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writes:I Have been dating this guy for a few months and recently I have been living with him. He told me from the start that he wasn't emotionally ready for any commitment, but he told me I may find my way to his heart.......... Reply to this Question
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reader, stefanierach +, writes (24 October 2008):
stefanierach is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your help
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reader, Rima Says  +, writes (22 October 2008):
Well there is hope, slim hope, but hope. And hope is a great thing. Now, for the practical side of things. Forgive me, I am a very straightforward person, so I am going to go right to the tips:
Do you like him? If so how much. If not much, forget him and move on with someone who isnt' confusing you or keeping you hanging. If you love him, well then take the chance, give it a timeline (3-5 months, 1 year if you are patient), if nothing materializes, stick to your deadline, break up (don't cry, it's for the best) and move on.
I think for now this is your best option. Again, the territory of love and relationships is sticky, so many things can happen. If you are not satisfied with this initial tip, post a new question and ask something specific, and maybe I can give you some targeted feedback.
Take care,
Rima Says...cheer up, there are always always always options-:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): The dude's obviously going through some weird trauma and sadly, his opinion of you isn't especially high. He's hoping you'll stick around long enough to convince you to fulfill a life-long sexual ambition of his, such as crap in his mouth or dress him up as a baby and breast-feed him. You should seriously consider an online dating service such as alt.com - people registered there are far more conventional.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): Okay well have you ever thought about what he means by you might find the way to his heart.It sounds like a problem he might have with you and you're are just not seeing it.This is the sort of thing that you and him should talk about in private and figure out how to make him finally fall in love with you completely and leave dear cupid out of it.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (22 October 2008):
 You moved in with someone when they said they dont want a commitment? How did that happen then? I'm confuddled..
C xxxxx
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