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writes: My girlfriend (she's 18 and I'm 19) is through this phase thinking she's fat (trust me she's not). And because of it she won't let me see her naked anymore. We do make out but she lets got to the point where I can't control myself. Only she gain three pronds and to be honest looks more heathier. what's big deal? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): tell her that you love her the way she is and it's what's inside that fell for. not her outside. and that you'll love her no matter what she looks like. and just give her a little time to deal with her feelings about this. i have gone through this before and i only weigh one hundred and ten pounds. but it will pass. just give her tons of support and let her know you'll love her no matter what she looks like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2008): first, how long have you guys been dating?
if it's less than 4 months, give her time. lots.
if its more than 4 months, tell her how you feel. tell her that you dislike the fact that she thinks lowly of herself and that she is gorgeous the way she is.
let her know how it doesn't matter to you what her weight it. you just care for who she is inside.
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