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Archived questions from: 6 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I'm just not sure on how to proceed. I don't want to keep pestering him about what's going on.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I'm 21 years old, he's 23. We've known each other since college, and he has graduated and I've left due to financial reasons. We didn't really start to hang out until I moved in across the street from him. At the time, I was casually seeing someone ...

Am I asking too much from my boyfriend? Do we have a future as a couple?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Hello please, I need help, I have a dilemma with my relationship with my boyfriend, I know he is a good guy and we share strong feelings for each other, but I am seriously thinking if I should stay in this relationship or not, I have a lot of trust ...

Do you think he just likes the chase???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - A guy I was seeing quite often broke things off with me for no other reason than he did not want a relationship. So for the past 3 months now all I've been is a drunken 3 in the morning phone call to which I always usually go round to his ...

Should I kiss it off, or fight for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - I am not well. I have trouble with the drink, and have spent many years sober, in fact, all but seven of the last seventeen years I was able to stay clean. I have a great job, and by most accounts I am doing okay, but have a tendency to go o...

Planning a romantic weekend soon. Is there a way to induce my period to get it now, before I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I'm seeing this guy on the weekend. We're long distance and only see each other once every month or 2. We haven't had sex yet and I'm pretty sure we were going to this weekend. Normally my period is on time every month, the 5th or the 6th, but I ...

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years now and it seems as though we hardly talk or see each other anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years now and it seems as though we hardly talk or see each other anymore. He graduated from college last semester and I graduate next semester and he was just put in charge of ROTC at our school. I...

Artist block: how can I compromise?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - It's been a couple of months sense my boyfriend has moved in with me. He loves my art and I appreciate that very much, but if I don't draw for one day he'll get a little sad, well more like a pouty sad. Basically in my opinion he wants me to draw ...

Holiday Options!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I would appreciate some feedback on a problem my boyfriend and I have concerning holidays. We are both very mature adults with grown up children and I can't believe we can't sort this out ourselves. We have been toegether for 8 years but don't ...

Will he ever commit or is this just for fun?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - How can you tell if a guy is scared of getting hurt or never has plans to take it to a serious commitment? Are there ways of making him make a decision like jealously or should you give him more time? I've given it 5 months and don't want to waste ...

His family don't want him to be with me and are making our lives hell.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - well I am back on here. I told you last week about my man and me. He is 69 years old and I am 65 years old and we have been dating 3 years and 10 months. His kids have never liked the idea of us dating. They want him 24/7 to meet their needs. ...

Could I have given my boyfriend genital herpes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Yesterday night I gave my boyfriend oral sex. I get coldsores, and he knows, and we never do oral sex whilst I've got one. But I woke up this morning, and I had the beginnings of one. I hadn't felt the tell tale tingling though. I'm really worried ...

I love my boyfriend but he takes drugs and I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Hey, I really don't know what to do :( for the last month or so I have been seeing a guy. But on weekends he takes cocaine with his friends, I totally disagree with any illegal drugs, so I had a go at him about it. Saturday night I was supp...

I'm starting to get headaches listening to my boyfriend's venting all the time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I want so badly to hold things together with my boyfriend. Things HAVE been well lately, in fact, except that he's been having a terrible time at work and I'm starting to feel a bit psychologically bludgeoned as he goes on and on about all the ...

I am having severe difficulties overlooking my girlfriend's past sex life!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm going to get strait to the point, I am having severe difficulties overlooking my gf's past sex life. She has told me that she slept with around 20 people, mostly within a couple of years. She has also told me some of the details t...

Don't want to lose new boyfriend over racist family and friends.. anyone else had this experience??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - hi ok my problem is I'm Irish and I've started seeing a Polish guy who's living in Ireland. We work together and get along really well and he's the first person I've had real feelings for since I split with my ex 2 years ago.. I've kept it quiet so ...

How my parents married

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I'm probably a lot older than the people on this website, but I feel that I have a lot to share - about relationships and marriage. My father has been divorced 3x, my brother and sister 1x each, and myself, 2x. You can say that divorce is rampa...

I'm 18, my family would be mad to know I am dating a man 22 years my senior! What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5682 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I have a hugh problem i have been seeing this guy who is 22 years older than i am. im only 18 but i love him so much. we have been together 5 months but keeping it a bit of secret from my family. they would go mad if they found out i dunno what to ...

I'm a very shy girl, need tips on first kissing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - ok i have a boyfriend and he wants 2 kiss me and i want 2 kiss him but i dont know how 2 kiss someone on the lips so can someone plz help me!!!how long should the first kiss be(its only a lip kiss)? what do i do with my lips when they meet his? and ...

Do we have a future together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5683 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for the last 8 months, he is a very good guy, he does everything to make me happy and the sex is honestly great, we both get along really well... At the beginning of our relationship we was living 2 hours apart, and...

How do I stop peeing on him at night? It's embarrassing...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5256 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I'm having an odd problem. My fiance and I generally sleep in the nude. We're always very close and snuggled up, wrapped around one another. Thursday night, we were sleeping and I was having a bizarre dream that basically ended with me going to the ...

What to do with an alcoholic boyfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Hi. I have been dating an alcoholic for the last 8 months. We live together and have the most wonderful relationship – apart from the alcohol. He is an alcoholic but not a drunk. his parents have put him in rehab and given him all sorts of help over ...

