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Dating: Help and advice

How do I forget about the past so I wont ruin my relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Hi i need advice. i was in a relationship a year and a half ago where we broke up. he tried still being my friend but he kept lying to me. now we recently got back together because he begged me for another chance.. but he finally admittied to me ...

He tells me I am chubby! Do you know how I can deal with my weight issues?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I need some help here dealing with a couple of things or an extra point of view. CONTEXT I used to have a very nice body (waist 24in/62cm)but a couple of years ago I decided to quit my job and start a business with my partner. So now I 'm wor...

I finished the relationship but now I feel so miserable.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - I hope someone out there can help me because I am a complete mess at the moment. I broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks ago and now I am going crazy, I miss her so much and I'm scared she has met someone else. I'll start from the beginning. Th...

How do I get closer to him and kiss him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - I've started a new school because I got bullied and since I've moved it's been great, a fresh start and I met this guy who I'm with right now and he is so sweet and cares for me and we have hugged and had a peck on lips but that's it The probl...

Did he like her or just want someone around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - I would like advice on a guy since I'm confused by his actions. The guy in question was with 3 girls at one time throughout the year, and recently decided to get into a new relationship at the end of the summer. They hung out a bit, he met her ...

His mixed signals confuse me! Am I imagining that he's reconsidering his choice to break up with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Hi, My ex of 1.5 years and I broke up nearly two months ago. We had a very good, loving relationship, but a problem loomed as we are both approaching transitions in our careers that might take us to different places (we work for the same, very l...

What is the age limit to be able to legally date a 15 year old? No sex involved.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - There a girl who 14 who going to be 15 in 4 months what is the highest age a guy should be, to be able to go out with her of course nothing sexual, just maybe a kiss on the lips and hugs...

I love her and her baby but I'm not sure where I stand with her and if I'm only being insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - Ok, where to begin. So I've been in a relationship for six months now with a wonderful woman. We're both young, in our twenties but here is the catch.. she has a baby. Now, the child isn't mine biologically, but I'm terribly in love with both her ...

We went on a few dates but I'm too shy to kiss her, any tips on making a progress?

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11 October 2008 (M) - i need advice because im pretty rubbish at the whole dating and becoming more then just friends. iv never been in a serious relationship, never had a g/f, never kissed a girl like i mean it. for instance on a date, iv never had the courage to go in ...

I fancy a guy at work but love my boyfriend, is this a sign I'm not happy with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - i have been going out with my boyfriend for 5years and he is 6 years older than me so he wants the whole settling down thing im still only young and want to enjoy myself. I really fancy this guy at work i flirt with him all the time. i would ne...

I miss my ex who was abusive to me, we want to take it slow, how do I make sure I do not get hurt again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - So my ex and i are currently talking again-i am on a break with my current boyfriend because i can't get over my ex. anyway, i broke up with my ex because he was emotionally abusive and disrespectful-pressuring me to smoke and drink and sleep with ...

Is it worth staying in this relationship?? So many problems when we've only been dating for 5 months!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - I'm dating a younger man, 10 yrs younger. He recently moved to my city with his 2 kids which he has custody of. My kids are teenagers, his are 3 and 4. Several problems here:He is without work and has asked me to buy him lunch or take him to the ...

The hurt increases everyday. I can't stop thinking about him. Should I email him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend of seven years was deployed at least 3 times to the war in the last 4 years. He is divorced and has two grown up kids, I was never married and I don't have any kids. We live in two different countries, we kept in touch all the time ...

Is this fate...are we just meant to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - hey everyone :) i am really in love with one of friends (and have know for just over 3 years)...i like him from the day we met and initially i felt he felt the same way about me! anyways, we didnt really go out and ending up becoming really ...

This married guy at work likes me and I'm scared as he's my senior, in my office! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. im helpless and dont know what to do. well i started work in a bank recently and there's this guy in my office, he says he loves me.h e's so nice to me and everything. But theres a big problem!he's married!! i'm single. this is the ...

I like this girl at college. What would be a polite, non-awkward way to approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - This is not really a romantic question, but it is bothering me. I have recently started college, and have been having a hard time adjusting socially. I am shy and have trouble speaking to people, especially for the first time. Recently I hav...

How do you go again after cumming once with no help from the girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I just had sex for the first time, we both lost it to eachother and after the first time I cum'd which was really quick as in a couple of minutes, I tried to get hard again but she didn't want to give me a blow job or anything so I ...

I know most people don't think smoking is a big deal but it is to me and on top of that, she has lied to me and is hiding it from me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - It's coming up to the anniversary of being together with my girlfriend who I really really love to death, we're both really happy with each other and are really looking forward to many more years together. Before we were going out on nights in...

Am I just someone she likes to have hanging around or does she really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am 23 and currently dating a girl (20) I met at a camp 3 years ago. We did not meet since then and we only started dating about 9 months back. However I had feelings for her back then and when we got together she told me that she did ...

