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Dating: Help and advice

Should I meet him at Easter when I'm 18?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Hi all... I cant believe I am even thinking about this nor asking for peoples advice, it's totally not like me. I was wondering what I should do... On msn, I recently starting chatting to a man the age of 44, he seemed decent enough, funny and...

I've been stressed out for a few days now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I have been stressed a few days now.. about 2 weeks ago, I tried to finger my gf but she said it hurt so I stopped like probably 1cm in. And then afterwards, I rubbed my penis on the outside of her vagina for like 5 seconds. I rubbed it before c...

My fiance had threesomes in the past

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My wedding is in one month and my fiance just admitted to me he had threesomes in the past. He is always talking about it, but I thought he was just kidding. Now that I know he is done it before I am so disgusted.. what do i do????...

POZ man married to a woman and being gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - hello everyone. ! i m here becouse i just googled married man to a woman and being gay. trying to find out answers. i have a woman in my life who has been with me for around 17 years. we had good sex and i was in love to her at the begining of our ...

Would you like to be second best?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - If you found out that your bf/gf was going to dump you for their ex, but then decided to stay with you, would you be ok with it or wud you end it with them ? how would you react ?...

Recently my sex drive has just disappeared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, I am 25. Recently however, my sex drive has just disappeared. Whenever he initiates sex, I get shivers down my spine and it just doesn't feel right. I avoid having sex now, and feel terrible for it. I ...

She wants a "back up" guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I've been dating this girl that I love more than anything, she tells me she loves me the same way but she cheated on me cuz she was drunk and that she wants a backup guy. I'm afraid I might lose her to this guy. Can any one help me on what I can do ...

"Just friends" - what do you think???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Can I trust him or not? Basically I have been going out with my bf for a year and know him about 7 years. We were best friends all through school but also knowing there was a little something more there. Finally we got together last year after mo...

He loves me but is confused... what does he mean???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year now. Everything between is great. We love hanging out with eachother and we spend alot of time together...on the phone and inpesrson! but i don't know lately something doesn't feel right...like ...

My mum or my girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I have the worst situation in life, my mum and my girlfriend dont get on, I love them both a lot and I feel I have to choose but I dont want to... I need them both in my life and they both need me for emotional support but i dont know what to do...

He's scared that I'll leave him, to be honest I really don't know what to do...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I have a situation here, and I don't have any idea what to do, I have been with my boyfriend 8 months, he is very sweet with me and he does everything to please me, he is always very busy with work and college but he always manage to make ...

I really care about him but I am scared to love him because of what my ex did to me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I was in love with my ex I cared deeply for him we broke up because he cheated on me... well one month later I moved on and I found someone new, I really care about him but I am scared to love him because of what my ex did to me... Why do I feel ...

Time is running out....what can I do?!!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I have been talking to a girl from America for about 6 months. Around 4 months ago, we started to flirt with one another. Since, she has made plans for us to meet eachother before christmas. The only problem is, I have a girlfriend now! How can I ...

I'm feeling the intensity slipping away.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - Hi My problem is, that I've been seeing a woman for 8 months. Initially my feelings were very passionate. Up until recently I've noticed a difference in my feelings and I don't know why. Our love making is very powerful. We generally see...

Am I pushing him too hard to get married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and i complain to him allthe time'when we going to get married' and he complains that he wants to give me the perfect wedding so he wants to basically wait till we have money well we are moving ...

How can I overcome getting low when I don't hear from him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm in love with a man who has a partner but says he will keep in touch with me ( we have just become good friends and I am happy as that)! - He rings on occasion - when he can get away - but on nights he doesn't I start to really panic that I ...

Should I stay or should I go now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - hello I have a situation here, and I don't have any idea what to do, I have been with my boyfriend 8 months, he is very sweet with me and he does everything to please me, he is always very busy with work and college but he always manage to make time ...

In love with one man but falling for another!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm so confused! I am in love with one man, and falling in love with another. I don't know how to choose! One is my ex.. we had a falling out and didn't talk for 2 months. During that time I met this amazing guy who I have the best time with. I ...

Does he mean it when he says "I love you"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - how do you no if a lad really does love you when he tells you he loves you ? Well this lad keeps tellin me he loves me, but i have doubts abbout if he really does, cos he told me a few months ago that he keeps tellin people he loves them wen he d...

What should I do to make this a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I am basically don't know what i am wanting, but i have been seeing a guy for almost a month, i don't even know if we a in a relationship or is just the sex, whenever we see each other, we either just french kiss and then have sex.. I wanted to make ...

He means more to me than anyone and I don't want to move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - This goes back a while, about 8 months to be exact. I went on holiday towards the end of March/beginning of April. It was a little place, no where fancy. I was never a believer of love at first sight but when I saw this bloke who worked there as an ...

Do I drop a great relationship to sow wild oats?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I've been tossing myself back and forth lately about making a decision about a wonderful relationship I'm currently in. Just a little background about myself first -- I was an extremely "dorky" and awkward teeneager growing up. School was such ...

