New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244969 questions, 1084326 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in October, 2008, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (27), 2 (39), 3 (39), 4 (28), 5 (32), 6 (42), 7 (44), 8 (51), 9 (42), 10 (51),
11 (40), 12 (54), 13 (39), 14 (51), 15 (63), 16 (46), 17 (33), 18 (30), 19 (47), 20 (67),
21 (55), 22 (61), 23 (44), 24 (43), 25 (25), 26 (46), 27 (65), 28 (59), 29 (58), 30 (55),
31 (27),

Archived questions from: 21 October, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

(More questions from October, 2008)

Dating: Help and advice

Chosing between my friend and this guy I like...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - my problem is that there is this guy who my friend likes. but the thing is that she knows i like him too, and have liked him for two years since i was in the seventh grade and he was in the eighth grade. now i'm a freshman and he's a sophmore. well ...

What are the most reliable tell-tale signs that a man is attracted to a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - What are the most reliable tell-tale signs that a man is seriously attracted to a woman? I've read books, magazines, web stuff etc. etc. over the years and I'm still none the wiser! Sometimes I think a man is attracted to me or fancies me only to ...

How are people attracted to other people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I know this question may sound very dumb, but it keeps coming up in my head....How are people atracted to other people? i like this guy i am very much atracketed to him, and he is atracketed to me. but how? it hard to explain.... feel free to share ...

Is he playing this game because he's wondering if I like him? Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hey there! This last Saturday, I went to Homecoming with three of my girlfriends - all of us dateless - and kind of "bumped" into this guy that I sit next to in Spanish class. During class, he usually will tease me a bit, or at least start small ...

Do I wait for him to kiss me...or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - this guy who i have known for about a month now at college is coming to my flat tommorow, we have been texting each other all the time and we are always flrting when we are together, we are going to watch a film and have a drink!! i want to kiss him ...

She's 'kinda seeing someone'...should I stay interested or just end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I met a girl a few weeks ago and really like her. I asked her out, she said she would love to go out, but she was kinda seeing someone. Understandably I was very disappointed, but a few days later she texted me a random "how you doin?", ever ...

After a whirlwind courtship, he suddenly decided to end it..what happened?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 57, female. I recently started dating a guy whom I met 40 yrs ago. He said he had the biggest crush on me when I was in high school, so we had a couple of dates and he said all the right things, we spent lots of time together...

I'm not sure I wnat to marry her. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - Okay you may remember me, the guy with the fiancee' with the visa. She wasn't sure if she wanted to marry and I didn't know what to do since we only have 90 days to marry. Well now that she is here she does want to be my wife and get married but ...

How come he used me and not her? How do I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I am really depressed and therefore i decided to open my heart to someone as this situation is totally eating me from inside...well last christmas i went for a holiday at a friends to improve my english and met this really great guy. at first i ...

Could I be prosecuted for this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I got in a relationship at the beginning of this year after we had been dating we started to do sexual things to each other a month later I myself turned 16 but we didn't stop our sex life. A couple of days ago we fell out and my partner's parent...

My boyfriend acts like my friend, but that's it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - I really need help! I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over a month, and I thought it was going really well. He always texts me, telling me that he loves me, and when he texts me he says the sweetest things. But then I suddenly ...

I'm not allowed hugs from my friends yet my boyfriend is???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - This is just about my boyfriend. He flirts and slaps other girls bum's, and hugs them and expects me to be fine with it, but then when it comes to me always hugging other people he gets really jealous and comes up and pulls me away and starts ...

Strange vagina!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I am a teen and I have had my fair share of boys, I have messed around like kissing etc and I'll do anything to him but as soon as he goes to touch me I hesitate and tell him to stop. There is a reason for this, I believe I have a weird vagina. ...

A year on and I can't get over my gay boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I am gay, had a boyfriend for 4 years - I went away for a year and when I got back things weren't the same at all - we had totally grown apart, so I ended it. It's now been 7 months and all I can do is think about him - I think about him each and ...

Why is my boyfriend's mate saying he loves me???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hey, I need help. I have been dating my recent boyfriend for 11 months and am very happy with him, however recently we had a stupid argument and split up for a couple of days. During those couple of days one of his best mates started texting ...

I need some female advice....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - sorry, this is a long one.... So, this girl and I at work have become fantastic friends. We only met 6 months ago, but it all happened so quickly, we just tell each other everything, and understand each other so well. She has a long term BF, wh...

