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Dating: Help and advice

Was I wrong to break-up with him? Was I too impatient?

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1 October 2008 (F) - I just broke-up with my boyfriend recently and everything that was said during the break-up and aftwards gives me mixed emotions on what he was really thinking. First he always said, when we had fights, that I am not good for you or you should be ...

Another "he didn't call" question!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

1 October 2008 (F) - Hi all...another he didn't call question...I am the account rep for a company that does business with his company. Both of us are divorced with a child, no problems there. He asked me out to lunch one day and I was unable to go, then he asked me to ...

How should I go about this FWB arrangement?

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1 October 2008 (?) - So me and a friend are talking about messing around. I guess you could call it a friends with benefits thing. (no sex though). and well, i've made out a couple of times but only with one guy. Well my friend (the one that may become a 'friend with ...

I need help! She's driving me insane....

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1 October 2008 (M) - Im 16 years old, and ive just started seein this girl since sunday, the thing is we have always had a soft spot for each other but nothing really came of it, until sunday when i went to see her. So anyway sunday went great got along with her b...

Could he have not liked spending time with me or am I paranoid?

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1 October 2008 (F) - i went for lunch with a guy i work with today, usually he calls or texts me everyday but he hasn't tonight. could he not of liked spending time with me or am i just being paranoid? Im crazy about this guy and dont know what to do, pleae help...

Why has he stopped calling and stopped responding to me?

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1 October 2008 (F) - met this guy in early summer. He was such a sweetheart but my head was somewhere else at the time. We talked everyday but it just was never like that. Then we actually started hanging out and going out things were great i was really starting to like ...

I feel like I'm 'broken' and he won't want me.

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1 October 2008 (F) - I am really having a hard time in this semi-new relationship (4 months)! Both of us have been through hell, emotionally. In short, his first marriage ended when his ex wife left him for another woman and he still has a hard time trusting women. ...

Annoyed with boyfriend needing space....

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1 October 2008 (F) - Annoyed by IM with boyfriend...He's a boyfriend of six years. He wanted more space the last few months. So now we see each other one day during the week and on weekends. I am sticking to the days we agreed to. I had plans for the night on our ...

What's the crack with this 37 yr old guy?

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1 October 2008 (F) - Ok whats the crack with this 37 yr old guy. He's been a friend from the pub i go in for the last 3 months. I went to his for coffee and a chin wag a week ago after he invited me. Basically see him as a friend but wouldn't say no to more if i got to ...

Condoms not only stop aids, they stop pregnancies...

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1 October 2008 (F) - Why do so many people think that if you’re a virgin you don’t need to use a condom? Yes I’m 13 but I know what can happen if you don’t use one… yes I am still a virgin before you jump to conclusions! But the points in condoms are 1) To stop you f...

Do you think he wants more than just friends?

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1 October 2008 (F) - So I was seeing this great guy for about 3 months at the start of the year. Everything was great and we were like boyfriend/girlfriend except we hadn't actually had 'the talk'. He introduced me to all his friends and I got on great with all of ...

If I stop caring for him, he smokes, drinks, and hurts himself. It's really upstting for me. Please help.

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1 October 2008 (F) - Hiya, I'm Becca. I have been out with my now ex 3 times and have always dumped him every time. He is 4 years older than me an i am still friends with him after i have dumped him. I dumped him for these reasons: *He think's he's like the most fashi...

Boyfriend in control....

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1 October 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, I love my boyfriend very much. But when ever I go to visit him or if I go to his house he only wants to play computer games unless were out. Also he likes to control me whenever he doesn't get something when I don't want him to have it ...

Do I confront my boyfriend about being gay?

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1 October 2008 (F) - not really sure where to start but here goes..... i had been with my boyfriend for over 3 years and thought he was 'the one' i then discovered he had stolen all my savings and spent them on some online computer game. i also found out that he had ...

Why am I obsessing over this guy?

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1 October 2008 (F) - Ok I have a problem which some people might think is a waste of time but im really confused and i dont know how i feel. Theres this guy that i cant stop thinking about, I literally spend every second thinking about him and wishing we could be ...

Would a guy get jealous when you talk to other men even when he says he is not interested in you?

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1 October 2008 (F) - Would a guy get jealous when you talk to other men even when he says he is not interested in you?...

I'm lost in confusion...could he still like me?

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1 October 2008 (F) - I'm 16. I went out with this guy (17 y/o) for 3 months - May, June and July. Things were great in the beginning and he had been in previous relationships, but I hadn't. We didn't kiss or do anything like that.. I used to hug only, because as it wa...

Do I need help? Is their something wrong with me? I feel like this is bringing me down!

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1 October 2008 (F) - hi their i have a relationship problem. me and my bf have been dating for over 4 months and we new each other for atleast 4 months before that. we both got out of a relationship 2 months before we got together. sometimes in my mind i wonder if...

My boyfriend of two years suddenly broke up with me with no warning. Now he tells me that he cheated on me and felt I deserved better. We both want to try again.

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1 October 2008 (F) - help, i need advice-- my boyfriend of over two years suddenly broke up with me, after asking for a reason he told me that he had cheated on me last year and the day before we broke, he said that he couldn't go on lying to me, he felt to guilty a...

Should I get rid of the teacher and the girl or do what she asks?

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1 October 2008 (M) - I'm in love with a girl we schooled together, when i proposed to her she accepted my love, then not so long after she got proposed by her teacher and again she accepted! Now she's telling me that if i want her i must get a car and a mobile. should i ...

I messed it up once; do I have a second chance, you think?

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1 October 2008 (M) - OK sorry if this becomes a bit long, but I want to put the whole story across! Thanks in advance for your patience Back in January I was on a work lunchbreak so went to get some food down the road, and whilst I was queuing this girl came in who...

We had sex, then he told me he didn't want to lose my friendship, why? Now we are together and he says he loves me, but it's hard to believe him. I need a confidence boost!

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1 October 2008 (F) - Hey, I have never used this b4 but here goes, i was engaged to this guy and we were together for 4 1/2 years, i got very bored as it was a long distance relationship. he was alot older then me but he looked after me always put me first. Now there...

I;m self conscious because of my sexual history - is there any way to get things back to normal 'down there'?

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1 October 2008 (F) - Okay so I used to party all the time and now i have a bad reputation for being a slut. Im actually a very loving, smart, good person. I regret everything I did and I wish i could take it all back. I think about it everyday and I feel bad about ...

We think he's being used but what can we do to help if he won't listen?

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1 October 2008 (F) - so my guy friend is infatuated with this girl he met about a year ago. he insists that he is in love with her and tells her that almost everyday. the thing is that she has a boyfriend. about her real boyfriend, she's "officially" in a ...

I want to be the girl who stops him having open relationships- but how?

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1 October 2008 (F) - hey,i met a guy one week ago,and he thought that i was hot,anyways,we started talking,and i got to know him better and he is so great,the thing missing is that he doesn't like serious relatonships,because of his past(he has been hurt before)he has ...

She never wants sex, how can I spark her interest again?

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1 October 2008 (M) - I am a 21 year old male in a relationship with 1 girl for going on 2 years now. We plan on getting married in a little over 2 years after we both get out of college. When we started out having sex, it was perfect. Every weekend we saw each other ...

Talking to her on myspace but having trouble approaching her in real life. How can I talk to her in person?

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1 October 2008 (M) - There is this girl i want to date. I added her on myspace about 2 weeks ago. We have been talkin on there. Since then, I gave her my number to txt me but she still hasnt. I havent talked to her in school yet I see her all the time. I never no ...