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Our relationship is being ruined by this guy!

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Question - (22 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 October 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *eorgiex.x writes:

Hi, thanks for reading.

I've been going out with this guy for about a month. Let's call him Bob. I love him to bits and he's really sweet.

And then there is this other guy. Let's call him Ted. He has this insane crush on me and he won't leave me alone. He asked my out a few month ago before I started going out with Bob. When I started going out with Bob he got worse. He keeps telling people he loves me and calling me a liar for not loving him back. I don't understand. I've tried to tell him that I don't want to go out with him because I have a boyfriend but now he keeps trying to split me and Bob up. It's really ruining our relationship. Bob has spoken to Ted. I have spoken to Ted. But he is still convinced that I love him. If I don't do something my relationship with Bob is going to end. What can I do? HELP ME!

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A female reader, Georgiex.x United Kingdom +, writes (23 October 2008):

Georgiex.x is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Georgiex.x agony auntThanks sooo much guys! I gave Ted a big warning that if he didn't stop I would get someone involved. Things weren't going great - cos my boyfriend punched him the other day, but things have calmed down abit now. Ted still thinks that I am in love with him, and has said some other things, but it's getting better. Thanks so much! xxxx

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (22 October 2008):

I don't think your boyfriend will leave you unless he's very weak. Why would he be threatened by this when he knows this boy is just a psycho?

Tell Ted to leave you alone or you will tell a teacher he is harassing you.

Good Luck!! xx

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