Could he get in trouble for dating me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - hi. um, my problem is that i really like this guy who lives next door to me. well that part's not the problem. the problem is that i am only turning fifteen this saturday and that he is turning eighteen in three months. i have no idea what to do, ...

Is it cheating to go out with this new guy? The one I've been dating for months has made it clear I'm not his girlfriend...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating someone for 6 months now. And he definately makes it clear that I am not his girlfriend,he says we shouldnt rush into things. But says if I see anyone else then its over. I just wonder if I should give it more time. And now there ...

I don't want to hurt my current boyfriend so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - ok so i have been with my boyfriend for over two years now and i"ve known him since i was really young. Everything was going good in our relationship and we planned on getting married and having kids in the future like five years from now. Well i ...

Is there any way of telling when you are truly in love?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hey This is just a quick question but it is one i have been wondering about for quite a while now. Is there anyway of telling when you are truly in love ? Thanks x...

Is she playing with me or could she really like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - hello all, there is a girl which i know in my school for a week. first we made eye contact and laughed so i walked to her and talked and i knew her just her name cuz she was in hurry to go in bus. then next time i walked to her but she ma...

Any advice on my rocky relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for nearly five months and it has been the most rocky five months I've had in a very long time. The thing is I always forgave him for the things he did even though he constantly upsets me. I thought he was changing last ...

Should I just accept this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - Am I being unreasonable? My partner and I are both widowed,I am 72 she is 65. We have been together for 11 years and are extremly happy.we bought a house together 5 years ago and we have no money problems.I moved north to the area where my partner ...

He hardly talks to me at school but is talkative and friendly at snowboarding, why could this be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I have a bad problem, im totally in love with this boy, he does kind of know it seen as all my friends told him, but this was a few months back. He is really really shy and he is a professinal snowboarder and does not want a girlfriend. Although ...

I love her, but am now questioning how the relationship began...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - May of 2006 I stayed at my friends apt for three weeks until I found my own apt for the summer. She is a girl, and we both liked each other at different times in our three year friendship. Almost immediately before I moved in, she was broken u...

Does he disrespect me because I was a lap dancer?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together 6 months. Well before i met my boyfriend i was a lapdancer which he has always known from the start of our relationship. I made an innocent comment about dancing the other day, which led him to call me a slag, a ...

I'm pregnant and my situation with the father is driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, I recently came across this site and found reading other people's similar stories really helped and made me want to get views on my situation. I am 21 years old and was with a manipulative man for 5 years (since i was 16), the re...

Possessive boyfriend that makes no sense!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have recently broken up but he seems to be really possesive over me. He always checks my texts and my phone call list to see who i've been talking to. When im out he'll call me up to see who im with and where i am. One day he'l...

Am I being unreasonable with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I really need some advice about whether I'm being unreasonable with my boyfriend. He broke up with his ex (who he lived with for a year)in June 2007 after a pretty rocky relationship - he says she cheated on him four times in the year and I know ...

LDR: What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship. Normally we send eachother text messages in the morning at lunch and in the vening before going to be. Lately I am increasingly feeling that I am putting more effort into it. Sending mor messages calling and ...

Am I taking the right course of action with this girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I am uncertain whether or not I have been taking the right course of action with the girl I think I am attracted to in uni at the moment. Firstly, I have known her only a month now, and I am not yet suree how much I do like her, so I am being ca...

Any ideas on how to handle my self centered girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - A lot of my friends (mainly my female friends) hate my girlfriend because shes too self center (she is working on it and trying to be nicer to everyone). My female friends can be really mean maybe even almost disrespectful to her. They even star...

Should I consider getting back with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago. The main reason was that I didn't trust him and then he moved to another city so that was even worse. He wouldn't text me or call for ages and didn't ask me to go see him or suggest he wanted to come see ...

I'm a 25 year old girl and have the hots for a 60 year old guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hello. I am a 25 year old girl who is completely infatuated with a 60 year old man. Why? He is just so adorable, charming, and very attractive. I work with him, and at first did not care to be in his company because he is so uptight, anal, and ...

We swapped phone numbers, but should I have been more decisive about future plans?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - Real simple. I have just asked this girl out to have coffee with me. When I approached her she met eyes with me and smiled widely. I engaged her in conversation and after a short stroll and more eye contact and smiling I asked her to have coffee ...

My boyfriend is bothered that I'm "beating" him in the career field. Is there anything I can do to support him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in the same profession, and he's been having a bit of a tough time lately. He's someone whose self-image is closely connected to his academic and professional success, and for most of the time I've known him (we met in grad ...

