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Archived questions from: 14 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I change my behavior and my mindset so that I don't sabotage this relationship that I do not want to lose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm not sure whether to break up with my boyfriend or not. We have been dating for 2 and a half years, we live together, and we love each other. But I am very insecure, and needy. I rely on him a lot for reassurance, and I really am ...

Do you think the reason I don't have a boyfriend is because of my weight?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I feel RANK! I'm 5.7" and nearly 12 stone... I don't go round saying "eugh I'm so fat.. look at how fat I am" to everyone but I have told a couple of close friends how I feel about my looks and they say I'm not fat, but I think they're only saying i...

My friend is putting doubts in my head...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Well my boyfriend and I dont go to the same school, so I only see him 2-3 days a week (usually friday, saturday and sunday) During the school week (mon-thur) it seems like we're so busy that we barely talk (we talk about 1-2 days between mon-thurs) ...

A question to "Emilysanswers" and other aunts and uncles.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi I was looking throug the questions. I thought maybe there will be an answer to my question. This way I got half of my answer, but not the whole one. Emilysanswers wrote in one of her answers: "Scientists have proved that the feeling of "love...

New love disrupted by jealous ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I have been seeing a man I have know for a while for the past 4 weeks, and it is really special and lovely. I was friendly with the 39 year old Mother of his child who has been trying to pair us off for a long time (I was too cautious), but since I ...

Love of my life or just fatal attraction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I been with my guy for some years now (more than 3) and the realtionship is ok and all.. I love him to death and he loves me too but this new guy that attends my school is a sweet heart respectful and is so interesting to me. for some reason i feel ...

I'm in a 5 year relationship, phone this girl and she says "I didn't know he had a girlfriend!!!"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - ok, i been dating my bf for 5 years and 4 months ago he and some friends went to a club and i dont have a problem with that but i noticed he was often hiding his phone when i was around and one day i asked to see it, he said hold on and was deleting ...

He seems to have completely removed me from his life and I don't know what I've done!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - He dumped me, didnt even care to tell me. Is it possible that I am at great fault and I should apologize, though I already did it once and he didn't get back yet? I miss him, love him. We were knowing each other for about 2 years.. since he was ...

I want him to stop talking to her but he's stubborn, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I need all the help I can get right now, my boyfriend is going to drive me crazy, he's talking and seeing one of his ex girlfriends and I know 4 a fact that she still wants to be with him and I have the strongest of feelings that he is cheating on ...

In love with a soldier

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I'm 20 and dating a 24 year old man who is currently in the Army but getting out sometime next year. He likes me but he says he wants to hold off being in a serious relationship until he gets out of the Army and gets his house. But why is it so easy ...

If I do go back with I ex I don't want things to be the way they were, I'm so confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I am completely lost and confused. I don't know what to do and need help ASAP. I am currently taking a break from my boyfriend because I can't get over my ex fiance that I broke up with and my current b/f doesn't possess certain qualities I want - ...

What should my next step be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I had been married to Hindu girl. Before marriage, she got herself converted to Muslim and accepted Islam as per me and my guardian’s wishes. We got married on Jan ’08 and started staying ourselves ( only me and her ). She got pregnant within t...

Lack of trust... or lack of commitment?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Hi. I have a huge problem. I'll quickly tell you things before i get onto the main part. I'm 20 and been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years. Before her, i had 3 girlfriends who all cheated on me. Anyway to the story. About 8 months ago, i...

How many women out there enjoy sex as much as their mates do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Last week my girlfriend was told by her doctor that she needed to wait at least a week before having sex again. This was the first time since we started dating that we've gone more than a three days without it. The funny thing is, I think she had ...

Any advice on how to get closer to him or should I just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Well it's not a massive problem but it's something I really need advice on. When I was 11 to 13 14 I always prayed and wished for a boy friend and now in year nine I finally have a guy that really likes me and were together but have only been tog...

Fight or Flight???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - If you love someone and you know its different simply by the way things are and the way they look at you and the history you have together, but it was for the best at the time you weren’t together. As time has moved on and those looks still exist, ...

Terrified to get into a relationship again as my heart was almost broken last time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I've just got back into a relationship after a year of being single, due to a very messy break up where my heart was left completley broken. I'm SO scared of being hurt by my new boyfriend and I'm so worried that he's using me because thats what hap...

