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Dating: Help and advice

He told me he did not love me anymore and I am heartbroken.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I was married for 10 years and have 3 boys. I left my husband a year and a half ago and the boys too. I met my boyfriend a few weeks before I left my husband. Our marriage was already over long before this. It was instant attraction. I was falling ...

Could I be pregnant without having sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Ok im probably just being paranoid but im startin to worry a little bit. me and my bf were messin around a few nights ago and i gave him a handjob then he was rubbing my clit later (thru some really skimpy knickers). if he had some spunk residue on ...

Why do I still feel jealous when he flirts or looks interested in another lass??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - ahh omg just really confused i dont understand why i feel this way, i should'nt feel like this. Well supose i better get to the point. right well my ex and i broke up over 1 month ago now, and i have a new bf, but my ex still loves me and wants me...

Should I walk away or should I wait? Is there any insight into my madness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - i dated a girl for about 2 1/2 years and we broke up about 3 months ago. we broke up because she found out that i had cheated on her. she asked me about it one day and i confessed everything. i know you are immediately thinking that i am an assh...

I want her to move in with me, is it too soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for about 8 months. Things are pretty serious, we are best friends, and love each other. I hold a full time job, currently live with my parents, and will be getting my own place soon. Is it too early to ask he...

Partner looks at freaky and/or gay porn. What gives?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I've been dating a great guy since the beginning of May. We get along very well and are currently living together. I have known from the start that he likes porn. I made an assumption that since he had been single for a while he looked at it to ...

3 weeks ago my partner and I split up and I'm going mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Help me I'm going mad, after my 3 week split with my partner, well let's just say he has a new woman, basically I know that they are seeing each other but are not in a relationship yet just seeing how things are going. Anyway about 3 hours ago I ...

I can't get the graphic details of her sexual past out of my head!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - Hi after reading different problems on this site it has given me courage to seek help. I'm 33 and my partner is 25, we met nearly two years ago and things were very confusing for me. She was very open in how she would talk about her sexual past - ...

Together for 2 years but I feel we are drifting apart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My man and I have been together for 2 years, living together etc, but it seems like we're drifting apart. Every day he makes excuses for why we can't have lunch together; he's got a meeting, or he has to be in the field, or he needs to run errands. ...

How can I get her to move past the condom thing?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - Hi All - I've been dating my gf for a little over a year. We love each other deeply, live together, and I know from various sources she wants to marry me one day. Even though she is on the pill, I wear a condom every time we have sex. I hate w...

Best friends become lovers.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My best friend for over 4 years (a guy) and I have recently made the transition from "just friends" to "more than just friends." Over the past couple months, we have developed strong feelings for one another and have become intimate. However, we ...

Vicious cycle: I swore I wouldn't let him in again!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Some advice would be great guys. Until April this year i thought i had control of the situation with my ex. He would ring me, intitate the convrsation etc i never put myself in a painful position after he changed his mind about getting back tog...

Love or the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Eleven years ago i married. we have three children (girls.) He was perfect.....a month after the marriage he changed. Stoped having sex stoped being a husband. drank very heavy. would get drunk pick fights... many years we fought over all ...

Should I dump his ass or give him time to grow up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Okay, so quick background: My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, and have known each other for rougly 5. He's 24 and I'm 23. He's always been pretty slutty when single, (but not saying that I haven't had my share too..) but he seems to ...

Do I need consent from my mum at age 16 to go on the pill? I don't want her to know!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I am with my bf for a year and a half and now we have decided that I will go on the Pill. Is there any way i can do this without my mum finding out? ...

What is the reason people give hickies/lovebites?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4657 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hello everybody, just a small question for you all. How do people give hickies/lovebites and what is the purpose of them? I was just wondering because I haven't come up with a good reason myself as to why people give hickies except for leaving a ...

Should I STAY with my boyfriend even though it's not fair on him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi. I had a really rough weekend, there was this party and it turned up really wrong. Friend invited some boys, there was alcohol and I ended up sleeping with one of them, twice. 30 mins after crying about my boyfriend. He doesn't live in UK, so we ...