Want to reassure my autistic boyfriend of my ongoing love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I'm a seventeen year old with an autistic boyfriend. We've been dating for nine months and I've fallen head over heels, there's just one problem. Lately I've been having a hard time relating to him. He hasn't ever really talked about being autstic ...

My girlfriend wants to give me oral sex but finds it hard because she was molested as a child... any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - Hello, my girlfriend and I are in a rather unique situation. We've been doing sexual things for just over four months now. I've given her oral and fingered her, and she's touched me. We have never had sex and she has never given me oral. Here's the ...

How do I tell my mum that her boyfriend is my boyfriend's brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hey everyone.. i know that this sounds like something from a tv show, but hear me out please: I've been seeing this great guy for about 5 months, hes 24 and im 22, and we get along really well. Everything is great, like im thinking id want to marry...

Prob. saying no

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I have a small issue, there are quite a few guys that like me but i really don't date i prefer being single but with so many school dances and the like, the guys are pestering me to go with them, but i don't attend school dances. It's too loud and ...

Friends and guys and yea

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - so i have these stupid friends, or so called"good firends" and they treat me as if they dont know me during school. but when we hang out its like we are bff's and its really pissing me off. i feel like i might be annoying them in a scince but i dont ...

Take a chance & ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I've known my friend for about a year now. We've grown really close in this time and love each other's company. I've liked her since the time we started talking and I know that she liked me as well. We've both have had hard times and this has brou...

How early is too early to admit love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I just started going out 3 days ago, and he's already trying to say he loves me! He's 16, I'm 15 and I don't believe that what he's feeling is love yet. I mean it's been a couple days, how is that possible? We hang out almost e...

Advice on giving head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I need advice on giving head! I gave my boyfriend head two times already but I'm not sure if I'm doing it right. since I was shy to get it out of him. I lied and said I was never going to give him head but he said why not? I just want him to be sa...

I want to get over him so badly but don't know how! Help, need some advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - im very upset at the moment over some guy..we were kind of together for about a month..we just hadnt made it official yet. he even said he loved me and how much he liked me..but then things changed and i was basically just his booty call for about 4 ...

I'm in love with this guy, who gave up on me! How can I make him notice me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I really need help. I am in love with a guy that I think may have given up on me. We attend the same college and he has been very nice and attentive. This went on for a year but I just kinda thought he was being friendly (thinking back now, I ...

Is he distancing himself from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Alright, so I will try to explain this as best as I can. But first I will let you know the important factor: it's a long distance relationship. I started dating my brother's friend four months ago, although we live four hours away from each other. I...

Could she have liked me before and changed her mind because I was rushing things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5669 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - She said she didn't like me, however before I asked her out she would try to talk to me all the time and whatnot. Could she have liked me before and changed her mind because I was rushing? And is there any way to get her to like me again?...

I'm confused and I really need you to help me decide what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend sometimes seems like when were not hanging out, it seems like he doesn't like me. Like when we talk on the computer (I know sometimes you can't really tell how people mean to say things) but on the computer, he seems mad at me or like ...

Could my boyfriend be gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating this extremely nice thoughtful almost perfect guy, but I can't help to think that he might be gay. He is 32 years old, has never been married and has very little dating experience. He has some female mannerisms such as crossing ...

Does using tampons mean I won't bleed when I first have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm just wondering, I'm a virgin and I've used tampons for the past 2 years. Does that mean I won't bleed the first time I have sex with some guy?...

He had absolutely no compassion when I told him I was raped.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - While discussing with my fiancee about when I was raped when younger he couldn't put his arms round me and when I cried he just got angry and said we were in a shitty relationship, does he really love me? or will he abandon me?...

I'm afraid of giving a hand job...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5639 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and I'm not very experienced and I'm hopefully entering my first real kind of permanent relationship with this really nice lad. For some reason I am actually really afraid of giving a handjob! Not so much a blowjob because I've done tha...

We're meeting in 2 months time but I don't know if I'm ready for sex yet.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - HI, I'm in a relationship and I use to look at a lot of porn. Now that I'm with her I don't, I told her I use to look at porn all the time she didn't. A little bit maybe 2-3 days into the relationship I did look at porn but it did not seem so good ...

Do any women feel it uncomfortable or painful when their clitorus is licked?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

21 October 2008 (M) - I was just wondering if there are any women out there that get uncomfortable or even feel pain when there clitoris is touched or licked etc. I have been with my fiance for about 6 years now and I really want to know what to do if anything to make ...