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Dating: Help and advice

I want him to have the freedom he needs but also for us to spend quality time together too.

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8 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years and 4 days ago he split up with me. The main reason for this is because of a problem that has plagued our relationship for a long time. He works away from home Monday to Friday. This means our ...

If he was interested in a relationship, he would have told me, right? Or do I have to pursue him a little more?

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8 October 2008 (F) - This guy and I hooked up one night. I asked him later if it was just a one night thing or if we were going to be casual, or if it was something else. I told him I liked him a lot, and either option answer would be fine with me, but that I would ...

She found it weird having a relationship with me as we were good friends before that, so she finished with me.

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8 October 2008 (M) - Hi I'm 16, I had a relationship with a girl who I think is amazing. She's funny, smart, gorgeous and has a personality to die for, but we broke up because she found it wierd as we were close friends before we started going out. I didn't find the ...

My girlfriend always goes and parties and I stress about it.

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8 October 2008 (M) - My girlfriend always goes parties and I stress about what if she does something behind my back? I trust her but I still don't know why I think that. When I first started going out with her I found out when she used to go out partying, she was ...

How to resolve my recurring relationship problems due to anxiety?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - I hope this doesn't sound too pathetic. I have a problem about getting anxious which keeps cropping up. Basically, my current relationship has had a lot of problems for a long time, and I'm feeling that this will be the same in all my relation...

It's hard sometimes juggling mates and boyfriends and I'm not sure what I want!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - I don't know wether to stay with my boyfriend. Sometimes i think i want to be with him forever and then sometimes when im not in a good mood i feel like i dont want to be with him. Also its hard juggling mates and boyfriends. I just dont know what ...

I got drunk and ended up losing my virginity to my boyfriend, I don't recall this, have I been taken advantage of?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months, a week ago i got very drunk and ended up going back to stay at his. The next morning my boyfriend told me we had had sex. i do not remember this at all and i felt he had took advantage of me as ...

Is everything fair in love and war?

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8 October 2008 (F) - how many people out there actually believe everything is fair in love and war? what are your reasons? do you believe in fate? destiny? my boyrfriend he said fate interfered and brought me to him. things are complicated though, shoul...

Is it too early to tell him I love him?

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8 October 2008 (F) - ok i am 21 yrs old i know this sounds dumb, i am afriad to tell my boyfriend i love him. if i love him i should just tell him, but i am really scared. i am already crying. it was four months ago that he held my hand for the first time, and i guess ...

John now thinks we should start a relationship, but I'm feeling incredibly guilty!

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8 October 2008 (F) - A year ago a guy who used to date my friend (let's call him Joe) suddenly announced that he liked me while we were both drunk at a party. We ended up kissing, but the next day I regretted it and thought that it must have just been a strategy to get ...

Am I making a fuss over nothing or is any of this something to worry about?

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8 October 2008 (F) - Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. I love him very much. The thing is I feel like I'm always proving my love but he isn't. I talk about him on my facebook profile, but he mentions nothing about me, not even that he's in a ...

How different does orgasm feel in comparison to ejaculation?

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8 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has endured a back muscle injury and for the last while has not been able to ejaculate during sex. He said that he is able to orgasm. I am wondering if this is true because according to online information, orgasms without ejaculation ...

I'm committed, but is he?

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8 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years. I love him dearly, and there is no question that he loves me. He's soon to be going through some life changes which include moving to another state (he's never been out of the state by ...

Is there a way to share your sadness with a girl without looking like a wimp?

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8 October 2008 (M) - I went out with my girlfriend the other week and I was really depressed about some stuff going on at home. But instead of telling her about it I just pretended I was having fun. I'm really scared to tell her when I'm sad cause she might judge me ...

My girlfriend always acts goofy, how can I motivate her to be more reasonable?

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8 October 2008 (M) - I like my girlfriend but she can get pretty goofy sometimes! Like one night we were making out and I though she was going to give me a hickie but instead she blew rasberries on my neck. And then another time we were having sex and she karate chopped ...

I love him but how long should I wait for him to make up his mind about marriage?

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8 October 2008 (F) - How long should I wait for my boyfriend to propose to me? We have been together for 2 years now and have had a huge fight about marriage. He knows how important it is to me, and has even led me on about getting married. During our huge fight he ...

This boy and I kissed and my friend spread the gossip so he is now upset with me, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - hi, meand this guy at my school kissed but he is 3 years older then me. i told my friend and she told every one and now all his friends are making fun of him and he tinks that i told them, i have tried to tell his it wasnt me but hes just not taking ...

I am attracted to this man who works at a shop but I am too shy to aproach him. We may work together soon.

