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Dating: Help and advice

Is there no chance we'll get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - I've been in a relationship for two years, on two occasions the guy I'm with (or was with) has contacted an ex when things have been rough between us and then he doesn't disclose this information, until way later. Last week we were having problems ...

Ex on the scene for nearly 6 years! Advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - I split with my ex nearly 6 years ago who i loved more than anything i fell pregnant by him but i was only a kid at the time and had an abortion for both our sakes but it killed us both and it never really worked after that but i was sure then and ...

Why not bask in this love now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have the most unique connection. We've been good friends for over 2 1/2 years, and have had and on again-off again relationships. I worry constantly as to how people perceive me, struggling to comes to terms with how i feel. ...

Ways for us to pleasure each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - Hi ya! Ok, im a virgin and my boyfriend is quite experienced but im not ready for sex yet. ...what can we do sexually other than oral, fingering and sex? ....i really really want to make him soo horny! Thanks x...

Should I give up that easily?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - So i'm dating this guy. he's a year older than me. i've known him for about a year. the whole time we've been friends he was the sweetest guy i've ever met. we just started dating 2 days ago. now it seems like he's a complete jerk. he makes jokes ...

What do I do about this boy I like? It gets me depressed...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - I am 14. I like this person in my fourth hour and we are both in High school. Everyday it is the same thing i look forward to that hour that i get to be with him in but i become extreamly depressed when that hour is over and i know i won't get to ...

How do I find out how she feels?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - Hi Readers. This is not my first time to ask for advice on dearcupid, but the last time I didn't really get any advice that helped me and my problem... Basically, I'm a woman in my early 20's and am, and have been in love with another female...

I can't get my girlfriend's casual past out of my head!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together since 3 months now.I am 26 and she is 24.She's beautiful,sexy,honest and fun. My problem is i cant get over her casual past.It keeps haunting me. She has numerous casual sexual encounters and has tried almost...

Does this teacher like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - ok. so i'm gonna start from the beginning because it's easier. this teacher started at my school, and i fancied him, i didn't say anything to him or anyone else because lets just say he's not the most attractive person going. so then when i fins...

How do I get things to change?

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10 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I need some advise... Please.. For the past two and a half years. I have been "talking" to someone.. Its really complicated because I want to be with him, its like we are boyfriend and girlfriend but its not. We act like it though and we ...

My bf has really changed recently and I don't know what to make of it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - hey i reali love my boyfriend and i never want to break up with him. he means a lot to me so if im going to receive advice on breaking up then please keep your advice to yourself. ive been with him for 3 years and every moment i spend wit...

He won't go to counseling and I'm in debt because of the wedding! What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - i have booked my wedding for next yr am in debt with my half of the deposits, we have 2 kids have been with each other for 4years lived together for 18mths he was abused as a child by a man,at the start it was great lots of love attention and ...

I know he likes me, but how can I push him to ask me out?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - There's a guy I really like and I've liked him since I met him in the summer. He is often in my country but a lot of the time he's at uni in England. We text eachother every day for a few hours and we talk on msn all night. We're really flirty an...

I have no idea what he wants...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - Hello, I met a bloke 3 weeks ago and we've had sex 3 times. He lives about an hour and a half away and we chat on msn and text regulary. I just don't know what he wants and it's too early to put pressure on him. I don't want to get hurt or attached ...

How to ask girlfriend to let me know her plans without imposing on her sense of her own time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

10 October 2008 (M) - I would like some advice on how to get over my anxious feelings when I'm on my own. In the morning and daytime I'm usually busy with things to do, but when my girlfriend gets out of work I really want to see her. The problem is that she's in a job ...

Does he really like me, if he does whats the deal with his girlfriend?!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - i recenlty moved to university, and ive met this boy who also attends here, il jus call him chris, i was chatting to him online 2 weeks befor arriving and we exchanged phone numbers, just so we had a friend when we got here. we went to the beach ...

Do I have a right to be jealous?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - The other day my boyfriend of a year in a half, ask me to go to the movies with him and his two new female friends. I didnt really want to go because I already felt jealous and insecure that these girls were cool with my boyfriend (i know it sounds ...

I'm too shy to admit my true feelings for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - help, well i shy when it comes to admitting my feelings, i dont no why, but i think to myself i will tell him how i really feel, then when it comes to it i clam up and just say i dont feel anything, but if i do tht much longer im going to lose him, ...