We're dating but I feel like the last one on her list of people she wants to be with...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - Lately we've had problems with getting in fights over the stupidest things, we have been dating for 8 months and I know in my heart that I love her with all of my heart and she says so to but, either she's not really good at showing it or ...

Do you think this will end up in me being hurt again by him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Hi just want opinions here so i know im not letting myself in for trouble. This will be long! Was seeing a guy for five months, we never went out but i wanted to as was crazy about him. Reasons we didnt go out are because he didnt want to at the t...

I feel so completely insecure sexually with her now, and suspicious of her reasons of being with me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - Dear everyone. I think I am at a about to end my relationship with my girlfriend, but I really wish I could just get over this problem instead. I have become uncontrollably jealous and insecure in this relationship and regardless of what it takes, ...

Is he just being friendly and just flirting? What do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I was in a controlling relationship and recently got out of it and moved back home with my family. I have met up with an old guy friend a few times this week. We always hang out in groups but I always notice that his attention is always on me. No ...

My boyfriend has been trying to do things with me sexually while I am asleep.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has been trying to do things with me sexually while I am asleep. When I wake up he laughs and says he's just joking around and I tell him to stop, but this is the second time it's happend. What should I do?...

Why do I keep hurting people like this?

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27 October 2008 (F) - I have found myself in a predicament. I have been with my boyfriend currently for 2 years, but we have had a few problems. I have cheated in the past and told myself I would never hurt anyone like that again... Somehow I had a couple of margaritas ...

Why is he still looking? Is he trying to find somethng better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm 43, I've been dating a man for a little over 2 months now. He says he's not ready for a commitment right now and that's ok, we've only been dating for a little while. Yet, his brother, mother and most of his other family know me as his ...

Relationship problem

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27 October 2008 (F) - Been with partner for 15 years since I was 16, lost my virginity to him. He is 10 years older than me, never had a problem with that until recently I just feel alone, there is no sexual contact between us in fact there is no contact between us we ...

I'm 23 and have never given a blowjob. Will someone please tell me how ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Ok, this is very embarrassing for me but it's something that bothers me......alot! I am 23 years old and don't know how to give a blow job for the life of me. I have had relationships in the past and they have never mentioned it, but i know myself i ...

I am hurting so much right now...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for almost two years. In that time he has finished with me two times and cheated once. He got back in touch with me the last time swearing that he would never hurt me again, so i gave it another go as my ...

Please help, I cant figure it out... am I being weird?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm pregnant, I have been with my boyfriend for a year, he wants me to get rid of it, but I'm against abortion, and have even protested against it, it will go against everything I've stood for, but I am only 17. Should I give up what I stand for ...

Having trouble with girlfriend's past experiences.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5645 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - I'm a 21 year old male and I've very innocent. I'm on my first girlfriend and I'm a virgin. My girlfriend is very religious but has gone to 3rd base with previous boyfriends. One day when we were talking, she misinterpreted when I wanted he...

How can I be less shallow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - And now I find myself seeking the advice of strangers over the internet... I love my girlfriend very much and have been dating her for a little over a year now. Most of that time we have been long distance. My girlfriend is on the heavier side o...

One orgasm in 2 months !!! Help !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend to death but there is just one problem... I been with him 4 a couple months now but we have known each other for 10 years and in those months I have only had one orgasm...ONE!!! and that's because I was on top... I fake it every ...

Why does he want to keep talking to me after breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Why does my ex still want me to talk to him?, He also tells me the problams he has with his new gf and how he thinks it may not work between them, Like yesterday evening he rang me and said could not talk for long as shes going round her house,...

Help, my love life is a mess!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Help, my love life's a mess. There's this guy right who I dated once and I think I fell in love with him, either way he dumped me (this was months ago) and I'm going out with someone else now. I thought I was over him but I found out he still ...

Why would he do that if we're having a baby in 4 weeks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years and I am 8 months pregnant. The day before yesterday he got a text message from his ex that said "why would you send me a text that says arm" I asked him what she was talking about he said he didn't ...

My gf is the one for me but I kissed a girl in a club whilst I was drunk...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - Hi, i have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. We have been through everything together. She even stayed with me through depression. I vowed i would NEVER cheat on her because she IS the one. I love her so much. Last weekend i went out with s...

Should we have a threesome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - my wife of 8 years is now fantasising about her having me and another man , when we have sex she gets really turned on talkin about taking 2 of us in both holes at once , the talk gets dirtier as we progress , should i give her ,her ultimate and ...

I'M SO CONFUSED!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My question is, I don't understand whether I love him [still] OR/AND why I'm feeling this way? Here is my story: When I moved [Beginning of school] , I obviously didn't know anyone but i got close to this guy [ill call him batman] who sits beside ...

Should I believe him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I am in love with a man who is currently living with the mother of his child. She doesn't know about us but he says that he will tell her once they sell their house which is on the market right now. He says that he has never loved anyone the way he ...

He says he doesn't want to date but continues flirting? What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - ok I like my guy friend,and have since we were in 8th grade(were in 11th now).he dated my step sis and then after they broke up he told me he loved me.i told him i liked him but didnt want to date because my sis still liked him. so 2 months la...