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8 October 2008 (F) - i'm 28yrs old, a full time time mum to my gal aged 5. we live above a shop that opened a month ago. the thing is i've fallen for a guy who works there, when i see him i say hello etc but then i clam up as i'm really shy. i cant stop thinking about ...

When we broke up he went on a date with someone else. We got back together, but when I found out I was so hurt I want to break up again!

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8 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 years. We broke up for a week, he went on a date with another girl and then asked me back out. I went back out with him before I found out that he went on a date. I just recently found out and called him ...

She went back to her ex, but asked my friend if I remember her. Does that mean she still likes me?

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8 October 2008 (M) - theres a girl i met a few months ago. we both really liked each other and started meeting up and pulling eachother for a while. she was just broken up from her bf but she then went back to him. hes her first love and she was telling me she was ...

Should I choose the good boy? Or the bad boy?

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8 October 2008 (F) - i posted this on yahoo, so the 3 bottom paragraphs are in response to questions. that is why they are phrased strangely. they are pertinent info though so i left them Went home for my cousins wedding, met a boy, hung out with boy, liked boy, boy...

How to build a family if my husband is too focused on his son?

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8 October 2008 (F) - We started dating almost a year ago and are going to marry. i Love my future husband and have promised him that i will never leave him, because he has been much too scared that i could leave him like others did. I want to follow my words and stay ...

I don't believe he didn't cheat!

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8 October 2008 (F) - Im going to rephrase this question, as Im not seeing any responses yet with the other one. My fiance of 4 years and I have recently just moved in with each other and we both have one child each of our own. I snooped (wrong I know) and found a letter ...

Do you think there is something wrong with him?

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8 October 2008 (F) - Hi guys I was just wondeing if you think this situation is normal. I have been dating a guy for 3 months who is 32. I just found out im his first girlfriend EVER. This explains why the sex was lousey at the start (he was a virgin but never told me, ...

He has been cheating on me, what do I do now?!

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8 October 2008 (F) - I have found out that he has cheated and Im not sure if I can get over it. He has not wilinginly admitted to it and he has been with the same girl off and on for over a year every time we would supposedly break up..which mind you was quite a bit. ...

How can I change her mind about not seeing me anymore. I think I was too slow to propose!

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8 October 2008 (M) - My partner (36 yo - I'm 39 yo) of 3 years just broke off with me again (4th time). She said she was "settling", was quite firm, said for me to make no contact and that we could no longer be friends. However, she said I ticked all the right boxes ...

How can I forget my ex, he was my first love and my fiance.

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8 October 2008 (F) - i broke up with my ex for about 3 months now and he was my first boyfriend. We were engaged and everything! but its over and im seeing someone else but i cant get over him... is it really true you'll never forget your first? i mean when im having ...

Does this message mean he wants to marry me?

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8 October 2008 (F) - I just asked a bunch of questions but I want to know the answer to this one. while he was on the plane he sent me a text saying he would miss me and to keep thinking about everything about us and what we talked about. So does that mean he wants to ...

My new boyfriend's grandfather died. He distant now. How can I support and comfort him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5681 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost three months now, but before then we were total strangers. we are both students in the same university, but different campuses; we don't really spend time together, so there's still alot we don't know ...

I don't trust him and I'm getting paranoid. Can this work?

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8 October 2008 (F) - I'm in love with a man I don't trust. I check his e-mails behind his back, I go through his phone, I am just so paranoid!! I never used to be this way but he cheated once and I just can't seem to get over it. Do you think there is any point carrying ...

He has a girlfriend back home, but he said he has fallen in love with me.

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8 October 2008 (F) - Okay this is my problem: I have been with a man for 8 months now.He is 9 years younger then me,and never told me he had a girlfriend back home that he has had for a year and a half.One day he finally broke down and cried and told me he had fallen in ...

Should I stay over my boyfriend's house while his parents are away? I'm worried he might pressure me to have sex.

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8 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend's family is going out of town for a month. And my boyfreind wants me to sleep over atleast once. We both have kissed each other but didnt have sex yet. I am a virgin and plan to be so till I get married. He has promised that if I come ...

I'm sexually frustrated, how can I help my boyfriend to get in the mood?

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8 October 2008 (F) - Im always in the mood to have sex with my boyfriend, he is never in the mood. What can I do? It only happens 1 time a week. I am sexually frustrated. I need him to want me more! When I talk to him about it he gets angry, so now I just satisfy mys...

How long should a couple be together before "I love you" is said?

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8 October 2008 (F) - I've Been Talking To This Guy For About A Couple Of Weeks Now And I Really Like Him And He Really Likes Me We Started Off Chatting On The Internet And Then Texting And Now We Talk On The Phone Alot I'm Afraid That We May Be Falling In Love With One ...

The man I'm seeing doesn't want commitment and is controling our relationship. How can I get things back on even ground?