What can I do to make him like me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - How do I make him like me again? I had been seeing this guy for a couple of months and things were going well. We have known each other for a very long time and there had always been a mutual attraction between us so when we finally got toge...

Should I stay in my current (troubled) relationship or make myself available for my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - Hello y'all. I have quite a delicate situation on my hands. I've liked this girl for over 6 months until she became by best-friend. After we became my best friend, I found out she had a boyfriend and I tried to cool down since I didn't want her to c...

Why does my boyfriend want to stay friends with this girl when he knows how she treats me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half, and he is still good friends with a girl that used to be MY best friend. He used to like her in 8th grade, but they went out for just a few days (you know how it was back then). He told me she ...

I want to tell him I love him after a year and a half but am afraid of his reaction!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. The problem is neither of us has said I LOVE you. I love him but cant bring myself to tell him because im scared of his reaction. I like the relastionship as it is but just really want to ...

She's decided to give away what seemed to me to be a blossoming relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend of nearly a year told me a bit over a week ago that she was leaving me as she'd accepted a job in the country after going on a trip, and she's leaving in a few weeks. It was a very big shock to me as we had honestly been getting on ...

Should I stop seeing him because I slept with his friend in the past? His friend and I loathe each other.

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20 October 2008 (F) - I have recently started a casual relationship with a really great guy, who I have known and liked for almost a year, we are keeping it casual even though we really like eachother as neither of us is in the right place for a serious relationship at ...

Do I stand up and fight for what I believe in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - okay maybe im writing this because i want you guys to tell me what i wanna hear or see, maybe to get this of my chest i know I'm definity on here cause i got know idea what to do , ive done all the sums and all the possible senarios that could ...

Is she just not interested in me any more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - I have a question... I'm wondering if my girlfriend is not interested in my anymore. Both of Us go to different schools now and I feel like things are different. I'm a good guy and I do anything for her and lately it feels like things are falling ...

Why can he never "finish" when we have sex? Is it me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months, and have had sex 3 times. The first time was the day after he tried blow. The second time I asked him if there was anything I can do, if there was something wrong, etc. He said he didn't k...

What do I say to tell him I really DO want to break up with him for good?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I split up with my boyfriend about a week ago today because I needed space and he keeps texting me every day and it's starting to feel like he's smothering me. I asked him to wait for me while I sort my head out and now I think I have come to ...

My girlfriend and I have very different libido's and come from opposite sides of the fence.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have very different libido's and come from opposite sides of the fence. I feel like neither of us are getting what we want out of our sex life. Is this something that will get better or is sexual incompatibility enough to end a ...

Why is my man being weird about getting physical?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I'm feeling really confused. I've been friends with *Chris* for almost a year. We've been into each other since the first real conversation we had in January and never acknowledged it, thinking it couldn't work because of other forces complicating ...

I want to experience being REALLY loved by a guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Ok here's the thing, I am 21 and single and am wondering if there is something wrong with me... but before anything... I was sexually abused when I was in my teenage years for a long time by a family member. A few years ago I gave my heart to God. ...

I am happy with my partner of 19 years so why does this other man almost consume me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I have been with my partner for 19 years, we are both 35, have 4 children, a happy family life, very satisfying sex life, we are great "friends" as well as partners... I could not imagine spending the rest of my life with anyone ...

He makes me feel second best next to his son.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I am a 48 year old widow who met a man at work. I have been dating this guy for almost a year. He is the one that insisted on us seeing each other and being committed. He plans on marrying me even though he has not asked. The problem is that he has ...

Is my ex saying all this to try to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - When on the phone to my ex the other day he told me that he was with his kinda girlfriend and that one thing lead to the other, meaning did they sleep together? He said that he wasn't going to do anything yet after our split was so recent so why d...

What if he wants to get back with me... should I say yes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi all Bit of help please, me and my boyfriend split last week. He's saying he still had strong fellings for his ex, and that he liked me but didn't love me after 9 months together, thing is she's still with her current boyfriend. My ex and her ...