Why does he feel awkward around me now? Nothing happened!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - There is this guy who I was friends with last year. We hooked up but we didnt go all the way cause I wasnt ready. After that, it felt awkward and we stopped hanging out with each other. I saw him at a party, he was drunk and so was I. I was trying ...

Why am I the secret girlfriend??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm in my early 20s and dating a guy in his late 40s for about 3 months. We're both successful and have a great time together. There's one problem though, he tries to hide me from everyone in his life. There are very few mutual friends that know ...

Confused and in Love...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm in love with this man. We are about 6 years apart in age difference. We've known each other since about 9 years now. He says he never wants a relationship with anyone. Yet he says he loves me, and he knows I love him. He does not want me to get ...

My bf kissed my sister, I ended it, and now my sister keeps trying to talk to me! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (?) - My boyfriend (im 17 and he's 18) came over to my place to watch a movie with me. My sis (she's 15) was watching it with him well I was in the bathroom. Than I came back and I saw them kissing but I could my sis was push off. I yelled at them then ...

I don't understand! Should I contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I met an older man online that lives out of town. He is about 30 years older than me. He flew into town for business. While he was here we went out a couple of times and he treated me very well both nights. Even holding my hand in public a...

Why do I fall for the girls with a past and something going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - First off, im a pretty good lookin dude, i could have alot of different girls and i get along with everyone. Ive had a good past with girls but recently its been pretty crappy. So about a year ago I moved to this new school and started going ou...

Why does he still have these nude pictures of his ex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend lets me use his computer for school. Well one day he left his email up and i saw an email he sent himself back in June (we had been together 6 months then---it's almost 11 months now) it had 4 pics attached, so naturally i assumed it ...

How do I tell my selfish boyfriend that I want to get something out of sex without sounding selfish myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have always had a great sex life until the past coupld of months (we have been together almost 11 months). Used to, he would make sure I got what I wanted out of sex first then he'd take what he wanted. He would tell me "Honey, ...

I want a gf but can't ask one out! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - why is it that i wanna girl friend so bad yet could never ask one out. i wanna have sex but im scared to do so ...

Is it fair to stay with someone you aren't in love with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I am in a relationship and have been for almost a year. Im 25 and he's 28. We don't call eachother boyfriend/girlfriend. We don't say I love you. We don't talk about a future together. He is the nicest guy and treats me bettter than any guys ...

Should I keep trying or just let her go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - Hello, My girlfriend broke up with me this week because shes going through some personal issues. She says she wants to deal with it on her own but i want to be there for her. I don't know whether to give her her space and let her deal with it or ...

Is he my bf or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - so i have known i meet his guy 8 weeks ago. i am 22 by the way and he is 32. well he is my friends neighbor but that was like the first time anything more than pleasantries was said. 5 weeks ago we made out, it was also the first time we had hung...

I like my best friend, but I don't know if she likes me back; .

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - i wasnt sure if i was bi, until i realised i was attracted to both males and females, ill be okay with that one day. i wasnt sure if i liked my bestfriend, or maybe i always wanted to deny that i did, until a few weeks ago when i just admitted it to ...

She seems 'put off'' by me..what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - There's a girl who I like, except I don't think she feels comfortable around me. Like whenever I try to talk to her she avoids eye contact and looks for other people to "save" her. Also today in my youth group we were doing the "knot game" where ...

Need advice on how to 'make a move' on her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - 'ello, just gone to uni few weeks ago, met a girl who i can be myself around which is good cos im not the best at makin new aquaintances...anyhow i sorta like her, and i think she sorta knows i do...however we talk a fair bit and even after she ...

I fancy someone but his brother fancies me too! He's saying mean things about him... do I believe him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Heyy xx Well i wil try to putt this in shortest wayy possible. a few months a go this guy.. we'll call him "gary" fancied me for a long time bt i dint fancy him back so i told him so it wouldn't be leading im on. Bt now his bro contacted me an...

Should I break up with him again or not? (very long)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm only fifteen and about two years ago I had the biggest crush on this boy, we will call him Alex, but he did not like me back. I was sad for a really really long time and I just could not seem to get over him. I started to date ano...

I still love him after all these years! Are we soulmates?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I met the true love of my life when I was 17. From the start it was a long distance relationship. He joined a band and moved even farther away before I graduated highschool and while we kept in touch, it was difficult and I ended up moving across ...

In love with my best friend (girl) and my ex bf! And now this other guy is in love with me! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm bi. Thats a huge problem for me. I'm in love with my best friend, a girl. I've been bi for about three years and havent told a soul. My parents are very religous and deeply frown down on bis,lesbians,gay marriges etc.. and it really bothers me ...

My bf thinks I have an eating disorder! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 October 2008 (?) - So my boyfriend caught me making myself throw up and he freak out. Now he keeps asking me if I have a eating disorder. I mean can make myself throw up without having one. Plus I have a modeling contact and the agency that im with says I to be nee...

Stood up by this guy...why didn't he call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - a guy im dating asked me to go to the cinema, this would of been our 4th date, he asked me friday night and i said yes. We were supposed to go today but he didnt call or text to tell me a time or anything, or he didnt text me to tell me he didnt...