Do you think she's over him yet? How long does it take?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - After breaking up from a long term relationship, how long did you leave it before you started to see other people? A couple of years ago I really liked this young lady, but she had a partner at the time. She has recently broken up with him, about ...

Is it just porn or is it something worse?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Why would a guy I date/live for 10+ years go to such huge lengths to cover-up looking at tame Internet porno? He has a whole separate browser on our computer and it is set-up to basically not leave any "tracks". He says it's just because he's ...

How often do women think of their previous lovers? I'm worried she will compare me to her ex'es!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - I have been dating a girl and we had sex for the first time the other day but I came really quick and I don't think she was satisfied. I was a virgin before that but she had slept with other guys. I just want to know, will she be comparing me with...

I have told him that him looking and chatting to other women upsets me but he carries on!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend online 10months ago and moved in with him 2 months ago. He looks at half naked women online and chats to them. Last month I found out that he had sent nude pics of himself to some of theses women and was asking them to send him ...

I pushed himt o give me a second chance. Do you think it will work for us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - This guy named Matt broke up with me like 2 or 3 days ago. Because I kept on saying that he doesnt like me and he flirted with other girls lots. I showed him a picture of me sliting my wrist, which I thought didn't really helped -- i wasn't that ...

Something happened between me and a boy at college, I want to tell my boyfriend but I'm scared he'll finish with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Me and my boyfriend have been together just over a year now. I love him so much and I have been thinking about my future with him a lot. However, last night some stuff happened between me and a guy at college. I'm really confused and I don't re...

He said to me: "you know how chocolate is tempting but it is also bad for someone's health. I think of you as that."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I dated a guy sometime last year, only for about three months. Then he had to go back to his home town. He did not call me for about three months. Then, one day he called me over the phone, telling me that he missed me and he compared me to a ...

Shall I give him time, or just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I started a relationship earlier this year. Personally I went through a very bad marriage for a while and he went through a terrible relationship couple years ago. I got recovered from the divorce and slowly started dating and I met him. I had t...

How can I get along better with my girlfriend's friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Ive been going out with my girlfriend for about a year now and lately a problem has been happening more. I find that whenever my girlfriend would invite me out with her friend's she wouldn't really talk to me, especially when i don't really kno...

My girlfriend and I have been dating for a while, but without having sex, she says she doesn't want to be end up like her mother, who did not attend college, married her dad, and are struggling now, is this just an excuse, not to have sex, or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Me and my girl have been dating for a while. I've given her oral but she's never for me. I don't expect her too though, I consider myself lucky that she even touches me. It's not that I'm bad looking it's just that she's so amazing. Anyway, the ...

Her Mom thinks I am too old too date her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up recently, however we really want to get back together. I am 19 and she is 15 almost 16. Her mom thinks im too old and she wont let her date me again bc she thinks that was part of the reason why we broke up. We are madly ...

I just turned 30, but I look very much younger, so people think I am a "kid", I am attracted to an older man, maybe in his 40's, trouble is, I don't know how to approach him, what would be your advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - So I just reached the dreadful age of 30. I feel real weird because I know technically I have reached the age where I am supposed to be an adult. And granted I have the whole house/car/business thing so I am responsible in that end. But maturity ...

Do I need parental consent to marry my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - can i get married to my boyfriend with out parental concent without getting pregnant? or do i have to be pregnant? help me i want to marry my boyfriend...

If a girl says a guy is "so sweet," is this bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Hi, This girl that I like, but am confused whether or not she likes me back "in that way," said that I was "so sweet." After reviewing various websites, I am confused. Some say that a guy being called sweet by a girl is a bad thing. It means...

Everytime I date someone, this feeling of 'she's not the one' is getting beyond my control.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I was in a 2 year relationship which finished nine months ago. It was a very passionate relationship and we were deeply in love. The breakup was painful but I got through it after a couple of months and have been on the single scene ever since...

Do you think I have a chance with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - I'm 14 and so is my ex. we broke up about a year ago, we went through things because we hated each other for about 6-5 months. but since a few months ago we have been talking like twice a week. I always start the conversation [text, myspace] she neve...

She loves alcohol the way she loves me.! She needs therapy far away but wants to be with me! Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I know how this is going to sound. How many times have I heard that "She's different when we're alone!" and "I know it's bad, but I love her!" and "She'll change!" speech? I don't know, but here's mine. So, my girlfriend is a horrible alcohol...

I'm now doubting everything I thought I did know about sex. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm 16. I'm a girl. I've been in a long term sexual relationship before with a boy equally as inexperienced as me, but I don't feel I've actually gained any sexual experience, as he was equally as clueless as me. I'm now with someone I r...

I started giving her oral then realized I really had no idea what I was doing....please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for quite a while now. I've been touching her for well over a month and just a week ago she began touching me. I really have two problems here. For one, when she touches me it feels really good but I just can'...

I'm afraid of females, please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5685 days ago

6 October 2008 (M) - I'm a 34 year old man, i want to live with a honest female but i'm afraid of females, specialy sex relation, i can have sex but i never do. I can't make any girl friend because i'm afraid of females. Guide me that what i do? ...

Ring, or no ring, oddly I want the ring, help.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

6 October 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 5 years with a degreed musician - we live together - which was not originally my idea. To keep it short, I am a lawyer (law professor) that does pay all the bills - in the past five years - he's probably contributed ...