My grandmother doesn't let me have a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - my grandmother doesnt allow me to have a boyfriend.and i do.we've been going out for 5 months now and i love him,yes i do.but what i wanted to know is if i should wait till im like maybe 16 reaching on 17 to tell her and that she should meet him.and ...

Why is it hard for parents to let a teenager date?

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10 October 2008 (F) - why do you think its so hard for parents to let a 16 year old date? ...

Does this make me a slag or something?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - im 13 but i look way older. And the other day a guy came and started talking to me and my mate. He thought i was his age and was asking which college i attended. i said i didnt go to college but he didnt believe me. He asked for my number and my ...

Confused about a co-worker!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

10 October 2008 (M) - I work with a woman who is married, but am confused about how she feels about me. This woman always wants to work with me, has baked lasagna for me, and even had a hand in having my office moved next to hers. We went for coffee a few times during ...

Is it normal to not have climaxed yet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for eight months and I know I love him, but I'm not crazy about our sex. Sometimes I'm just really not interested in having sex and nothing he does will get me in the mood. And I haven't climaxed yet. Is this a ...

What do you think he's trying to prove?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - Hi, well I have been with my boyfriend for the past two and a half years. Well our relationship is complicated and I have done so much for him, more than I can explain. From not going anywhere, to doing everything he wants. And well a friend of mine ...

How can I subtly ask if this guy is still interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - hey guys long story cut short, I am dyyying to know if this guy i am completely besotted with and really like, still likes me. I know guys work differently, especially different than women, but I want to find out if he does, he can be weird at...

We were soul mates, but his family, certainly made trouble for us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid: My boyfriend and I have been parted for 9 months now. He has just recently told me on my e-mail to start my life anew, he has done so can I. He never really came out with he was actually going with someone until last month. He just ...

Do I love this guy or am I obsessed, infatuated or what? I'm starting to get really down

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - Well, I don´t know what is this that I feel. I think and feel is love but hopeless one.I need your help. A year and a half ago, delivering phones I met some military guys and one of the was the one who caught my attention. I liked hi...

I always tell me gf where I am and what I'm doing but she never does the same I always have to ask her! Am I being unreasonable??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (M) - ok so here we go. i tell my gf wat im doing and where im going just so she doesnt have to wonder or let her imagination go crazy thinking im doing things. my gf doesnt tell me anything i always have to ask its not so much that im tryyin to be ...

I hate the fact he is in love with this probably normal and perfect girl and his so happy...how can I deal with this??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - Hello all. Ok, I have known this wonderful (I thought he was at the time) Highly intelligent and musically gifted man for 10 years, we met, we had sparks and I would see him on and off with our mutual friends. I knew the first time I saw him h...

Need some advice on this guy at work!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I am looking for some advice, I am a 24 year old female who has never had a boyfriend for various reasons, I have always concentrated on my job just trying to impress etc. plus I have never fallen for anyone and vice versa guy has never fancied ...

How do I get my dad to allow me to have a boyfriend? All my friends are allowed to date!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - so there is this boy and we hang out all the time! i am between the age of 12-14 and he is the same age! it seems like he really likes me but i asked my dad if i could have a boyfriend and he said no your too young but all my friends are aloud to ...

Why would he be like this now? Why say yes, give me his number and seem all set and then just back off? Was he ever interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - I have known this guy for 10 years and we went to school together. We always flirted, got on really well and went to the school dance together but nothing ever happened between us. After school ended we only saw each other a few times at parties and ...

I slept with someone at work but I don't truely love her..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

10 October 2008 (M) - i am sleep with one girld that work in one organization with me trully i am not in love with her but she always said me i need you for my life so i need to be with you always and also plan to work by share with me by franchizing a new bussiness and ...

Am I being pushed out of my best friend's life by the new boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

10 October 2008 (M) - My best friend and I are drifting apart ever since he met his new boyfriend. His new boyfriend is wonderful and all, and has been a great influence upon my best friend and makes him really happy. Before my best friend's new boyfriend we'd hang out ...

How can I start up a conversation with this cute girl??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (M) - Id like to talk to a cute girl but I dont know where or how to start one. Im a freshman and shes a sophomore, we don't have any of the same classes, but I see her from time to time, and we go in the same direction after school. So basically I want...