How do I get him to notice and talk to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - There is a boy in the year above me at school (hes in sixth form and im in year 11) i really like him and i would like to get to know him how do i get him to notice me or talk to me. i saw him in the local shopping center the other day, h...

I can't get over my first love and I don't like the guy I'm with... I can't hurt him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - hey there I really need help! I just started goin out with this lad called lewis who asked me and i said yes 2 days ago, i have never really liked him that much but i said yes becuase i thought why not. but now i really regret my decision you see...

Has anyone had their 1st orgasm whilst having sex outside?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Has anyone had their 1st orgasm whilst having sex outside? Me and my boyfriend have regular intercourse but last weekend we found a quiet spot and had it outside for the 1st time. We were both nearly fully clothed so found the sensations "down ...

After a strange encounter with girls who asked him if he was seeing me, he stopped answering my calls!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - im really confused! this lad asked me for my number about two mounth ago. i said no although i did like him. anyway he didnt give up so i gave in. hes 19 and im 25. we called and txt most days an got on really well when we met up. i thought we could ...

I was wondering..is it far too soon to move in with my bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and our planning to move in together. We are still in college, and marriage is no where coming soon ( i dont want it too). I love him very much, and I know we have had our ups and our ...

I worry about how my appearance will affect my relationships in the future.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I have posted questions previously about how I worry about how my appearance will affect my relationships in the future. Quick reminder - I am nineteen years old, six foot dark hair blue eyes. My close female friends say I'm sweet and kind and lov...

Is it okay to ask a girl's number if you just want to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I met this girl at a party and she was really fun. I asked for her number cause I really wanted to hang out with her again. But now I'm wondering if I did the right thing cause I'm not interested in her sexually, I just want to be her friend. Is it ...

Should I just try and get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - hello, i'm new to this but i just don't know what to do about my problem? Me and this boy have been basically on and off for about 3 years. I like him so much we were going out but we agreed to stop going out because we both thought we were better ...

Due to my social phobia, I tend to be too shy around women! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - ok, heres my problem i like this girl in my class in University. we are both in the same project group as well which makes my situation a little better I think that she likes me as well, one day in class she said I was Gorgeous, but the way...

What can I say to make her feel comfortable enough to send me some sexy pictures?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 2 years now, we don't live together and we are like two peas in a pod. We are greatly in love and have everything in common. Now the problem... Recently I was forced to go on a business trip in ...

When you're at fault and apologise is it then best to try and make it up, or is temporary space sometimes the best solution?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for two and a half years. We're both 21. We've had the most blissful, easy, uncomplicated and fun relationship for virtually the entire time. We are often labelled as the perfect couple and his friends think I'm the ...

He kissed me, got another girlfriend, then kissed my neck when we met again, what's going on and how to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 14, but I think I might be in love with this guy. He's in my friends band, so I have to be friends with him. But a couple of weeks ago we kissed, a lot. Then about a week later he got a girlfriend, then he sent me Instant Messages saying ...

Love quadrilateral, advice needed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - my 'boyfriend' has two other girlfriends and we all know about each other. well ,two of us know exactly what's going on but his real,legitimate girlfriend doesn't. the thing is his real girlfriend 'T' really likes me even though i try to...

I love my girlfriend but I think I love her younger cousin too...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I'm 20 yrs old, I've been with my girlfriend(19yrs old) for 3 yrs now and i love her, but over the years ive grown feelings for her cousin too(16 yrs old) i was first very atrracted to her and i thought that was wrong because she was only 13 and i ...

He's a great guy and very very good to me.. but I need someone who wants to be close to me physically. I feel so unsatisfied. Should I give up on this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I am in a relationship with a guy who's got a pantyhose (tights) fetish. I'm totally fine with it and wear tights regularly to turn him on. In fact it really turns me on knowing what gets him going. I've got my own fetishy aspects that I am open ...

I so want to have sex with my boyfriend but am frightened in case I've caught anything from previous boyfriends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Recently I went through a real slutty stage and had 4 one night stands for the fun of it. The trouble was each of these times I had unprotected sex. My dilemma is that I want to have sex with my now boyfriend but im putting it off (even sex with a c...

He has financial difficulties and I feel that is stoping him proposing to me... what should I do in this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hello. I am running through the most terrible phase in my life. I have been dating a guy for over a year now and in the beginning he was really sweet and was coming on too hard on me. He tried everything till I let him in. After life 5 months he ...

