the time being, but you think that you really could work it out because you're both in the same boat and you could just visit each other once a week to actually ha...

Why don't guys like me?! Is it my fault?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - i don't know what's wrong with me??? i'm becoming crazy! cuz i can't have a seriuosly relationship with some guy! .. i don't know why??? ... i'm a model in my free time! thus I'm pretty but they don't love me! as i wanna it! .. What should i do??? ...

I lost the girl who was my reason to live. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - I'm a mess rightnow! I used 2 b the numero uno,in studies,sports etc and everyone loved me But everything went crashing down! I was totally down.I shut myself away from everyone.Lonely,withdrawing 2 myself. Then all of a sudden,i met a gi...

I'm very worried that. if it comes out only by holding it, then how do I have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - Halo, Hope i'll get my answer here, I'm 22, and i never had any girl friends before aged 21, but my problem is, she's only just held my penis 2 times, first time it was just for 15 to 30 sec and second time, close to 1 min. just she holds it and ...

Why would his friend send a naked pic of his ex to my b/f's phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - I was not snooping because I trust him, but I found a picture of a naked girl on my boyfriend's phone. He said that a friend sent it to him, and it was that friend's ex-girlfriend. My heart dropped when I saw the picture, and I felt so hurt and ...

Even a simple 'thank you' will do........!!

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17 October 2008 (F) - I cook and clean for my boyfriend every night, and it seems like he has become accustomed to it. I know he appreciates what I do, but he doesn't usually tell me "thank you." I want him to let me know that he appreciates all that I do for him, but ...

After 2 years, he just dumped me to go date other females! What gives?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - he told me that he loves me but not in love. two years of being together and a year n a half of living together. i supported him and his career options and he lost the career. i helped him start school all cause of me i never asked him for nothing. ...

Mom won't let me date a 30 year old guy!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - my mom wont let me date a 30year old. I am 16 years old...

Dating a couple months now. Should I ask her to marry me this christmas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - HI, Im in a long distance relationship. We are completly in love, going out for two months now and she is coming here to live and we want to live together it will be in a couple of month when she does. I am 17 she is 19 i have nothing i dont want ...

He left me without giving me any reason! How do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - What should I do if my boyfriend left me without any reason? We've been together in one year and 10 months. When he go to boracay last august 16-23,2008, since then he changed a lot. He never texted me and he is so moody. He never called me hon ...

My best buddy's gf hates me..what's happening here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - heres some backround info first of all. I met this guy about a year ago and we connected pretty fastly. we became bestfriends and he was so nice! when he met me he introduced me to hs gf and she seemed pretty cool. i found out she was and still is ...

Was it wrong of me to contact my ex’s friend to support her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - My gf and I broke up. She broached the oft-discussed thorny aside of our relationship following a weekend of discussions with her sister and so I agreed that this was a problem that we hadn’t resolved and as painful as it was to accept that we ...

He tried choking me and I kicked him out! So why do I feel so sad about all this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - Two week's ago, an incident occurred with my boyfriend of 3yrs.,He tried to choke me which is the 2nd time, but there are other problems. He actually gave up his apt. to move in with me when this happened. He has been calling me telling me he is ...

After kissing him, I got swelling and a burning sensation on my face. What's happening?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - hi...i kissed my boyfriend maybe like seven days ago and the next day my face swelled up really badly n i started itching and burning all over my body.my lips still burn evryday all day. I itch the most in the morning time..I burn the most on my ...

What does a 'X' on its own in a text mean?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - This is probably a very silly question. A man I know who I'm friendly with and who I share occasional 'latest news' texts with has started sending me texts with just a big X all on its own in the text. Is he trying to tell me something? He's done ...

His ex gf is trying to steal him back! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5674 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend has been going out for 6 months. We went out months before but two his ex girlfriend came back into his life. Supposably he was confused and didn't know what to do. In the end he chose me because he "loved" me the most. A ...

I''m 38 and have an 18 year old admirer..what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - I work in a super market and two of the other staff have told me that I have an admirer. It is said that she is only 18 and I'm 38 and work with her mum who knows about it as she has told me hersself. I dont know what i shoud do. ...

I'm bored with my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - I`m 17 going on 18 and i am having relationship problems every Friday. i go see my gf and its the same thing every day and I`m getting bored then another thing is that she works 6 hours after school on friday and 8 hours on saturday. And i feel that ...