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writes:my girlfriend left me one day and went to australia a week later. she has two sisters there. she never verbally told me she was going but i did get a letter stating why the break up and why she had to go to australia. two months past and i went down after her and met her. we had a good time but the same cracks appeared again. drink was a major factor and stupid things r said and done.without drink everything seemed to be ok but she kept holding something back.what it was i do not know .was she seeing someone else? was her feelings for me up in the air?basicly i feel like i wasted my time going to see her maybe i went too soon to see her. but i just can't get my head around what happened.also her sisters got involved and started telling me lies.now don't get me wrong i'm no angel myself and it takes two to tango but what happens when her sisters get involved its more than tango its not fair and we're adults and things should be done civily so i thought.so i had enough and came home to ireland disappointed and bitter . i do still love her and care for her a lot.we spoke twice on the phone already and it was ok.we were together 3yrs so i'm wondering is there any light left at the end of tunnel does she still care for me r still love me r what is going through her head. anyway take it easy and look forward to the reply.thanks . Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so far for yer answers hope the answers work out to what ye have said. i'll keep ye updated thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): It's a common female ploy to see if they can make you dance, part of the dating ritual. Don't dance, just carry on with your life, don't contact her she will be in touch.
You will never know what she's thinking, few women open up like that, though they would swear they do.
Her secret is to know what cards you have and keep hers close to the chest. That way she can control the relationship.
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionforgot to add that she is moving back and fourth between her two sisters and has no job yet and she does not know when she is coming back to ireland. but i'll keep ye posted. thanks again for ur replies look forward to hearing more.cheers.
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reader, Miss Potter  +, writes (22 October 2008):
 The only person who can answer your questions whether she still cares and loves you is her. Give her some space, if she will want, she will come back and will let you know that she wants you back. Otherwise I think there is nothing bad with trying to move on now, maybe pick up a hobby, go on a trip etc, go on a date, any sort of experience now will be a good thing to take your mind off things and maybe give you a better perspective on what has happened.
God bless
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (22 October 2008):
 Its not easy to let a person go when you love them is it?. But from your post, I would say that maybe you should give her some time to see how she feels. You dont say if she is coming back or staying on with her sisters. If she intends to stay there, surely there is no point hanging on. but if she is du to come back to Ireland, wait and see if she feels different on her return.
I cant say if she loves you or not, but if she still talks to you, and keeps in touch then dont give up just yet.
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