We had oral sex a few times, suddenly he wants to cook for me! Is he trying to charm his way into my bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Me and this guy met a couple months ago at my friend's house and we hooked up. We met that one time and then recently, about a month ago we met again at that same friend's house. Well what do you know, we hooked up (as in, had oral sex) again. We ...

He has been showing more and more violence and anger issues for the past 3 months.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5678 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Dear cupid(s), Ok I posted not long ago about the same situation.. but it has escalated out of control.. So,the deal is, my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. And as we progress in our relationship, so do all of our issues. For the ...

2 weeks into university and I haven't have sex yet. I know lots of people who have, and I worry that I'm missing out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - Hi. I've just started my first year of university. Twice in the past two weeks now I have been to the same club. On both occasions I have ended up dancing with, and eventually making out with a girl. However, nothing has ever gone further than ...

I have a boyfriend but I am attracted to my married friend, I want to forget about him but I also want to kiss him!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 October 2008 (?) - Please any advice would help me right now!! I am 21 and have been living with Boyfriend for the last few months, but i have met someone who i like more than what i should. I have always said it doesn't matter how happy you are with your p...

Relationship dilemma - I don't want to spoil her life with my scare

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years . earlier it was just friendship and we met online thru a chat site. we have met around 5 times after that face to face and we talk daily. in the past one year our relationship changed the lvel...

We have great sex but there is a promlem - he gets turned off by saliva.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and we love each other very much. We have great sex but there is a promlem - he gets turned off by saliva. For some reason I produce a lot of it especially when kissing and sucking his cock ...

I've been dating a very busy, self centred guy, how to take it to the next level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - hello all I have been dating for the last 6 months a man, 56 year old (I am 32 years), never been married, who works in the finance sector, which means non stop travelling and intense work pressure He's an old school guy, not very demonstrati...

Is a 15 year old and a 24 year old a bad age gap for a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Hi ... I was wondering: is 15 (girl) and 24 (male) an innapropriate age gap in a relationship??? xx...

Five years together and sixteen years between us... Does he still want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Hi. I have a partner (we're supposed to be engaged) we have been together for over 5yrs. Its a 16yr gap between us but he is one of them big-headed ppl. He also loves being center attention and has alot of confidence. I have non at all,very shy ...

She's accepted a teaching job in the country and is leaving in three weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - How do you deal with this? I've been seeing someone for nine months, we've been getting on very well and she's enjoyed my company. She's finishing a teaching degree and I haven't seen a lot of her in the past 1-2 months, but it is an important tim...

Dating for five years and he's always putting me down.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for five years and he tells me he has strong feelings for me everyday but how could I take him servious when he always downing me and always have something negative to say to me, what am I suppose to do?...

Does he care or does he just want someone there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - I'm just trying to understand this guy. This guy, who was with 3 girls at one time, decided to get into a new relationship at the end of the summer. They went on a couple dates, he met her parents and then she went back to school in September in ...

We each feel rejected by the other so neither of us want to make the first move verbally. Should I say something?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - I was the victim of a "player". That's how it started out. Then he got another girlfriend, and I was hurt. Instead of allowing myself to continue the hurt, I decided to play him back and did back to him all the rotten things he did to me. Like, ...

I love him very much, but I don't know what he is thinking.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - I had a boyfriend("A") for the last 7 months until a week ago. He told me he wanted to remain friends while he still had feelings for me, he said that love was a strong word, and that he wasn't sure about what he wanted. Anyways, a few days ago our ...

I don't get it, why is he ignoring me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Im hurt by his non-responsive attitude and would like opinions. Im a little confused about why this one guy wont text me back. We are friends, id say we're even close. We have had a history together and we constantly talk. However, he wont...

A series of drunken nights: is it always the drink?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - This is sort of just your typical does she like me question but I have no idea if I'm completely misinterpreting the situation. I live in a large shared flat with this girl who I've come to have a massive thing for. We came from a similar area and...

Can I get him to open up more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Hi this is a little bit complicated but here it goes, I have a boyfriend which is very wonderfull with me, he does everything to make me happy, we have strong feelings for each other, but the thing with him is that he is very introverted, so for me ...

Does it matter if we don't talk every day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - I am 27 and have been dating a guy who is 24 for the past 2 months. Everything has been going really well and he said he really likes me. The thing is we don't talk everyday, should that matter? we probably speak 5-6 days out of 7 and we hang out ...

How much do looks matter to guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Do they care a lot about how you look? I know they matter at least some, but what if you have a lot of acne? Would not looking super-pretty or having acne (even if you were otherwise pretty) prevent guys from approaching you or asking you out?...

My soul mate is pregnant! What now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - first of all hello there my name is Niko im 17 years old and so is my girlfriend, we have been dating for more than 8 months... i know that she is my soulmate... i knwo that i will marry her.. im sure u will say u cant find a sopulmata at 17 years ...

Why does he stare and then ignore me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - I'm 19 years old and I noticed my classmate keep staring at me everytime. I'm not sure what's going on. He ignores me almost everytime i say something, i heard he thinks i'm stupid, i got a feeling he doesn't feel good when i'm close to him, he can ...