Does internet dating when I'm already with someone count as cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - Hello I am Roran Cullen (Not real name) and I need advice on a Realationship Problem that I am having right now. I don't usually use internet as my source to get advice. You see the thing is I've been dating my girlfriend for almost three yea...

What should I do to make my breasts most attractive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - What should I do to make my breasts most attractive???? Secondly, my mom urges me to wear a bra. I don't like it and so does my boyfriend. In this case, What type of bra would you suggest??...

Why does this make me feel 2 inches tall?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi, my name is Loriann and I can't get over my husband's ex girlfriends. They were all smart, beautiful, good at every thing and from what I've heard, great in bed. I don't know how to get over it, it just bugs me and makes me feel like I am 2 ...

Why won't he introduce me to his 12 year old daughter?

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20 October 2008 (F) - I Am 22 years old my boyfriend is 33. We have been dating for a year now and I am a secret to his family and daughter. We met online and were both rebounds for he had just broken up with his girlfriend and baby mama of 12 years. As for myself, I ...

I don't want to be used again, opinions needed, is he into it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I am 21, the guy I am seeing is 32 he is my friend's neighbour. He knew i had a boyfriend when he kissed me the first time, i made out with him because my boyfriend and i in a long distance relationship and were falling apart. it is two weeks la...

Is he a dead end OR does he have serious commitment issues that can be resolved ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I've been seeing a guy now for 5 months. (were both expats from big cities in a small foreign country hes been here for 12 years and I've been here for 4. He knows I'm not completely happy here ) we see each other almost every day, which took some ...

I feel like I'm getting the short end of the relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for close to 2 years now. We've had our ups and downs like any relationship. All of my flaws that he disliked, I've worked on for him. I've become a better person. But it's not the same on his part. I've told him t...

I am so insecure about "down there" after he asked me this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Sorry if this is graphic but I have always been a little uncomfortable with myself in that area but now I am so self consious about sex!! My "lips" are large, especially the right side and they are a darkish color, like gray/purplish. My now ex ...

What do I need to do, to make things right again? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My now-fiancée and I have been together for 4 1/2 years (We broke up one time for 6 months – back in 05) So actually only 4 years together. We had taken a couple small breaks in the past, but within the past year, we have stayed together and things ...

Is it wrong for me to just want to walk away? Has he changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I've been in a live-in relationship for three years. In year 2 I became depressed and thought I was losing my mind and I realized just recently that it was because I was in a bad situation. My partner asked me to stop drinking out of respect ...

What are the signs of someone who is bi-polar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - What are the signs of someone who is bi-polar? I swear sometimes I think my b/f has at least a mild version of the disease. We go along for weeks getting along just fine, everything is mellow and sweet between us and then all of a sudden, he just ...

I'm an emotional basketcase here! Need advice on how to recup from this break up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - I'm in an emotional mess and slowly moving on from for all I know, the messiest break up that I have ever heard of happening to anyone. I'm in a doctorate program in a small college town meaning my society of friends are extremely small. Being a f...

He says sex hurts him! Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - my bf is 22 he was still a virgin we've only done it twice but he says it hurts him alot is it normal? ...

My bf kissed a girl from his work..what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and he moved to Australia to be with me 3 months ago. My friend caught him kissing a girl from his work. It was the girls going away drinks and he was really drunk. I don't know if I can forgive him or not, ...

Is she cheating..because I just can't tell for sure! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - So I dated this girl for about two months then she decides we should break up. Her reason is that she just got out of her first hard break up with her first love. She tells me she needs some "me" time and I give it to her. After a week or so she ...

She says she's showing signs of a pregnancy and is threatening to sue me for child support! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

20 October 2008 (M) - I thought I had feelings for a girl but I realized that I didn't after we got naughty in the car. However she was telling me that she was on birth control and that I shouldn't have to worry about it. I didn't ejaculate at all during intercourse and ...

Why doesn't he want to make love to me? I don't understand this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - hey hmmm well ive got a bit of a situation.. here goes: well my boyfriend is 9 yrs older than me, Im 16 and hes 25... Initially, I was really unsure about him, becuase hes older, attractive, sucsessful and intelligent and a genuine caring guy, an...