She only ever gives me oral, and has stopped penetrative sex...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I have an issue with my girl, as the title says she will give me oral all the time but we will not have sex. She will let me give her oral as well but nothing else. She just says she is not in the mood, and has been like this for over 8 month...

Do I ride it out and see how it goes, and go to Japan with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - Hi Everyone, Where do I start. Well I met this girl a while ago through a friend after I had gone through a rather emotional patch. She's Japanese and 30 years old - and I'm 23. She can't speak english very well at all and I communicate with her...

The only place I feel I fit in is at home with my mam and dad. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Well this is a bit stupid to be honest. I just don’t feel I fit anywhere, I think, would people notice if I wasn’t here? (I’m not suicidal or anything like that). I do get involved with friends but I always feel like I’m the odd one out. I’m quiet ...

After 12 weeks, would you say we were a couple or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi aunts just a quick question. I met a guy off a dating site around 12 weeks ago. He is amazing. Cute, funny, kind etc. If we dont catch up he calls me every day, we go out to dinner all the time and have met each others friends. I'm just about to ...

I told him I wouldn't call her, but today I did. Please help, I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - i found love msgs from a girl in my boyfriends phone which he gave me to take for repair. i asked him about it he said that we would talk about it when i visit him (am currently away at school). i started going out with him in may 2008 and thos...

Should I just give up and accept the fact that him 'going down' on me just isn't going to happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 2 months now, but I have known him since we were in Junior High. We were high school sweethearts that just barely realized it. We started having sex about 1 week into the relationship but only because we ...

Should a woman text/call, or should she wait until the man contacts her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I've been on a couple dates with a guy i really like, and have known him for a month now. We have a great time when we see each other. He has told me he liked me before. I just dont know how long i should wait until i call or text him. I dont want...

It's been over 2 months and I'm yet to hear from him. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - hi..i've recently had a sort of breakup...this guy whom i know since over a year and a half...whom i die for...has removed me frm everything...we've had up's and downs.. and we've had some real good time too. he was sure he liked me well, but ...

Not sure where we should be as a couple, whether I should be starting to think to settle down, or whether I am being unfair to both of us by continuing the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I am confused. I have the perfect man, willing to give me everything, and has been for the past 3 years. For some reason however, the feeling of going out and dancing, joining clubs, hanging out with friends, going to parties etc appeals so much ...

She said she didn't want to rush into anything, I'm afraid I'll annoy her by breaching the subject again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - i have been chilling with this girl for awhile. we go to break together talk kiss have a great time . now we went on a date to my place(per) her request and we started getting into it and it stopped and she left. she said she wanted to postpone this ...

What he said... it made me feel a bit like a blow up doll. Do you think I am overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (?) - Me and my boyfriend were fooling around yesterday. We've been together for 2 years and the sex is great. Contrary to what I first thought, as time has passed, he seems to be more and more turned on by me, which I think is fantastic. We were talkin...

What do you guys think, is he falling for me? Is this love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - im 22 almost 23 the guy im seeing is 24. Well im wondering if he is falling for me by this statement: "I dont know, this whole thing is scaring me i just know that when i kiss you everything feels right" Both of us have been in really bad relat...

I'm not a prude, it's just that no guy has the guts to ask me out - how do I stop focusing on this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5674 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - so my friends might think im a prude because they're always flirting with guys and kissing them, and i'm like always there without a boyfirend. dont get me wrong alot of guys find me very attractive but none of them have the guts enough to ask me ...

How do I win this other man over so I can be with him without hurting the guy I'm engaged to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - i am engaged, but love someone else, but he wont talk to me though because i am engaged. i want to know how this other man feels before i decide what to do, the question is how do i find out without asking him, or how do i win this other man over ...

Could he like me, even though I'm only a freshman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - so i'm a freshman in highschool. and this senior keeps looking at me and stuff. everytime i pass by he gets red, and when i look at him he gets red too. i have no idea if he likes me or not. maybe he just wants be be my friend. and knowing me im ...

Why didn't she text me after the movie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (M) - I asked my girlfriend to txt me when she was done watching the movie she was watching with her family at her house and her brother started txting me around 8:00 and we got to talking and he told me the movie was done at 5:00! I talked to my ...

Am I obsessed or is it just a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5676 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I'm in desperate need of help. I really like this guy, but he's too old for me (legally). I'm fifteen years old and I just want to know if I'm obsessed, have a crush, or am I a stalker? You see, this guy isn't like other guys. He's nice and ...