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8 October 2008 (F) - The man i'm dating although he has told me that he doesn't want a serious commitment sometimes he is very sweet and friendly. Because we have talked a lot about us i think that i have lost the control of the situation and he is the one that can ...

I'm trying to fight my inferiority complex. How can I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

8 October 2008 (M) - Hi all, This will be a long question, as I need to rant. I have been fighting against inferiority complex for years now, as I grew up in an abusive family. My dad did nothing much else (other than earning money) but abuse me and my mum. So I ha...

I want to marry him, but what if this means tearing my family apart? They dislike my boyfriend.

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8 October 2008 (F) - I recently got back together with my ex bf of a year. I am more in love then ever. I am 20 years old, 2 years into college, and I am having a difficult time telling my parents that we are back together, purely on the fact that he was arrested this ...

Should I emigrate with him? He has shown his cruel and cold side to me, but I want this to work.

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8 October 2008 (F) - Following good advice before i have recently spent some time with my boyfriend who emigrated away from me and life in the UK 18 months ago to be in Melbourne, Oz. During my stay I tried to live as if I was living there - not doing tourist things etc ...

Help! I love a woman but am attracted sexually to a man who I live with!

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8 October 2008 (M) - I am in a relationship with a woman--we've been dating for just over a year now. I am happy with her, and love her very much. However, I am bisexual. This has not been a problem until recently. I live with a very, very attractive gay man who is ...

My manager makes me feel uncomfortable while watching me. Is he jealous because I now have a boyfriend?

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8 October 2008 (F) - I work in an entertainment based job. i see my coworkers every couple of months depending on which show we are working on. At one point we got together and my lead stage manager sort of ran the show, which came out to be a huge success, ...

Who makes the first move?

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8 October 2008 (F) - How can you tell if a guy likes you or not? And if they do should you make the first move or wait for them to?...

How can I make it official without it being weird and awkward like last time?

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8 October 2008 (M) - This may seem like a easy thing to do but how do i ask this girl to be my girlfriend? We met through a friend and talked for about a week before meeting in person, last week we had our first date and it went really well, and we ended up hanging...

We're each others 'first love' and things are great, but he sometimes wonders if we should see what dating others is like - is he right?

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8 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for over 3 years. We are both 20 years old, and really do feel comfortable with each other. We moved in with each other just last month, and everything is going great. We are both each others first relation...

I have a wonderful boyfriend, but I'm infatuated with another guy - why?

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8 October 2008 (F) - I think I have a serious problem and I want to know honest opinions on what I should do. My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 4 years now (I'm in my 20's) and I love and care for him very much (I don't believe I'm in love with him ...

He lies about smoking weed now, I don't want to push him away - how should I handle this?

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8 October 2008 (F) - yea hi am 14 and my boyfriend is 15 going on 16 this month.before we started going out he smoked weed all the time and then he told me he quit.but he still dose it once in a while and its not the fact that he dose it that bothers me, it's the fact ...

I don't want to be seen as her best friend anymore - I want more, what can I do?

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8 October 2008 (M) - There's this girl I've really liked for 2 years right? She considers me one of her best friends. She's so open with me, she tells me EVERYTHING, (bra size, what she does, fantasies, everything). I could do anything and she wouldn't care. But she ...

He's my ex, he's kissed another girl...but he says he loves me and I am still in love with him. Should I wait for him?

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8 October 2008 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend broke up maybe 3 weeks ago or so, and we're still friends and see each other everyday. I am still head over heels for this boy and we were together for a year and 4 months, but sortly before we broke up he was chating ...

How do you fight attractions to the opposite sex when you're in a committed relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

8 October 2008 (F) - How do other people fight attractions to the opposite sex when you're in a committed relationship? I don't want to do anything to jeopardize what I have, but my b/f has a male friend I am strongly attracted to and find myself thinking about him ...

I want her back more then anything in this world, even after shes hurt me like this!

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8 October 2008 (M) - K so where to begin.... me and my ex dated for a while and we were both in love and she truely was and so was i but i didnt show it enough, and one day we got in a huge fight and i said really mean shit , that i didnt mean. anyways we broke up for...

I have images of g/f's past haunting me, and I can't stand it!

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8 October 2008 (M) - Please help me. My gf’s past is haunting me. I have images of it everyhour everyday and its killing me inside! We are in a long distance relationship but I go see her every three months. From the start, my gf has been very honest with her past. Sh...

I want her to be with me but I don't know what to do or say. She feels we're drifting apart. Help please?

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8 October 2008 (M) - I'm 14 years old, my girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 months now. She told me just yesterday that she feels we're "Drifting Apart". She doesn't know what's happening or what we can do to help it. I love her so much and she says she ...