Very attracted to him, but I haven't had the nerve to ask him if he is married. What do you all think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - As a teacher I am off for the summer. During the school year, I frequent a coffee shop in the morning before going to work. When September rolled around, I met up with the morning gang. This is comprised of sanitation workers, police officers and ...

I would have sex with him, but why does this bother me so much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - ive been dating my boyfriend for 9 months now and we have been talking about sex often lately. we have no problem talking about it and its not hard to tell him what bothers me and when im not ready and such. but every time he asks me if i would (he ...

I don't understand why she's avoiding the issue of my illness..is this too hard for her to bear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (?) - Hello, I have a really good female friend and I am female as well. We have been fighting an attraction between us for over 2 years now. There is no doubt she loves me very much and at the very least I would be her very best friend ever. Anyway ...

Why does my ex bf insist on causing me misery..after he dumped me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Why does my ex insist on making me feel miserable after HE DUMPED ME? He keeps insulting me and calling me names, I already have a very low self esteem and this only makes matters worse. He already dumped me because he said he was fed up with me, ...

He accused me of stealing money from him! How do I get past all this?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I have been seeing a man for two years. We recently broke up after he accused me of stealing money from him. Keep in mind I have handled thousands for him and this is over $100.00. He is an alcoholic and has become out of control. During the past 2 ...

Are we cousins? Please help. I'm confused, hope you're not!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I have a question, please help me? So here it goes, my aunty's mom was married to my aunty's husband, and she has a kid from my aunty's husband, and the kid wants to ask me out, but im afraid that he is my cousin. Does that make him my cousin? ...

Have I sacrificed way too much on this man? Advice is appreciated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Right basically I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now and I feel really annoyed because all the responcibility with everything is put on me and I can't stand it. When I first met him years ago we were friends and because of my drug problems ...

How do I convince myself that he is not sleeping around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - My guy and myself have not been having sex for the past 2 months. We did not even have time to meet for that same period of time. We met a few days back and I was puzzled when he lasted longer during sex which is not always the case. He always ...

I slapped him and he left me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I lived with my boyfriend for more than 3 years. For the period of time we lived together I am always the one initiate sex. I'm always hurt when he postoned to make love to me, coz he is always busy playing cards or playing with his Xbox. I know he ...

My future is very important to me, but I don't think he understands that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I'm a little confused as to what's going on in my relationship right now. Maybe it's partly my fault but I want you to tell me what you think. Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together for four and a half years so far. I would look at it as being...

Why is he so scared of relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - He tells me he loves and protects me, but I still cannot figure out why he's so scared of relationships,...

I'm developing feelings for him, but don't know if he feels the same, please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - i meet this guy about a month ago online but we only went out recently for a date. Date was ok ,wasnt fantastic, but we could carry convertsations well, which i found important, as chatting online with someone and in person is very different. Al...

My boyfriend and I don't argue, is this healthy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - this is a bit of a random one , normally in relationships, i get easily wound up if the guy does something wrong, like if im meant to pick him up when hes drunk and isnt there, i would go mad, and other stupid things that drunken guys do , but w...

I called my girlfriend fat, I apologized, she won't talk to me, will we get back together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

20 October 2008 (?) - My girlfriend (shes 18 and im 19) is through this phase thinking shes fat (trust me shes not). And because of it she wont let me see her naked anymore. We do make do but she lets got to the point where I cant control myself. We have been fighting a ...

A boy I liked a lot, broke up with me, now likes my best friend, what do I do noe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hi . Yeaa Im young , believe me i know it , but it seems lately that everything i hope for and anything that makes me happy , suddenly goes wrong for no apparent reason , i feel like im not meant to be happy :( I recently dated a boy that i reall...

Threesomes are a "must have" for him but I panick at the sole thought! How do I work this out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for months now and have fallen hard for him...and in turn him for me. I want to be with him but one thing that is a must have for him is having threesomes and/or foursomes. While I am bisexual and have been with other women ...