Is this young woman sincere or is she just playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (M) - Susan(32) is a woman I met last year(September 2007) and we went out for a couple of weeks in Early to mid June. She had known each other for months when we started dating. The dating started when a mutual friend suggested I ask Susan out as Sus...

He has a baby with his ex and when I see them together I feel so jealous even although he's with me now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months now. I am really happy but then comes the jealousy. He has a baby with his ex and I'm so happy for him but when he sees the baby and her, I feel like their old memories are going to come back to light and ...

I want some sort of commitment from her, is her moving in with me the answer?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

10 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for over 5 years now and we have had mostly a very good and happy relationship but there has been one thing that has been missing and that is us living together, I asked her after 2 years if she would move in wi...

My girlfriend is 17 and I'm 21! My other relationships have been more mature, how can we overcame this difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (M) - I'am 21 and my girlfriend is 17. We get on really well together and her mum is fine with us seeing each other etc. The problem is i have had girlfriends before my own age and the relationships have been more mature but i sometimes forget that she is ...

Will I be able to move out of my home (South Africa) when I'm 18 to move to the USA or will my parents be able to stop me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

10 October 2008 (M) - Hi there, I hope someone here can help me with what I want to know. I think I actually already know the answer to my question but I want to however double check and make sure I'm right. I live in South Africa at the moment and am a citizen here b...

I don't think my boyfriend's sister likes me!

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10 October 2008 (F) - I am 20 and my boyfriend is 36. His sisters so called best friend is his ex girlfriend and it seems as if she hates me just because I don't act like her or her friend.. I hate the fact that his sister's friend is his ex because they always talk. ...

He's enlisted for the army and I'm so upset over it. I don't want him in danger...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years has enlisted in the army and I am so worried that he's going to have to go overseas and fight! He enlisted without even telling me, he did it and THEN he told me, he never gave me a chance to tell him how I feel or to ...

I had a bad case of acne, which left some scarring, girls seem uninterested in me, and some say I am handsome, but I think they are just being nice, why won't girls show interest in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

10 October 2008 (M) - I am 30 years old and I feel as though there are no girls interested in me....there will be girls that say im handsom but are they just being nice...or do they mean it....I feel ugly sometimes from my acne scars....why do girls seem not interested ...

Can my boyfriend have lots of female friends without it being something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - Can men and women really be friends only? My boyfriend has a lot of close female friends. I am always suspicious when he hangs out with them alone. These one-on-one dates between him and his female friends take place at least once or sometimes twice ...

Teasing me or is there something more here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - I really like these 2 boys there really hot, one of them gives me mixed signals. I was in flag football n so was his little brother and he pretty much came to every game. He was always flirting with me n I was always flirting back with him, the...

I am in a three year relationship, we now live together, he constantly lies to me, should I continue to live with him, in spite of his lies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - I've been living with someone for about 1 year, and dating for 2 years prior. This man continues to lie to me, to my face, until I hound him to tell the truth. It has been a series of different events, small and large lies, but constant none the ...

My boyfriend is serving in Iraq, he wants me to write him a letter, detailing everything I am going to do to him, when he returns, please give me suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is a soldier and he is in Irak serving .. and he wants me to write him a letter telling him step by step what i will do to him when he gets back.. omg !! I need help ...

I am not interested in doing threesomes anymore, should I tell my boyfriend, I want to stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - confused about threesomes...

I don't condsider him boyfriend material so I want to cut him off sexually but still be friends.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5575 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been having an on/off 'relationship' with a friend who is emotionally unavailable. He is insular and he and not very giving of himself. Recently we've been seeing each other but I feel that it is on his terms. I do not want to be ...

My boyfriend is too over protective.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is too over protective. He needs to know where I am every minute of the day. Im with him everyday of the week. He gets mad if I even go somewhere with my friends or family. Im not aloud to text/talk on the phone while Im with him. He ...

When I think about the fact she only sees me as a friend it breaks my heart in two

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

10 October 2008 (M) - Compared to this girl nobody else I've ever dated or known has mattered. I loved her so much, but I was selfish and broke her heart while I took some time to myself. This devastated her and when I came back she said she didn't love me anymore. She ...